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Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference

There will always be those who disagree with you. There will always be those who dislike you and what you do. Let them.

Don’t meet fire with more fire, hate with more hate. That only fuels the negativity. Let it be.

Keep following what you believe is good. Keep honoring yourself and others by choosing love and compassion even though you are met with hate and criticism.

Someone has to slow the negative momentum, and it might as well be you. Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference.

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Love, joy, confidence, hate, criticism, insecurity – it is all an inside job ❤

No one else needs to approve of you – only you. Their criticism and disapproval says more about them and their inner strenght and weaknesses than you.

A truly empowered being who is filled with love in his/her heart would never ever put anyone else down in any way by words or action. All negativity comes from inner pain, even if they can justify why they criticise. A critical perspective is a lackful perspective and it comes from the eyes of the beholder.

There is value, beauty and goodness to be seen everywhere, in everyone and in everything. You have the power to be selective in your focus and you can even let the negative aspects you see, inspire you to focus more clearly on what you prefer. So all things can be reasons to focus in joyful and loving ways.

Never let the negativity from another bring you down. Remember that they are hurting within, even if they are not aware of it. Choose to see past their negativity, let them be and know that they too have an inner guidance that will guide them if they only want to listen. That is not your job. Change is an inside job. Love is an inside job. Confidence is an inside job. Happiness is an inside job. Everything is an inside job – their negativity and criticism is too. ❤

Continue being the shining inspiring light of joy and love that you are, and those who are ready to feel better will listen. 🌹❤

Dare to disapoint! ❤

You don’t have to put on a mask in front of other people and pretend to be happy and positive when you are not.

I know it is tempting to behave in ways that please others – but don’t forget yourself and how you feel at the same time. Honor yourself and your body by being true to who you want to be. Never do or say something that feels off to you, just because it is was society expects you to do and say. Dare to disappoint! Dare to be different! Dare to value yourself and your emotional wellbeing, first.

When they hate and dissaprove of you 

When other people criticise you and point out your flaws – don’t let it bring you down!

What others choose to see in you is always more about them than you. How they view you, their opinions of you and how they feel about you depends on their own beliefs, expectations, desires and mood. 

You can always choose to see the best in others, you can always choose to focus on the possibilities, the solutions and the desired outcome. You don’t have to hight-light mistakes or things you dislike – you can use those as INSPIRATION to FOCUS on what you now know you PREFER and DESIRE as a result of this experience, and you can talk about that instead.

Criticism and negativity is a choice. So is appreciation and positivity. The focus you choose to use most will become easier to use again – but it is a matter of choice and YOU can choose to focus on yourself and others through the loving eyes of appreciation instead, whether they do or not. 💖


Complaining is madness

Don’t push against what feels bad, love what feels good

There is a beautiful and valuable difference between looking at what you don’t like and trying to make it go away and looking at what you do like and apprecating it.

Both of these perspectives are focusing your energy but one of them blocks you from reaching your highest potential and the other one allows you to become who you truly are and reach your highest potential.

Would you really spend so much time complaining about insignificant things – or big world events – if you knew you are actually hurting yourself and your body every second you do something that fuels your negativity? Probably not. But it is a habit, a habit most people are so used to practicing it feels like the normal, natural and expected way to react when things go wrong. 

Sure you can let negative things bring you down for a moment, and you can allow yourself to feel what you feel. But you CAN, little by little, tune yourself into a more general, loving and benefical way of focusing. 

You are of true value to others, yourself included, when you remain centered in your emotional balance and you see the value, the beauty, the good aspects and the potential for change, solutions and improvements in every situation.

Everyone has beauty, goodness and love within them – if they have acted in hateful ways it simply means they are blocking themself from being who they truly are with their negative perspectives. If you push back in anger, you do the same thing. You don’t rid the world from hate and fear by more hate and fear – the answer is love, unconditional love. 

A habit to let go of in order to live the life of your dreams

New habits


Even a chronic complainer can become the most good feeling, positive person on the planet! You can let go of any habit you wish you let go of and you can lovinly create new good feeling habits instead. 

Take a moment to think about a habit you would like to let go of and then think of a new good feeling habit that you would love to replace it with. Think about how this new habit would feel to you, how much value and benefit it would bring you. Think about the joy and ease it would bring… continue to focus on this new habit and all the woulderful feelings it brings.

Take it one step at a time. When you are alone, always ease back into that general perspective of what you want and how good it would feel. Imagine it, feel it, dream about it. Use your inagination a few times during each day to enjoy moments when you succeed with this new habit. Revel in the delicious satisfaction.

You change a thought, a belief and a habit by giving all of your attention to the improved thought, the improved belief and the improved habit. What you give your attention to, you will get more of.

When unwanted experiences are so in your face – you still have a choice that will set you free

What ever it is you are facing in your life right now, you can choose the attitude with which you face it. The situation is what it is, but the attitude is what will make the difference!

You don’t have to see evidence of things clearing up before you feel betterchoose to feel better because that is something you can change right now. When you have reached a better feeling emotional place you will be more open to the improvements you desire. 

Nothing is worth feeling even the slightest bit grumpy about! Be more playful about everything that happens and always remind yourself that YOU CAN TAKE THE EMOTIONAL JOURNEY no matter what you are going through – and when you shift how you feel, what happens to you will shift as well. There are always different ways of looking at everything – and how you CHOOSE to view it is up to you. 

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