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When you make a choice β€

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You are loved, important, capable and so blessed β€

🌟 You are the personification of source πŸŒŸ

They are not victims!

It can feel really hard to see a loved one go through difficulties. Especially if they withdraw and donΒ΄t want to change. But you have to remind yourself that they have equal access to source as everyone else on the planet, and they have equal access to the ever present guidance that flows from within – all they have to do is want to feel better and they will begin to hear it.

You cannot make them change their mind, that is not your job. You cannot arrange everything around them in pleasing ways so that they will feel better – feeling better has to come from within, otherwise they grow dependent on seeing pleasing things around them and will not have a stable emotional balance to stand on when bad things happen.

It is not your job to make them feel better, however, you can be of immense value to them by teaching by your example! Be the stable, loving, good-feeling, shining light of unconditional happiness that you truly are and see them as the free and empowered being you know they really are. They are not victims! They are strong, capable, free and empowered beings who have temporarily lost their emotional balance because of the way they have been thinking and focusing. But they CAN do something about that! And when they begin to realize that, they will begin to get their sense of freedom and empowerment back.

How to solve all your negative, emotional patterns

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Sometimes all you need is to take a step back, take a deep breath and allow yourself some time to relax. You are the main character in your life and even though people around you might want you to do a lot of things for them – you have to decide whether you want to do these things or if you want to do something else.

There is no value in trying to please everyone at work, at home and all your friends while you burn your own candle at both ends. Give yourself a moment to relax and find your own inner peace. Ask yourself what matters most in life for you. What do you want to do with your life? How do you want to live? How do you want to feel? Begin in these general terms in order to generate general answers – it is a lot easier to begin in a general way if you have been in a negative emotional place, too caught up in the specifics of the situation. So, keep going general in your questions: What matters most to me at work? How do I want to feel at work? What do I enjoy most? Continue to ask general questions about the topic you are thinking about. If it feels slightly off, then you have gone too specific too soon. Just back away again and think about your life. What matters to me in life? What brings me joy in life? And so on.

You don’t have to solve all negative emotional blocks all at once, nor can you. It is enough that you give yourself a gentle, relaxing break mentally and that you go more general in your thinking until you feel better.

The one you judge most harshly is usually yourself – how to be more unconditionally loving β€

The happiness and love you seek is within you β€πŸŒ±

You don’t need anyone else to approve of you, you don’t need anyone else to support your choices and your paths in life. The approval and support you need, comes from within.

You don’t need to feel loved by others in order to feel loved – love is an inside job, it all starts with you. ❀

Who decides in you life? You do!

  • Who decides if what you wear is beautiful or not? You do.

  • Who decides if what you eat tastes good or not? You do.

  • Who decides if what you do is fun or not? You do.

  • Who decides what choices feel best to you? You do.

  • Who decides what feels right or not for you? You do.

Give yourself more credit! You are such a worthy, magnificent and capable being. You have inner guidance – the most accurate guidance in the world for you – an that guidance is with you at all times. It is time for you to start listening to your own inner voice, trusting yourself and most importantly follow what feels good to you and start caring about yourself.

Hurtful actions comes from inner pain πŸŒΉ

🌹 The refreshing freedom of being who you want to be πŸŒΉ

You are magnificent, just the way you are. You are unique and beautiful, talented and worthy of all things you desire.

Love yourself completely, unconditionally. Embrace who you want to be and allow yourself to blossom into your full potential. Allow all others to follow their own calling in life as well. 🌹

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