Why are some people so mean?

No one who truly loves themselves, who are kind, loving and caring toward themselves would ever hurt another person. How you act and react is a pure reflection of how you feel, and especially how you feel about yourself.

Those who lash out in anger are having emotional pain within and doesn’t know that they have the power to change how they feel. Instead they blame that one and that one… instead they argue, they start wars, they hurt, they try to control… instead of focusing on the only thing that works.

Those who constantly find flaws, criticise and dislike… they are not liking themselves, they are not kind to themselves and they don’t know they have all the power within to change how they feel. That is why they think they feel better when they put others down – it feels better than to feel insecure and powerless. But it doesn’t last so they have to do it again and again… instead of focusing on the only thing that works.

You have to begin with how you feel. You have to begin to sooth yourself, value yourself, care about how you feel and learn to love yourself.


“Fuck you” and “Hell no” – so liberating! πŸ˜‚

Don’t give a rat’s ass about what they are thinking β€

“What it really requires is no longer giving a rat’s ass about what others are thinking, because that is what trips you up, trying to please them rather than finding alignment with who you really are”.

Abraham Hicks, 27/5 2017

Rude, hurtful people – just remove yourself from them

When people are rude to you and treat you like shit, remove yourself from them. You don’t need to justify or explain, just leave them and move on with your life. They don’t deserve to be in your life if they bring nothing but negativity and pain.

You deserve to feel good, you deserve to do what feels good to you and you have to listen to your own inner guidance first and foremost – let them think, feel and believe as they choose to. It is completely irrellevant to you and your life. Follow your heart and love yourself unconditionally. Know that no one would ever ever be rude or hurtful towards anyone else if they truly loved themselves, therfore try to view them and their words and actions from a broader perspective. The pain and hurtful words they spew at others is nothing but an accurate reflection of their own inner pain. Whether they know it or not. However, it is not your job to help them change. That is their job. It is always an inside job. You can inspire them to change by caring about how you feel, loving yourself unconditionally and valuing and respecting yourself. And you can do that away from them. They do not have to be a part of your life in order to benefit from your alignment. Just remove yourself and move on!

I love my solitude but I love my time with you even more πŸ’–

You will not get close to me unless I want you to πŸ’–

A wonderful evening with a friend πŸ’–

Tonight has been wonderful. I spent the evening in JΓΆnkΓΆping with a friend. We went to a cafΓ© where we relaxed for a couple of hours.

Then we moved on to my favourite diner.

It was a really nice evening, we had a lot of exciting things to talk about. It is always so nice to spend time with her. πŸ’–

Oh yes 😎

I love them all πŸ’–

πŸ’™ I blossom and thrive alone πŸ’™

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