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A really nice day ☉

Today was an awesome day. I had a lovely early morning with my babies and then a really good day at work. My students are so much fun to work with and it is absolutely magical to see them beginning to believe in themselves. It is such a rewarding job.

My co-workers were so nice, they surprised me with a slice of pizza while I was helping a student on my lunch break. So thoughtful. 🌸

But the best part of my day was coming home, changing clothes and spending the rest of the day with my babies.

  • What did you enjoy most about your day?
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An awesome day at work

I have had the best day ever at work. I had so much fun with my magnificent students, they are so much fun to work with.

I forgot my lunch but my boyfriend came and surprised me at work with my favourite burger and fries.

It was a really productive day at work, I got so much done and everything just worked out so easily. But the best part was of course when it was time for me to go home 😊.

I wore my winter boots again because it is insanely cold here for being almost May. But I still use my spring jacket so it is just an insanely cold spring. 😊

  • What did you enjoy most about your day? 🌸

How to solve all your negative, emotional patterns

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Sometimes all you need is to take a step back, take a deep breath and allow yourself some time to relax. You are the main character in your life and even though people around you might want you to do a lot of things for them – you have to decide whether you want to do these things or if you want to do something else.

There is no value in trying to please everyone at work, at home and all your friends while you burn your own candle at both ends. Give yourself a moment to relax and find your own inner peace. Ask yourself what matters most in life for you. What do you want to do with your life? How do you want to live? How do you want to feel? Begin in these general terms in order to generate general answers – it is a lot easier to begin in a general way if you have been in a negative emotional place, too caught up in the specifics of the situation. So, keep going general in your questions: What matters most to me at work? How do I want to feel at work? What do I enjoy most? Continue to ask general questions about the topic you are thinking about. If it feels slightly off, then you have gone too specific too soon. Just back away again and think about your life. What matters to me in life? What brings me joy in life? And so on.

You don’t have to solve all negative emotional blocks all at once, nor can you. It is enough that you give yourself a gentle, relaxing break mentally and that you go more general in your thinking until you feel better.

🌸 Say no more often – valuable attention, benefical work and satisfying love 🌸

Don’t do things that feel off to you – don’t just smile and say yes when every inch of your being wants to scream no! Say no and walk away! Honor yourself, care about what matters to you. Listen with love to your body’s messages – if it feels off, it is off.

There is no value in forcing yourself just to please othersstart being real, listen to your inner guidance and follow what feels better to you.

The attention, work and love you give from a place of feeling good and honoring yourself, that is valuable attention, benefical work and satisfying love.

“I want to quit my job” Yes I am very sensitive – it is a gift ❤

Today I got some hurtful criticism from my boss that brought me to my knees. At first I was furious because it felt so unfair. And now I just feel sad about it.

My co-workers were so supportive of me and tried to sooth me back into feeling better. They were on my side and thought my boss had acted without taking the time to get all the facts straight first. I used to think he was a supportive boss but right now it feels far from that. Even the thought of resigning from work has occured to me tonight.

But, I will work on regaining my emotional balance again by focusing on the bigger picture. He really does mean well. He really does know I do a great job. He cares about his teachers, he wants them to feel satisfied with their work. I do feel rather good about having him as my boss. He cares a lot about his students. He wants our students to succeed and feel good. He also wants to do a good job and meet the expectations of others. I think I understand him now, I see the bigger picture. I really do value his caring and his decisiveness. 🌹

It does feel better. I feel like I can breathe again. Writing is one of the best ways I know to find relief and feel better.

  • How do you deal with criticism?

I want to stay at home with my babies forever ❤❤

Relaxation, relief and rest. Those words describe my Sunday night. I am so happy I will be home with my babies an entire week now until I have to get back to work again. I wish I could stay home with them forever. ❤❤

  • What was the best part about your weekend?

You will be more clear, more effective and of more value to those you interact with 🍀

Remember to relax and rest through out your day. Not just phtsically but mentally. It is so easy to get caught up in the desires and wishes of those around you at work and at home or to let your own demands on yourself get too heavy.

Remeber to pause and find your balance again. Stress is not good for your mind or your body. It is not worth it. Just pause, breathe and relax mentally. Look at it from a more general perspective and prioritise.

You have to value yourself and how you feel first. If you feel good you will be more clear, more effective and you will be of more value to those you interact with as well so it is a win win situation.

A fun and intense day at work

This has been an awesome day at work. I have had lessons with my students all day and I have even had some extra time with a few students who really wanted some extra help. 

I love working as a teacher! It is so fulfilling to inspire people see their own possibilities. You get so much back from others when you strenghten their beliefs in themselves.

But now I am tired 🤣. I have slept 1-3 hours each night this week and I am so focused when I am with my students at work and when I am home with my two little babies.

Right now I am choosing to sit down and listen to an audio book we are working on in a class. This will be what I do my last hour at work today before I go home to my babies. ❤

Work – a time for enjoyment, upliftment and fun

A relaxing afternoon at work

Today I have had my last lessons for this year (!!!). This afternoon I spent 3 hours listening to an audio book that our boss wants us to work with. It was a lovely, relaxing afternoon. I adore days like this!

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