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Cancer is not the end of the world, sooth your perspective

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No matter what situation you are in – you always have a choice: feel a little better or feel a little worse

How are you wanting to feel today? You really have a choice in this!

You might be going through a lot right now; perhaps people are mean to you, perhaps your relationship has a lot of issues, perhaps you have sever health issues or perhaps there is something else that you deem really difficult that is happening in your life. It doesn’t matter what it is, you always have a choice: feel a little better or feel a little worse.

Your mood, your emotional state, is not locked to the situation around you. Ever. You are in charge of your perspective and you can always look at things from different perspectives – therfore you can always affect how you feel.

You are never stuck, there is always hope. You just have to stop looking so intensely at the issue, back away in your perspective and take a more general approach. Stop pointing out what feels bad, stop complaining and stop blaming. Start soothing yourself instead. Start reaching for thoughts that feel like a little bit of relief. It is always possible, no matter the situation.

School, work, errands, bills, responsibilities… just stop and remind yourself what REALLY matters ❤

Nothing matters more than how you feel. Nothing. It is so important that you are kind to yourself and that you love and value yourself.

When you care first and foremost about how you feel and you sooth yourself into feeling better, you take care of the foundation on which everything else in your life comes from. You take care of your body, your health and everything else that happens to you because you and your body reacts and responds differently depending on the emotional state you are in.

It is such a difference to stand in an unwanted situation from an emotional place of insecurity and powerlessness than to stand in the very same situation from an emotional place of empowerment and hopefulness. It is the difference between seeing the solutions or not, the difference between recovery or not. Your emotional state is that important. It lets you know exactly how beneficial or deterimental you current perspective is. Start paying attention, start listening to your own inner guidance and start soothing yourself into feeling better, unconditionally.

Abortion – life is eternal and death does not kill life

How to feel good unconditionally, when your world is falling apart ❤

The key is to practice feeling good because you want to feel good, not just respond and react to the situation. To feel good when all things in your life are beautiful, wonderful and going your way requiers just that you look around and react – it is not a sign of inner strenght to just look around and react. That is pretty sloppy creating.

True freedom, empowerment and happiness comes when you pracice feeling good even though there are things in your life that are not as you desire them to be. Perhaps you are sick, your lover left you, you lost your child, you lost your job or something else that you don’t want has happened. To choose to feel better – ANYWAY, without anything changing, THAT IS WERE TRUE FREEDOM AND EMPOWERMENT IS FOUND.

“Is this easy to do?” No. It takes practice. “Shall I begin with the big, life changing events that just brought me to my knees?” No. Begin with smaller, easier things. It is all part of learning to love yourself unconditionally. You can’t go from hating yourself to truly loving yourself completely – just like that. It takes a little time and practice and you begin with easy, gentle baby steps.

The most important part is that you start being kind kind to yourself. Acknowledge that you ARE doing the best you can from where you are emotionally and belief-wise. It is ok. You are where you are and that is alright. See the emotional journey and the action journey as two seperate journeys. You can lose your job and feel hopeless or you can lose your job and feel hopeful. You are still losing your job but how you feel is something you can affect. Start shifting the way you feel about life, your experiences and yourself. Take a more general approach and stop making such big hairy deals about everything. You CAN FEEL GOOD again, no matter what has happened, what you are going through or what will happen. And how you feel is the key to how well things work out for you, and this is all in your hands. Isn’t it exciting, freeing and empowering to know that!? You are not bound by the situation, you are not bound by their actions and you are not stuck. You are always free and in full control because only YOU choose your perspective, and your perspective affects everything. It not only affects how you feel, it also affects what comes next.

Why are some people so mean?

No one who truly loves themselves, who are kind, loving and caring toward themselves would ever hurt another person. How you act and react is a pure reflection of how you feel, and especially how you feel about yourself.

Those who lash out in anger are having emotional pain within and doesn’t know that they have the power to change how they feel. Instead they blame that one and that one… instead they argue, they start wars, they hurt, they try to control… instead of focusing on the only thing that works.

Those who constantly find flaws, criticise and dislike… they are not liking themselves, they are not kind to themselves and they don’t know they have all the power within to change how they feel. That is why they think they feel better when they put others down – it feels better than to feel insecure and powerless. But it doesn’t last so they have to do it again and again… instead of focusing on the only thing that works.

You have to begin with how you feel. You have to begin to sooth yourself, value yourself, care about how you feel and learn to love yourself.

Find your emotional balance

I love them all 💖

Where you are is perfect and it will always improve if you let it ❤

You are where you are right now so you might as well make peace with it. Make peace with where you are and what has happened and realize how very perfect this place actually is for you. This is only a place where you are right now but you are eternally on your way to more.

This is a journey and you are where you are but since it is a journey you are moving. How you choose to view your now, determines if you move towards more things you desire or away from them.

Your attitude, your perspective and the focus you choose is what makes all the difference in what you allow to come next. You are in charge, right here, right now.

We are doing rather well 🌱

I am blessed for having the opportunity to just stay in bed all day. This experience will strenghten my immune system. I have been able to drink a few glasses of rice milk today, and kept it so far which is awesome. I feel my strenght returning, slowly but steadily. I even went up and took a shower an hour ago. This is going great and I look forward to an entire day at home tomorrow too. 🌱

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