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Once a bad guy always a bad guy? No 🌹 – he has a good heart and a kind soul

Ok this evening something happened that made me think a little. My ex, the one I moved in with when I was 17 who hit me a lot and hurt me physically and mentally for 1 1/2 years before he went to prison for what he did to me, started following me on instagram tonight. It felt weird.

I blocked him on Facebook many years ago after he sent a friend request… and I have not thought that much about him since… until two days ago when we were in Jönköping. He walked passed us when we were out shopping in Jönköping. I never even thought he would look me up and follow me on instagram though.

As I told my boyfriend about this he got really upset and said it was not ok and that I should block him immediately. But I didnt at first. Somehow I feel like I am tired of running away from my past. This was a guy I fell in love with when I was 17. A guy I lived with for 1 1/2 years. A guy who I know has a good heart and a kind soul who has been through a lot of horrible things as a child. I don’t blame him at all for how things played out when I was with him… 18 years ago. I was a completely different person back then, I had no self-esteem and I was so incredibly insecure. Of course we were a perfect match back then and our insecurities and trauma brought out the worst in us. But I don’t blame him – the fault is mine just as well.

We had our experiences together and I feel nothing but appreciation for the lessons it taught me. I want peace. I want relief. I want to let go and lovingly move on. I want to say I am sorry for everything, I want to say thank you for the experiences and the lessons and the growth I have been gifted with since this time. Thank you and I wish you nothing but peace, love and happiness in all aspects of your life. 🌹

But, after giving it some thought I decided to block him anyway. He might have good intentions and all that but for me it feels like relief to not have him following me at all.

“What about the criminals and all the evil deeds?”

Peace, love and satisfaction begins within ❤

Today I choose to embrace my inner peace completely. I feel calm, at peace and relaxed. I am surrounded by loving energy and I am safe.

Every step I take today, every word I speak and every thought I think will be radiating peace and love.

I am satisfied with my life, my past, my present and my future. I know that everything happens for a reason and I can choose how I will react – I can shape my future with the mindset I choose to have. Peace, love and satisfaction begins within, begins with me. ❤

Those who lash out in anger ❤

Let your heart radiate love where ever you go. When you are met with hatred and anger, let it fuel your love even further.

You don’t have to tell them you love them, just feel it in your heart, embrace the feeling and allow your love to flow abundantly.

Those who lash out in anger are hurting within, they need to feel loved the most. Even if they are not aware of it. It is not your job to make them feel better, however you can be one who loves, one who loves unconditionally. Love heals everything, love is the answer to all questions – love is everything. ❤

Their opinion of you is all about themselves ❤

We all see the world and others through our own perspective. What you see in others is always affected by your thoughts, beliefs and desires.

Never let someone else’s opinion of you get you down for more than a brief moment – remind yourself that their negativity is always an accurate reflection of their inner pain. Whether they are aware of it or not. Their pure appreciation is always an accurate reflection of their inner state of love. Their hatred or their love has nothing to do with you, what you look like or what you do but everything to do with what is active within themselves. ❤

Time for forgiveness ❤

How to stop the judgement and hatred we have for others ❤

Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference

There will always be those who disagree with you. There will always be those who dislike you and what you do. Let them.

Don’t meet fire with more fire, hate with more hate. That only fuels the negativity. Let it be.

Keep following what you believe is good. Keep honoring yourself and others by choosing love and compassion even though you are met with hate and criticism.

Someone has to slow the negative momentum, and it might as well be you. Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference.

Love, joy, confidence, hate, criticism, insecurity – it is all an inside job ❤

No one else needs to approve of you – only you. Their criticism and disapproval says more about them and their inner strenght and weaknesses than you.

A truly empowered being who is filled with love in his/her heart would never ever put anyone else down in any way by words or action. All negativity comes from inner pain, even if they can justify why they criticise. A critical perspective is a lackful perspective and it comes from the eyes of the beholder.

There is value, beauty and goodness to be seen everywhere, in everyone and in everything. You have the power to be selective in your focus and you can even let the negative aspects you see, inspire you to focus more clearly on what you prefer. So all things can be reasons to focus in joyful and loving ways.

Never let the negativity from another bring you down. Remember that they are hurting within, even if they are not aware of it. Choose to see past their negativity, let them be and know that they too have an inner guidance that will guide them if they only want to listen. That is not your job. Change is an inside job. Love is an inside job. Confidence is an inside job. Happiness is an inside job. Everything is an inside job – their negativity and criticism is too. ❤

Continue being the shining inspiring light of joy and love that you are, and those who are ready to feel better will listen. 🌹❤

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