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The rascals are not the ones that bother you ❤

Remind yourself that you are in charge of your life. You are the one who is in charge of your perception of you. Others might not see you through eyes of love at all times, but you can!

When you let the actions and words of another bother you – see it as a gift. A gift that gives you the opportunity to refocus and recreate your emotional balance. See it as an opportunity to strenghten your unconditional, loving perception of you.

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Imagine – taste what you crave and touch what satisfies your mood ❤

Use your imagination and find relief in a beautiful scenery somewhere far away. Feel the warm winds caress your skin… hear the ocean waves gently sooth you… feel the warm sand under your feet…

Wherever you choose to go in your imagination, stay there for a few minutes and allow yourself to fully enjoy the moment. See what you like, hear what you enjoy, smell what you love, taste what you crave and touch what satisfies your mood… ❤

The key to a joyful, fullfilling life ❤

Give up your anger, your frustration and your complaining. Just give it up.

With every negative word you speak you are pushing against yourself – so just give it up.

Allow yourself to enjoy more, allow yourself to have more fun. Allow yourself to be more playful and easy going. And most importantly: allow yourself to feel good now, without any of the conditions around you changing.

That truly is the key to a joyful, fulfilling life. To be able to choose to feel good unconditionally. When you are able to feel good – no matter the circumstances – the circumstances will change to match your inner emotional state as well. ❤

Never give up my dear ❤

No matter what you have been through or how bad you feel – you can improve your life and feel good again. It all begins with you and your thoughts. This is where you make the change – the circumstances might be far from how you want them to be but it does not matter. It has to be an emotional journey first, then you will view everything in a new light.

All those difficulties can actually inspire you to now become stronger, more confident, more happy, more free and more empowered. There is value in everything but it all begins with you and the thoughts you choose. Your perspective is what makes all the difference. ❤

” The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about.”

Love being who you are

Embrace who you are in all your unique splendor. Never try to dim or change your light in order to fit in. Love being who you are. We are not supposed to look the same, we are not supposed to have the same personalities, we are not supposed to like the same things.

We are all unique and beautiful in our own ways – life is supposed to be enjoyed in ways that call you. And only you can know what calls you. But you have to listen. Guidance is always with you, always within. But if you try to dim your own light in order to fit in, you also dim that voice within. But only temporarily, the moment when you begin to care about how you feel and what you like – you will feel your inner guidance stronger than ever again. ❤

Anger management – a reliefgiving perspective

You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.

~ Buddha

I love this quote because it says so much. There is no judgement or punishment outside of you – the real punishment is the negative emotions themselves and the toll they take on your mental health, your physical health and everything else that matters to you.

Harboring anger, letting it grow within and letting it burst out from your every cell – that is extremely detrimental to you.

Even though you think life sucks and that you think those aspects need to change in order for you to feel good… even though you feel completely justified in your anger – it is still very deterimental to you. Let it go. See your anger as hot inner flames that you are choosing to breathe out when you feel them burn within. Let the cool, clear and fresh relief wash through you and cool you down, gently. It is not worth it – just let it go.

Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference

There will always be those who disagree with you. There will always be those who dislike you and what you do. Let them.

Don’t meet fire with more fire, hate with more hate. That only fuels the negativity. Let it be.

Keep following what you believe is good. Keep honoring yourself and others by choosing love and compassion even though you are met with hate and criticism.

Someone has to slow the negative momentum, and it might as well be you. Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference.

Your perspective, your life – no judgement ❤

Love your figure – but your figure is not the reason for your love! ❤

Whatever your body shape, size and weight might be – practice loving yourself unconditionally. You are more than your body – you are endless and eternal.

The body you have been given this lifetime is your treasure. It is the body that has been your home since you were born and will be until you die – treat it with loving care. ❤

I celebrate my body. I celebrate my curves and edges. I have learned to love myself, my body and my personality, unconditionally. Was it easy? No! Has the love you feel or not feel for yourself to do with your body shape, size and weight? No! I hated myself the first 24 years of my life. I absolutely loathed myself – all aspects of myself. I had the same body shape, size and weight then as I do now.

It is not my body that makes me feel this way or that way – it is the thoughts and the perspectives I choose to view life from.

Love, joy, confidence, hate, criticism, insecurity – it is all an inside job ❤

No one else needs to approve of you – only you. Their criticism and disapproval says more about them and their inner strenght and weaknesses than you.

A truly empowered being who is filled with love in his/her heart would never ever put anyone else down in any way by words or action. All negativity comes from inner pain, even if they can justify why they criticise. A critical perspective is a lackful perspective and it comes from the eyes of the beholder.

There is value, beauty and goodness to be seen everywhere, in everyone and in everything. You have the power to be selective in your focus and you can even let the negative aspects you see, inspire you to focus more clearly on what you prefer. So all things can be reasons to focus in joyful and loving ways.

Never let the negativity from another bring you down. Remember that they are hurting within, even if they are not aware of it. Choose to see past their negativity, let them be and know that they too have an inner guidance that will guide them if they only want to listen. That is not your job. Change is an inside job. Love is an inside job. Confidence is an inside job. Happiness is an inside job. Everything is an inside job – their negativity and criticism is too. ❤

Continue being the shining inspiring light of joy and love that you are, and those who are ready to feel better will listen. 🌹❤

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