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Let go of your negative attitude and begin to ENJOY life

Start having more fun in each moment! Your purpose in life is to enjoy your journey in ways that call you.

  • Let go of your complaints – choose a slightly more optimistic perspective.
  • Let go of your guilt and of your insecurites – choose to begin to love yourself unconditionally.
  • Let go of your anger and jealousy – choose to enjoy the moment and look for things you appreciate with everyone and everything that happens.

There are so many good-feeling, little daily things you can begin to do. Be kind and gentle with yourself as you start improving your attitude, begin with the easy things and have fun with it! 🌹

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Who and where you are is perfect ❤

My career is living happily ever after ❤

A strong and freeing message

No more mindless people pleasing – start mindfully loving, honoring and caring about yourself. Listen to what calls you, listen to what feels good to you and find your own emotional stability. Then choose to flow love and appreciation toward others as well from that stable emotional place. But find your emotional balance first, never let it depend on others’ opinions of you.

You are not the likes or the dislikes of other people. You are not what they say you are – you are what you choose to be. Decide who you want to be and how you want to feel, put all your energy into that and never ever second guess yourself again because of other people’s disapproval.

You are strong, you are beautiful, you are smart, you are talented, you are free, you are empowered – you are what you say you are. Lovingly embrace yourself unconditionally and begin to love yourself. You are loved simply because you exist, there is nothing you need to do, should do or have to do. This is your life, you are the main character in your story, choose to live your life in ways that please you. Allow others to follow their own bliss aswell. No judgement, no right or wrong. Simply choices. ❤

How to have the best most satisfying relationships

“For now, start your new relationships in a new way. Indeed, start every relationship in a new way. You can do this each day…for each day, every relationship is a new relationship.

You are capable of recreating yourself anew in every golden moment of Now, and you are creating every relationship you have all over from the beginning each time you lay eyes on that other person. Did you know that?

It does not have to be what it was yesterday. Nor do you have to be who you were yesterday.

Whether your present relationship is new or old, you can begin having good sex right now, today. Declare and decide that your Synergistic Energy eXchange with your Special Other will be filled with light and love, understanding and acceptance, compassion and forgiveness, celebration and joyous recognition.

Joyously recognize, each time you speak to that person, the wonder and the glory of Who They Really Are. See Godliness in them each time you see them at all.

Neale Donald Walsch

Love NEVER hurts

Love does not hurt – insecurity does, sadness does, anxiety does, anger does, jealousy does… but LOVE only feels good.

When you feel love you feel utter bliss. You feel happy, free and empowered. Anything less than that is not love. Even if you blame the other person for how much you are hurting, it is blame, sadness and those other negative emotions you feel. Not love. Love only feels good.

You might temporarily be tuned out of the frequency of love – that is why it feels so bad, because you LOVE to love and you WANT to love. And when conditions turn up that makes it hard for you to feel love in your heart, of course it will feel bad! But the negative feeling is never caused by love. Ever.

There is an even better way to love someone than most people are practicing: to love unconditionally. If you can truly master this you will not be so easily swept off into jealousy, insecurity, anger, sadness or any other negative emotion you might be very used to fall back into. You will have a stable centre of love, you will see through the eyes of love and you will see value in every situation. Maybe not all the time, but you will easily get back into your place of love when you fall off. Most importantly – you will never blame any one else for how you feel – you will realize that how you feel is your job. Love is an inside job just like happiness. ❤

How to feel better when you are feeling rage or depression

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“Don´t beat up on yourself for not being able to choose the best thought you have ever thought… Just choose the best thought you can find from where you are”.

-Abraham Hicks

This is such an important thing to remember because you can`t find empowered, happy thoughts if you are really depressed or in rage – it is too far away and too big of a vibrational jump all at once. However, you can find thoughts right here and right now that sooths you a little. Thoughts that give you a little relief from the emotional state you are in right now. And from that new vibrational place you can find new thoughts that bring you more relief and so on. Little by little, step by step.

Be kind to yourself! Especially when you lose your emotional balance. Be extra kind and soothing to yourself. You are not a bad person if you feel bad, you are not wrong or less than. You are simply just viewing things in a way that makes you feel bad right now – but you can do something about that! You can shift how you view EVERYTHING, EVERYONE and EVERY TOPIC there is. And when you shift how you view it, how you feel will shift as well. But no big jumps are necessary, or even possible. Just gentle steps toward a little more relief. That is all. And you can begin doing that now. 

You are the most important person in your life – how you feel should be your top priority

Do the things that make your heart sing. Follow your passion, follow your joy and let your desires fill you with eager anticipation.

Keep dreaming, keep loving, keep liking and keep appreciating. Know that all things are possible, know that it is always time to be more kind, more loving, more pampering and more gentle with yourself.

You are the most important person in your life and how you feel should be your top priority. When you tend to how you feel first, and you listen to what calls you and you keep your heart open with love – now everything that happens to you will be of value because it will strengthen you from within. And as a bonus you will be of most value to other people as well. A tuned in, turned on, tapped in person who looks at them – only good can come from that! But it begins with you and it begins with love.

When you desperately want them to love and approve of you – let it go

“If someone is arguing with you, or finding fault with you, and not liking what they see, say to them, and mean it lovingly and kindly, but mean it sincerely, “You’re seeing something in me, that must be active in you, and I think this is more about you, than it is about me”.

So if someone is having a bad day, and they are angry at you, it’s about their bad day, much more than it is about you.

It’s always about the beholder.
Everything is about the beholder.
So what you want to do is become more aware of what you’re seeing in others. That’s the thing you want to be aware of.

Don’t worry about what other people are seeing in you. Don’t worry about the love they’re giving you, or the love they’re not giving you.

Let your awareness be about what you’re putting out. Let your awareness be about how much you’re loving.

We wouldn’t be running around saying: ‘who loves me or who doesn’t love me?’, we’d be saying: ‘who do I love, what is it about you, that I love?'”

Abraham Hicks 5/10/08

Choosing a more hopeful perspective, even though you are afraid – that is where magic happens!

There is such amazing magic in deliberately choosing your thoughts. You don’t have to complain or point out flaws more than just a brief moment, you can move on from the experience by directing your focus on what you now know you prefer and how you now know you want to feel.

Regurgitation of what happens to you is not a skill – it is simple sloppy focus. Easily done but not empowering! Choosing a slightly different perspective, even though it would be easier to complain… choosing a more general perspectice, even though it would be easier to criticise… choosing a more hopeful perspective, even though you are afraid… choosing a more reliefgiving perspective, even though you are sad… now that takes skill and that is both freeing and enpowering. Not only will you feel better while you practice this, you will affect everything that happens to you as well.

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