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Give yourself permission to be the badass you were born to be πŸ’–

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Never change yourself in order to fit in to their version of how life should be lived

Let them follow their own truth. Let them believe in what works for them. Never ever compare yourself to them or change yourself in order to fit in to their version of how life should be lived – we are not supposed to be the same! We are all unique, not just in appearance and personality – but in our preferences, desires and beliefs as well! That is why your choices have to be made while listening to your own inner guidance, not the opinions of others.

Honor yourself by saing NO if it feels off to you β€

Be kinder to yourself! Don’t force yourself to behave in ways that please others – honor yourself by following your inner guidance. 

If it feels off to you, it is off! It doesn’t matter if every friend you have thinks you should do it or if your boss or your lover wants you to do something – if it feels less than good to you it is detrimental to you. 

Whenever you do something you don’t really want to, you are hurting yourself. It is actually more benefical for you to be “rude” and say “no, I don’t want to do it” than to swallow your resentment, go against yourself and do it even though you don’t want to – just to please someone else.

It is time for you to start liking yourself, caring about yourself and start valuing your desires and beliefs. When you care about yourself and your wellbeing first, you will be of most value to everyone else as well

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