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Love your figure – but your figure is not the reason for your love! ❤

Whatever your body shape, size and weight might be – practice loving yourself unconditionally. You are more than your body – you are endless and eternal.

The body you have been given this lifetime is your treasure. It is the body that has been your home since you were born and will be until you die – treat it with loving care. ❤

I celebrate my body. I celebrate my curves and edges. I have learned to love myself, my body and my personality, unconditionally. Was it easy? No! Has the love you feel or not feel for yourself to do with your body shape, size and weight? No! I hated myself the first 24 years of my life. I absolutely loathed myself – all aspects of myself. I had the same body shape, size and weight then as I do now.

It is not my body that makes me feel this way or that way – it is the thoughts and the perspectives I choose to view life from.

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When no one likes your picture

Your worth, beauty, sexiness and confidence is not dependant on how many likes you get on a picture you post on social media!!!!

There are people who gets millions of likes on their pictures and there are people who rarely get even one like. The amount of likes has nothing to do with the level of beauty or sexiness. You are as beautiful as you make up your mind to be. It is not what others think that matters – it is 100% what you think that matters. Their disliking of you cannot harm you or lower your confidence unless you make their opinion if you, your opinion. And why would you do that?! It is really silly! It is so easy to get hooked into participating in social media and get lost in the approval-hunt. But it is shallow and untrue. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

You could get to a point where you don’t care whether anyone ever sees the pictures you post! You don’t care whether they like it or not. You don’t care that they say you sould be more this way or that way and that you are too much this and too much that! It is not a game of fitting in to their standars of beauty and sexiness. It is about you. Your opinion of you is what matters most. If you think you look pretty, then you are pretty! No one else needs to agree with you in order for you to like yourself.

Stop looking for approval and love in all the wrong shallow places and start feeling love and approval from the only place that matters, from within.

Ask yourself why you post pictures. Is it because you desire the approval from others or is it because you love the beauty you see shining through from within? It is perfectly fine to post pictures, but let the reason behind your picture posting be empowering for you, not disempowering.

You can decide who you want to be 

You can always choose to begin again. You can always choose to change. It is never too late. You and you alone can decide who you want to be. 

Never let other people’s opinions of you be the reason you think or behave in certain ways. YOU can choose who you are and what matters most to you, and you are FREE to CHANGE your perspective of yourself. 

Love yourself every step of the way ❤

Embrace your past, embrace all your mistakes and embrace all the unwanted experiences. Who you were and everything that happened have led you to the place where you are right now. And it is all perfect. 

You are worthy of your own love and affection. You were then, you are now and you will forever be. No matter what you have done or how “badly” you messed up. ❤

Your most important quest is to learn to love yourself, unconditionally. No matter what. And when you reach that place there is no end to what you can accomplish. ❤

Who do you think you are?

Inappropriate?

Don’t let their dissaproval of you be a reason for you to dim your light! Continue to shine bright and follow your own bliss. Let them disapprove of you, let them have their opinions – that is a reflection of their character, not of you.

Be the beautiful, unique being you desire to be, allow yourself to blossom and live the happy life you want to live. If it feels good to you and if it brings you joy, then you are following your bliss and only good can come from that.



When they hate and dissaprove of you 

When other people criticise you and point out your flaws – don’t let it bring you down!

What others choose to see in you is always more about them than you. How they view you, their opinions of you and how they feel about you depends on their own beliefs, expectations, desires and mood. 

You can always choose to see the best in others, you can always choose to focus on the possibilities, the solutions and the desired outcome. You don’t have to hight-light mistakes or things you dislike – you can use those as INSPIRATION to FOCUS on what you now know you PREFER and DESIRE as a result of this experience, and you can talk about that instead.

Criticism and negativity is a choice. So is appreciation and positivity. The focus you choose to use most will become easier to use again – but it is a matter of choice and YOU can choose to focus on yourself and others through the loving eyes of appreciation instead, whether they do or not. 💖

You are never judged – there is only love for you 

My weirdness is my magic 🌻

Embrace the love that is flowing to you at all times ❤

You are so valuable and loved, simply because you exist. You don’t have to do anything or change anything – embrace the never ending love that is flowing to you at all times.

Never mind what he thinks about you or what they say about you – how YOU feel about yourself is what affects everything in your life.

Practice thinking loving thoughts, comforting thoughts and uplifting thoughts about yourself and feel the magic that follows.

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