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You are never limited by your past experiences

Enjoy who you are becoming, don’t be afraid of change – embrace it! You do not have an obligation to be the same person you were yesterday, a month ago or 10 years ago – you can continue to change, improve and become more and more of who you truly desire to be.

You do not have to be a grumpy toad just because life has been hard – you are never limited by your past experiences, see them as beneficial ground to grow from. You can become more confident, more happy and more free because of all the hard times.

So, ask yourself the important question: “Who am I wanting to become?” and start improving your thinking to match the desired vision of who you want to become.

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You have an important choice to make, a choice that will improve your life immediately

You always have an important choice to make because no matter what is going on you can choose to make the best of it. When you choose to make the best of it, your now will improve and if you keep making the best of it, your tomorrows will improve as well.

The clearest of days with the most beautiful warming sunshine might be a wonderful reason for you to feel good for a while… but keep choosing to make the best of your day no matter the weather, no matter what goes on around you and no matter who you are with.

It is not the weather, it is not the people around you or their actions, it is not even your own body’s shape, size, figure or health that makes you happy or not – it is your choice of focus. Will you please try to make the best of it, wherever you are?

A really nice evening 🍔🍟

Tonight I went out with a friend for a couple of hours. We went to “Texas Longhorn” in Jönköping and ate delicious food. I absolutely love burgers and fries, and the burger I had tonight was perfectly divine.

The weather has been incredible today, over 18 degrees celcius all day. A couple of days ago it was -7 degrees and snow… however it was a bit colder during the evening so I wore my black winter boots and my black leather jacket when we went out.

Dream your way to success

You can be the exception. You can be the one who thrives in hard times, the one who smiles and feel hopeful regardless.

There is no need for evidence before you believe, just use your imagination and envision the satisfying outcomes you desire and take pleasure from that. Let it be enough for now.

When you manage to feel hopeful even in really dark times, you are open to the solutions and you will begin to attract all sorts of exciting situations, people and events that will lead you closer and closer to your desired outcome.

Use your own dreams and desires as your guiding light out of the darkness 🌟

You are on the right track, keep moving in the direction that feels like relief to you. No one else needs to understand your journey, nor can they – only you.

We all want different things in life, we all desire different things. Use your own dreams and desires as your guiding light out of the darkness. Let other people follow their own paths in life that bring meaning to their lives while you allow yourself to listen to your own guidance.

Life will be as meaningful, joyful and satisfying as you allow it to be.

Lovingly say “fuck this shit” and live happily ever after

It is so beneficial for you to learn to prioritize. When people are mean to you, choose to walk away. When people say hurtful things about you, let them ruin their own energy – choose to focus on people who support you and appreciate you instead.

There is no value in pushing against, trying to defend yourself or trying to prove to them that you are innocent – they don´t really care about you. They care about their own misalignment, that is why they are so drawn to putting others down and hurting others – it makes them feel better for a moment. They depend on others in order to feel better which is insanely debilitating. Why would you ever let their own insecurities and misaligned energy be a reason for you to feel bad as well? Don´t give them that satisfaction, take your power back by realizing you are the only one in charge of your focus, your perspective and therefore you are the only one in charge of how you feel.

All things that bother you are insignificant relative to what really matters in life! Just say ” fuck this shit”, and live happily ever after.

Give yourself the gift of a pleasurable moment 🌹

What can you do right now, that will make you feel good for a moment? Perhaps eat something delicious, take a warm bubble bath, listen to your favourite music, call your best friend or watch a fun movie?

Another thing that you can do, which is a really effective way of boosting your mood and giving yourself a pleasurable moment is to fantasize. You can do this anywhere, while you lay down, while you sit, while you stand or while you walk. All you need to do is to visualize a pleasurable scenario and play out something you truly desire. Think of who you want to meet there and what you would love to experience in that moment. Anything you desire can happen in the exact way you like it so take some time to truly enjoy the moment.

Notice how a moment in your imagination allows you to feel better. Let this become a daily habit that you let yourself enjoy a few times during your day. What will you choose to dream about today?

Everything we do, say and think builds up who we are – who are you choosing to be?

You can be the happy person you desire to be, even in the midst of a negative situation when you are surrounded by negative people. How they feel and what is happening need not affect how you feel, unless you choose to make it a part of your story.

Everything we do, say and think builds up who we are and the story we take part of. Do you want to be happy or sad? A complainer or an appreciator? A judge or a forgiver? A negative person who sees flaws in everything, or a positive person who chooses to see the good in everyone and everything?

Don’t just mindlessly follow the paths in life that others choose, don’t just look around and react to everything you see – be selective! Let your guiding star be how you want to feel and choose actions, thoughts and words that supports the happy, confident, free, positive, loving, caring and forgiving person that you truly want to be.

Be who YOU want to be

Dare to be YOU, in all your uniqueness. Let your colors shine bright, follow your calling in life and live out your passionate desires.

Life is way too meaningful to just live in order to please others, so stop! You don’t have to fit in or choose the same things as society at large does – you have to listen to what calls YOU and follow YOUR bliss. Don’t be afraid of their opinions, you don’t need their approval or disapproval in order to know how to live your life! Live life in ways that please you and that make you happy. That is how you live a meaningful, happy and fulfilling life.

“How the fuck can you have a positive attitude when someone hurts you so bad it brings you to your knees”?

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Well, what choice do you really have if you want to feel better? Seriously, there are only two choices: 1) Choose to feel like a victim, powerless and sad. Complain about what happened, repeat what happened in your mind again and again and keep yourself stuck in the pain. 2) Choose to allow yourself the time you need to heal emotionally while you, at the same time, start working on how you view yourself and what happened to you.

There is always value with everything that happens – it just depends on how you look at it. Even if someone has done something really bad, you can still choose to let this experience and the behaviour inspire you to build your inner strenght.

If people were always kind to you, and if everyhting was always really pleasing to you, you would never need to challenge yourself to grow as a person. However, if people treat you in hurtful ways and if life gets really tough, you have an opportunity to grow as a person. You can become happier, more confident, more free and more in love with life because of all the hard times. Never let someone else and his behaviour be the reason you dim your own light! You have a choice! Allow yourself the time you need to heal emotionally and then begin to shine brighter because of the experience.

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