Weird, different and don’t fit in? Awesome! Keep being you


Never change yourself in order to fit in to their version of how life should be lived

Let them follow their own truth. Let them believe in what works for them. Never ever compare yourself to them or change yourself in order to fit in to their version of how life should be lived – we are not supposed to be the same! We are all unique, not just in appearance and personality – but in our preferences, desires and beliefs as well! That is why your choices have to be made while listening to your own inner guidance, not the opinions of others.

Start loving your awkwardness, your peculiar habits… your everything! ❤❤❤

Love yourself every step of the way ❤

Embrace your past, embrace all your mistakes and embrace all the unwanted experiences. Who you were and everything that happened have led you to the place where you are right now. And it is all perfect. 

You are worthy of your own love and affection. You were then, you are now and you will forever be. No matter what you have done or how “badly” you messed up. ❤

Your most important quest is to learn to love yourself, unconditionally. No matter what. And when you reach that place there is no end to what you can accomplish. ❤

Who do you think you are?

Work on loving yourself no matter what they think of you ❤

There will always be those who dislike you and disapprove of what you do. There will always be those who like you and approve of what you do. How others feel about you is always about the perspective, beliefs and opinions THEY hold. It is not really about you. 

Don’t let your mood, your worth, your confidence or how you feel about yourself and your life be dependant on something as fickle as other people’s opinions of you! That leaves yoy conpletely without power! Take your power back by starting to value yourself, unconditionally. Start liking  yourself and honoring what feels better to you. Listen to your inner guidance and follow your own bliss. Allow others to like you and dislike you, approve of you and dissaprove of you – while you work on loving yourself no matter what they think of you. ❤

When they judge, reject, disapprove and abandon you:

When they let you down

Celebrate being who you are, curves and all ❤

I love the female body – everything about it is beautiful, sensual and magical. I choose to celebrate me, for being who I choose to be. I love my curves and I choose to feel love for everything that I am.

Please stop beating up on yourself and start liking yourself, as you are! I spent over 20 years hating myself and hating my body – it was not until I was 24 years old that I BEGAN improving how I felt about myself. But I succeeded in improving the way I viewed myself. 

Here I am today, 10 years later, and I feel more at peace with myself and more confident than I have ever felt before. I learned to let go of guilt, blame and criticism and learned to find love for myself. True love, unconditional love. That is where I found unconditional happiness, empowerment and freedom as well. 

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