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My purpose with my blog is to share what I did to turn my life around. This is where I share my thoughts and my beliefs – all the things I wish someone had told me before all my difficulties began. ❤ I want you to know that no matter what you have been through in your life or how difficult it might seem at the moment, you CAN improve your thinking and therfore improve your entire life.

❤ Thank you all for liking, commenting and sharing my posts. ❤ It feels so good to write and post here, this is my safe haven, and it feels even better that so many of you feel inspired by my posts. 🌹🌹🌹


“What if my one true love leaves me?”

Then she was not your “one true love”. There are millions of people out there in the world who are looking for someone exactly like you! There is no such thing as only one “soul mate” or “the one and only” – you can have the most satisfying relationship, a relationship where you are both equally in love and finding eachother your soulmate, you can have that experience with many different people.

It is never too late, you are not a hopeless case. If it didn’t work out then you just havent met her yet.

But, do you know the best way to meet your soul mate? By working on how you feel! By falling in love with yourself. By caring about yourself and learning that you don’t need another person to be complete! You are already complete on your own. You don’t need another person to be happy – happiness is an inside job. You don’t even need another person to feel love – love is an inside job. And by always looking for the best in others, always focusing on what you like in others and by practicing unconditional love – now you are a match to true love and you will attract it.

Let the person you meet enhance how good, empowered and loving you already feel – and this will be the most satisfying relationship you have ever experienced!

Love does not diminish over time – love, joy, passion and desire gets stronger and more delicious over time. ❤


Cheating = you are not in love



Love the wrong people?❤


He was unfaithful – how did I feel better again?

8 years ago I found out by accident that my boyfriend had been with another girl – and that he had lied about it for more than a year. At first I became totally emotionally numb for like 6 months. Then I started caring more about ME, what was important for me, how I wanted to FEEL. I completely let go of trying to control anything and focused more on general principles like “I want to be with a man who loves me, adores me, is attracted to me and truly wants to be with me” “if he leaves, then he is not a match to what I want anyway – I want someone who WANTS to be with me, only me” – I still have that attitude. 

Do I really want to live in a relationship where I have to control what he does, who he is with etc? No – I want to be with someone who WANTS to be with me. If he wants to be with me there is no need to second guess anything because it is ME he WANTS. 

We can’t force someone to treat us as we want them to – we can know how we want to be treated and know there are men out there who can gives us just that. Just like there are men who loves to be with more than one girl, there are men who loves to be with only one girl

Don’t give up on love or happiness just because of infidelity. It can be your opportunity to tune in to who YOU want to be, how YOU want to FEEL and it can be a golden opportunity for you to start loving yourself unconditionally. Yes, it can be your opportunity to find your way into your own freedom and empowerment. Whether you stay or go is irrelevant, you can do this either way. ❤


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