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Keep shining your beautiful light – in all the bright colors that please you â¤

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🌸 Dare to not fit into their idea of beauty – you are already beautiful ðŸŒ¸

Yes, you are beautiful. Just the way you are. It is time for you to let go of the opinions of others around you, the opinions of society and the world. These opinions are their opinions and that is alright. How you feel about yourself, how you look at yourself and your thoughts, beliefs, desires and opinions about yourself – that is what matters!

It does not matter what you have been through, what your body and your face looks like – you can find a way to love yourself unconditionally, and you can begin now. That is the key to everything. ❤

The perfect guidance to everything you desire is within you, right now â¤

You have perfect guidance within regarding all topics. That is so empowering and freeing to realize and feel! Just start to listen to your own guidance and follow what feels better to you. Stop listening to the peanut gallery, to the opinions and beliefs of others – what do you believe? What do you want to believe? What do you desire? How do you want to feel? How do you want it to play out for you? Keep asking yourself these valuable questions and listen inwards.

No one else needs to agree with you in order for it to work out exactly as you desire it to, only you need to agree with you. Your desires and beliefs must match – that is what following your bliss means. To do all those things you feel and believe are good for you. You can adjust your beliefs to match your desires because a belief is just a thought you keep thinking. Choose thoughts that match what you want. Go general in your thinking first, make the shift little by little and look for examples of the results you desire.

You have everything you will ever need within you, it is time that you begin to tap in to that. ❤

Dare to say no if it feels off to you!

Trying to be a people pleaser is very detrimental to your own emotional balance. You can’t do something you don’t really want to do, just to please someone else, without telling yourself that you don’t matter. And believe me, your every cell is listening 24/7 to the messages you send it. You send it messages with the thoughts you think, the words you speak and with the actions you take. If you want to know how your body feels about your messages, pay attention to your emotions. If you feel anything less than good, then your body is taking a hit from what you are currently doing, saying and thinking.

It is time for you to value yourself, to care for yourself and most importantly: it is time for you to love yourself.

One part in loving yourself is listening to what matters to you, what makes you feel good, what you desire, what you believe and what feels right to you. This means saying no when something feels off. Saying no does not have to be wrong or bad or something negative. It is just a choice! Choose what is right, choose what feels like most relief, choose to value how you feel.

Stop going against yourself in order to please someone else! It is not your job to please someone else – to be pleased is an inside job. Just like happiness. Just like love. Just like satisfaction. Just like any other emotion there is. It is all an inside job. ❤

You are not only the main character in your story, you are the playwriter as well ðŸŒ¹

You are not your grades, you are not your age, you are not any of the expectations of others that don’t align with your desired version of you.

You are not your mistakes, you are not your past, you are not your insecurities... you are what you choose to be. Each new moment is a brand new opportunity for you to start again. Who do you want to be? How do you want to feel? You are in charge, you are not only the main character in your story, you are the playwriter as well. ❤

Love your figure – but your figure is not the reason for your love! â¤

Whatever your body shape, size and weight might be – practice loving yourself unconditionally. You are more than your body – you are endless and eternal.

The body you have been given this lifetime is your treasure. It is the body that has been your home since you were born and will be until you die – treat it with loving care. ❤

I celebrate my body. I celebrate my curves and edges. I have learned to love myself, my body and my personality, unconditionally. Was it easy? No! Has the love you feel or not feel for yourself to do with your body shape, size and weight? No! I hated myself the first 24 years of my life. I absolutely loathed myself – all aspects of myself. I had the same body shape, size and weight then as I do now.

It is not my body that makes me feel this way or that way – it is the thoughts and the perspectives I choose to view life from.

When no one likes your picture

Your worth, beauty, sexiness and confidence is not dependant on how many likes you get on a picture you post on social media!!!!

There are people who gets millions of likes on their pictures and there are people who rarely get even one like. The amount of likes has nothing to do with the level of beauty or sexiness. You are as beautiful as you make up your mind to be. It is not what others think that matters – it is 100% what you think that matters. Their disliking of you cannot harm you or lower your confidence unless you make their opinion if you, your opinion. And why would you do that?! It is really silly! It is so easy to get hooked into participating in social media and get lost in the approval-hunt. But it is shallow and untrue. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

You could get to a point where you don’t care whether anyone ever sees the pictures you post! You don’t care whether they like it or not. You don’t care that they say you sould be more this way or that way and that you are too much this and too much that! It is not a game of fitting in to their standars of beauty and sexiness. It is about you. Your opinion of you is what matters most. If you think you look pretty, then you are pretty! No one else needs to agree with you in order for you to like yourself.

Stop looking for approval and love in all the wrong shallow places and start feeling love and approval from the only place that matters, from within.

Ask yourself why you post pictures. Is it because you desire the approval from others or is it because you love the beauty you see shining through from within? It is perfectly fine to post pictures, but let the reason behind your picture posting be empowering for you, not disempowering.

You can decide who you want to be 

You can always choose to begin again. You can always choose to change. It is never too late. You and you alone can decide who you want to be. 

Never let other people’s opinions of you be the reason you think or behave in certain ways. YOU can choose who you are and what matters most to you, and you are FREE to CHANGE your perspective of yourself. 

Love yourself every step of the way â¤

Embrace your past, embrace all your mistakes and embrace all the unwanted experiences. Who you were and everything that happened have led you to the place where you are right now. And it is all perfect. 

You are worthy of your own love and affection. You were then, you are now and you will forever be. No matter what you have done or how “badly” you messed up. ❤

Your most important quest is to learn to love yourself, unconditionally. No matter what. And when you reach that place there is no end to what you can accomplish. ❤

Who do you think you are?

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