Advertisements

Your past made you who you are today but your NOW is even more valuable πŸ’–

Your past is of value because it made you who you are today. But your NOW is even more valuable because you can choose to NOW let go of all hurt, all pain and all feelings of being a victim, you can let go of all guilt, all blame, all resentment and all insecurity and begin to replace those emotions and thoughts with hope, optimism, self-love, kindness, respect and appreciation.

NOW is the only time when you can change. No one else can do it for you, only you. Choose to let the success stories of others inspire you, and begin right now. One small though at a time, be gente, kind and loving toward yourself in the process.

Advertisements

Find joy right here, right now β€

Once a bad guy always a bad guy? No 🌹 – he has a good heart and a kind soul

Ok this evening something happened that made me think a little. My ex, the one I moved in with when I was 17 who hit me a lot and hurt me physically and mentally for 1 1/2 years before he went to prison for what he did to me, started following me on instagram tonight. It felt weird.

I blocked him on Facebook many years ago after he sent a friend request… and I have not thought that much about him since… until two days ago when we were in JΓΆnkΓΆping. He walked passed us when we were out shopping in JΓΆnkΓΆping. I never even thought he would look me up and follow me on instagram though.

As I told my boyfriend about this he got really upset and said it was not ok and that I should block him immediately. But I didnt at first. Somehow I feel like I am tired of running away from my past. This was a guy I fell in love with when I was 17. A guy I lived with for 1 1/2 years. A guy who I know has a good heart and a kind soul who has been through a lot of horrible things as a child. I don’t blame him at all for how things played out when I was with him… 18 years ago. I was a completely different person back then, I had no self-esteem and I was so incredibly insecure. Of course we were a perfect match back then and our insecurities and trauma brought out the worst in us. But I don’t blame him – the fault is mine just as well.

We had our experiences together and I feel nothing but appreciation for the lessons it taught me. I want peace. I want relief. I want to let go and lovingly move on. I want to say I am sorry for everything, I want to say thank you for the experiences and the lessons and the growth I have been gifted with since this time. Thank you and I wish you nothing but peace, love and happiness in all aspects of your life. 🌹

But, after giving it some thought I decided to block him anyway. He might have good intentions and all that but for me it feels like relief to not have him following me at all.

Who and where you are is perfect β€

If you want to feel better and improve your life

Right now is all that matters – not yesterday, not last week, not last year, not your childhood – right now. What you said, did, felt and thought before this moment does not have to affect what comes next at all, unless you choose to think about it now – it is only what you are thinking, feeling, saying and doing right now that makes the difference.

If you want to feel better and improve your life – now is when to begin changing what you say, do and think.

Everything you do now affects everything that happens to you. You are 100% in charge.

Let go of all guilt and all blame – make peace with it πŸ•Š

Forgive yourself, you are not your mistakes or your past/present failures. Let it go, it is alright. Sooth yourself into feeling some relief and make peace with what has been.

Take a deep breath and realize that each new moment is fresh and new, all that matters is this moment. You cannot go back in time and erase what you said or what you did or what happened – but you can make peace with it, let go and let it inspire you to now feel better and more empowered.

Let your past serve its purpose – make peace with it and move on!

This is so beautiful because we are always evolving into more and more deliciousness.

Everything is of value! Everything can inspire you to grow and become more of all those things you desire to be.

Let the past serve its purpose – make peace with it and eagerly move on.

How to move on from your past mistakes β€

Make peace with your past. No matter what you did, you did the best you could from the place of awareness, knowledge and the emotional state you were in. That was then, this is now.

Let your past serve you by letting it inspire you to now focus more clearly on who you want to be, how you want to feel and how you want to act.

Everything that happens can be of beautiful value to you if you only let it. It is only a matter of perspective – and you are 100% in charge of your perspective. ❀

3 generations – 1985

This is a picture of me, almost 2 years old, my mother who was 39 years old at the time and my grandmother who had just turned 80 years old. Three generations together. I love how happy I look, I will remember this smiling baby girl ❀.

When I look at my mother I feel nothing but love and appreciation for her. I wish I could tell her and my father how much I love them and how much I value them. But I believe they felt how much I truly love them the second they passed away. Even though it has almost been two dacades since my mother died I feel closer than ever to her now. Same goes for my father who died a decade ago. ❀

A new opportunity to start again πŸ€

You are not your mistakes. You are not your past. Every day is a new day, you have a beautiful new opportunity to start again and choose who you want to be.

Previous Older Entries

Follow joypassiondesire on WordPress.com

Archives

%d bloggers like this: