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A relationship more satisfying than anything you could ever imagine πŸ¦‹

You don’t need a hero to rescue you, you don’t need a prince charming to come and sweep you off your feet.

What you truly need is to learn how to value yourself. The love, approval and guidance you desire need to come from within – otherwise you will not be free.

Once you have learned to value and love yourself, unconditionally, then every other relationship you have will be satisfying beyond anything you could ever imagine. It begins and ends with you.

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A meaningful life – right here, right now

When you hear the phrase β€œA meaningful life”, what do you think about? What is a meaningful life, for you personally? I believe there is no right or wrong answer to that question because it will mean different things to every single person on the planet. We all have our own unique desires, beliefs, expectations, passions and callings in life.

To me it means a lot of different things. If I died tomorrow, I would still be satisfied with my life and everything I have experienced. I have lived a meaningful life in more ways than I can count, already. It would be great if I got a few more years to have fun and continue to enjoy life in ways that call me, however I already feel satisfied and at ease. These 6 aspects are my favorite aspects of a meaningful life:

  • A big part of a meaningful life for me is to help other people, to inspire people to see how wonderful and capable they are and to inspire them to discover their own empowerment and happiness.
  • Another part of a meaningful life for me is having my two little babies and taking care of them. I love them more than anything in my life and I want them to grow up feeling free, empowered, happy and in love with life.

Those two aspects are the biggest ones when it comes to a meaningful life. However, there are thousands of other things that also give my life a deep meaning, here are some of my favorite ones:

  • Eating and enjoying delicious food – this gives me so much satisfaction in my life. I love food, and I love listening to my cravings and giving my body what it wants and needs to thrive.
  • Working out and loving my own body. I have begun to truly love my body, its shape, its health, its flexibility, its stamina – everything about it. I love to work out, to feel my muscles work and see how toned and beautiful my body is. I believe that how you feel about yourself will affect everything in your life, especially your happiness.
  • Sexual attraction, passion and desire – these are all very big parts of my life and they all give me so much meaning, happiness and energy. These aspects are as vital to me as the very water I need to drink and as important as the food I need to give my body in order to survive.
  • Lastly, it gives me a lot of meaning to write and read. To express my emotions and thoughts into words, that is my calling in life.

What things would you say are your favorite aspects of a meaningful life?

If you want it – work for it and believe in your dream

β€œPearls don’t lie on the seashore. If you want one, you must dive for it.”

– Chinese proverb

One of the most exciting things about life is that all possibilities are here for you. What do you desire most in life? What would bring you the greatest happiness and satisfaction? What things are you drawn to?

When you work on what you secretly desire – whether it is to find your dream partner, to get the job of your dreams, to get fit and toned or what ever it might be – and you put in the extra effort and keep believing in your dream, you can achieve it.

Sometimes the road to your desired outcome might be rough, but the satisfaction in the end once you reach your destination will be worth it all. And as long as you have passionate desires within you, there is life force that calls you forward. Desire with belief is the sweetest experience in life.

Have you found your dream partner yet? πŸ₯°

How do you know if the partner you are with is “the one”?

I belive there are millions of potential dream partners out there for you. Anyone of them is “the one” for you. I don’t believe in the notion that we only have one soul mate – I believe anyone you choose to be with has the potential of being your one and only true love. It is a matter of perspective really, and you are in charge of your perspective.

You can choose to look at what you like with the other person and enjoy that, while you at the same time have a loving unconditional perspective of this person as a whole. Everyone has wanted and unwanted aspects, and you can choose what you feel comfortable with and what you don’t feel comfortable with. Ask yourself if you feel good when you are with your partner – if you do, keep enjoying it. If you don’t, move on.

Respect yourself and your partner enough to value how you feel together. If you feel good together, great – keep enjoying your relationship and focus on what you like with eachother. If you don’t feel good together you have two choices:

1) stay with this person, talk about it and work together on improving your relationship.

2) Leave this person but be thankful for the experience you had together. Keep focusing on how you want to feel in a relationship and how you want it to be. Move on with appreciation in your heart and what comes next will be so much better.

Make your own “fuck-it list”

1) Stop caring about what other people think – this is your life and if you want to feel good you have to care about how you feel and what YOU want.

2) Start valuing yourself – listen to what calls you, live out your good-feeling desires and again, care about how you feel.

3) Don’t feel embarressed or ashamed! Do what you want, be playful and allow yourself to enjoy the fun in life.

4) Don’t create a home and a lifestyle to fit in to the expectations of others – you don’t have to live and do as others want you to, you don’t have to own a house, a car, get married or have children if that doesn’t call you! You don’t have to have the perfect garden or the biggest cleanest house either! Allow yourself a fun and satisfying lifestyle!

5) Fuck the “you have to be proper” mentality! Wear the sexy dress, enjoy your body and live out your joys, your passions and your desires.

6) Stop comparing yourself to others – allow yourself to be inspired by others while you love and honor yourself in all ways possible. Allow yourself to be you in all ways that please you.

7) Stop the self hatred and self criticism!!! Just stop all the negative thinking and all the negative conversations about yourself and gently replace that with better feeling thoughts about yourself. Make it your life goal to learn to love yourself unconditionally. No matter what you look like, what you have been through or what you have done – you can learn to love yourself and that will make all the difference.

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Most importantly – don’t follow other people’s lists or advice blindly – listen to your own inner guidance.

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