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What about energy vampiers, people who take your positive energy away?

No one can take away energy from you or drain you of positive energy- it is you and your own thoughts that pull you down. You can look around at other people and blame them all you want but you are the one who is choosing to blame. Let that negative habit go. Stop calling people negative or positive and start focusing on your own emotional stability. If you feel good and feel stable in your emotional balance, you can keep your emotional balance easily even if everyone around you is very negative.

The control of how you feel is never placed outside of you, never in someone else’s hands and never in a situation how you feel is always, 100% in your control because it is always about your perception, your beliefs and your thoughts, and you can always do something about that!

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When they judge and condemn you – love yourself unconditionally ❤

You don’t have to like the negative people, just look for something that feels good

When people treat you poorly 💖

If it feels off – give your attention to something that feels good

It is natural and right for you to be selective, to have preferences ❤

You don’t have to love everyone! You don’t have to like everything! It is natural and right for you to be selective, to have preferences!

It is not more virtuous to stick around and force yourself to talk to someone who feels off to you – just because you want to be polite. It is ok for you to go away and find someone else to talk to or something else to do if it makes you uncomfortable to stay with this person.

Trust your instinct. Trust your emotions. It is natural to not jive with everyone!!! We all have different intentions, desires, beliefs and preferences. That is how it is supposed to me. Diversity is the spice of life! With that said you don’t have to pour piri piri into your every meal simply because it is there and others expect you to do as they do. You can choose something else! Same goes for people and experiences.

Honor yourself and honor others by being true to how you feel. Sure it works to fake it until you make it – but you don’t have to. You don’t have to pretend that you like sour milk until you begin to kind of enjoy it – take almond milk instead or something entirely different! 🤣💖

When they hate and dissaprove of you 

When other people criticise you and point out your flaws – don’t let it bring you down!

What others choose to see in you is always more about them than you. How they view you, their opinions of you and how they feel about you depends on their own beliefs, expectations, desires and mood. 

You can always choose to see the best in others, you can always choose to focus on the possibilities, the solutions and the desired outcome. You don’t have to hight-light mistakes or things you dislike – you can use those as INSPIRATION to FOCUS on what you now know you PREFER and DESIRE as a result of this experience, and you can talk about that instead.

Criticism and negativity is a choice. So is appreciation and positivity. The focus you choose to use most will become easier to use again – but it is a matter of choice and YOU can choose to focus on yourself and others through the loving eyes of appreciation instead, whether they do or not. 💖

When a grumpy old toad gives you a piece of his mind 

When others treat you badly

Kindness starts with you

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