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Too kind, too trusting and too forgiving? No, these are really beautiful personality traits 🙏❤️

Yesterday something happened that made me stop and think. I did something really kind for someone else, I helped a person who was in need and he became so grateful and happy. But afterwards it dawned on me – I did not think about my own security when I helped him. What had happened if he had wanted to hurt me? I was alone with this person for almost 30 minutes and I had forgotten to bring my phone and only one other person knew where I was and who I was with.

Of course I thought this person was kind, respectful and friendly… But I really don’t know this person. For me it came naturally. He was in need, asked for my help because he had no one who could help him right then and there. My first thought was of course I want to help you, I want things to go well for you – and it turned out great. I helped him and he succeeded.

Is there such a thing as being too kind, too trusting and too forgiving? My co-worker thinks I am too kind. Maybe she is right but I really don’t want to change who I am. I believe in the goodness in people. I believe everyone just wants to feel good at their core. If people hurt others, drink, take drugs, argue, rape, beat or take any other negative actions – I believe they do so because they are only acting out their own inner pain, their own misaligned energy. We are all good people on the inside at our core and I will always believe people can change if they want to. I forgive with all my heart because I don’t judge, I try to see the broader picture.

My kind heart has brought me so far in life and given me so much joy. And yes, I have also been in situations that were awful and that almost broke me. But I don’t believe my kind heart is to blame, I believe my kind heart is the reason why I have overcome and found my way back to happiness again.

So yes, while I probably should be more careful around people I don’t know, I will continue to believe in the goodness in others and their intention while at the same time listening to my own guidance.

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Dream your way to success

You can be the exception. You can be the one who thrives in hard times, the one who smiles and feel hopeful regardless.

There is no need for evidence before you believe, just use your imagination and envision the satisfying outcomes you desire and take pleasure from that. Let it be enough for now.

When you manage to feel hopeful even in really dark times, you are open to the solutions and you will begin to attract all sorts of exciting situations, people and events that will lead you closer and closer to your desired outcome.

You can feel better again, no matter what you have been through 🙏

The most beautiful spring flowers blooms even after the coldest and darkest of winters.

There is always hope of a better tomorrow, no matter how bad things might seem at the moment. It is so valuable to talk to someone who has experience of what you have gone through. It is so benefical for you to hear that it is normal to feel like this and there is something that can be done about it – you can feel better again, no matter what has happened to you.

Helpful, caring and kind people are everywhere, people who truly want you to feel better. People who want to be there for you on your path to feeling better and who have lots of valuable information on how to feel better from where you stand. Open up your eyes and embrace the helping hands that are here for you.

Kindness and love can purify even the darkest of hearts

Kindness and love can purify even the darkest of hearts. No matter the situation, no matter what he did – when you find it in your heart to forgive him unconditionally, the healing will begin automatically.

When you respond with kindness and love, there is a win-win situation because everyone benefits from that mindset.

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