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“Oh hell no” – just say no!

Break free from all societal ties – follow your bliss

My curse and my blessing

β€œI was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it.”

Audrey Hepburn

Relax – you only have one job β€

A people pleaser learning to say no

Yes! I said no πŸ˜„

I am getting really good at saying no. This week I said no to six men on facebook and instagram who wrote inappropriate things to me. I was clear and firm with my no. When they didn’t stop – (and non of them did) I just easily blocked them. Now they will never be able to see my posts, comment or contact me again. Feels awesome! No more polite turn downs – I have a right to just say “no”. It is MY choice.

I also said no to this person who has asked me for money somewhere around ten times since September. He always asks me at night, at the same time of the month, and he always wants me to keep quiet about it. Well – no more! I said no straight away tonight when I got his message. He didn’t even bother to reply but it felt soooooooooo good to finally say no! 😊

I am loving this fresh and new approach to life, people and most importantly to myself. I honor myself by listening to what feels good to me and what feels off, if it feels off I choose what feels like relief instead. Way to go, me! πŸ˜„πŸŒΉπŸŒΉπŸŒΉ

Time to stop running after people who don’t see your worth β€

They are not victims!

It can feel really hard to see a loved one go through difficulties. Especially if they withdraw and donΒ΄t want to change. But you have to remind yourself that they have equal access to source as everyone else on the planet, and they have equal access to the ever present guidance that flows from within – all they have to do is want to feel better and they will begin to hear it.

You cannot make them change their mind, that is not your job. You cannot arrange everything around them in pleasing ways so that they will feel better – feeling better has to come from within, otherwise they grow dependent on seeing pleasing things around them and will not have a stable emotional balance to stand on when bad things happen.

It is not your job to make them feel better, however, you can be of immense value to them by teaching by your example! Be the stable, loving, good-feeling, shining light of unconditional happiness that you truly are and see them as the free and empowered being you know they really are. They are not victims! They are strong, capable, free and empowered beings who have temporarily lost their emotional balance because of the way they have been thinking and focusing. But they CAN do something about that! And when they begin to realize that, they will begin to get their sense of freedom and empowerment back.

Rest, reset and recover πŸŒŸ

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