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Lending money – saying no because you care ❤

Here is a brief update on the lending money topic I wrote about a few weeks ago. I have been asked to help out a very close friend financially every month for many years now, and I still do it. However, more people come to me for financial help – one of them is a person I hardly know. Today I got a message again from her, asking me for money. It just does not feel right anymore – so I finally said no. She has parents, her boyfriend has parents and they have lots of close friends. I and my boyfriend are on our own. Neither one of us has any parents and no one else around. Still I have helped this woman financially many times and at the same time given money to another friend almost monthly and my very close friend as well.

I have to listen to my own inner guidance and what feels best to me. This person who I hardly know will no longer get money from me. I have not given her any money since last time I wrote about this. However I will continue to help out my very close friend and occationally my other friend, as long as it feels ok. Most importantly, I will encourage their own financial independence. ❤

What do you want to be? Be it! ❤

What you say you are, you become. A belief is only a thought you think a lot and therefore those little daily thoughts you think – that feel so normal and automatic to you – they keep your beliefs in place. The good-feeling beliefs as well as the limiting, negative beliefs. Are they true? They don’t have to be. Just stop those little daily thoughts you think that are slightly pessimistic – choose something a little more positive to say and think instead and practice it for a few days.

The more you think the thoughts, the more normal and automatic they wilk feel to you – they have become your beliefs. And what you believe affect everything.

Who are you? Who do you want to be? Let this be your guiding star as you choose your little daily thoughts on all topics. You are in charge, you create your life and everything about you and it all begins with the thoughts you choose and the words you speak.

A huge pay raise and fun in the snow ❄

I got a huge pay raise today. I feel so incredibly appreciated at work. ❤❤❤ I have worked there 11 years now and I can see myself working there for the rest of my life. I love my students, I have amazing co-workers and bosses that truly appreciate and value my work.

After work I went to pick up my babies. We played around in the sniw for a while before we went home. It is still incredibly cold outside, -17 Celsius.

  • I hope you have had a great day. What do you appreciate most about your job?

Tend to your most important relationship and all other topics will work out beautifully well for you ❤

2000 followers and over 530 310 views! ❤

This is incredible. My blog grows like crazy – lots of new followers everyday! 2000 followers and over 530 310 views already! Thank you all for loving, liking and commenting my posts. ❤

Next time I post about more followers will be when my blog reaches 2500 followers. ❤

Never give up my dear ❤

No matter what you have been through or how bad you feel – you can improve your life and feel good again. It all begins with you and your thoughts. This is where you make the change – the circumstances might be far from how you want them to be but it does not matter. It has to be an emotional journey first, then you will view everything in a new light.

All those difficulties can actually inspire you to now become stronger, more confident, more happy, more free and more empowered. There is value in everything but it all begins with you and the thoughts you choose. Your perspective is what makes all the difference. ❤

” The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about.”

When everyone asks you for money

This month I have help out three friends financially. It began two weeks ago with a friend who I love dearly – he didn’t have any money left so I took him to the store and let him pick out all the groceries he needed. It was a lot of fun helping him out with this. I have helped him out financially a lot the last 10 months.

A week after that a very close friend of mine had made some bad choices (bought a lot of clothes and things without thinking about what to do when he had spent all his money) and had no money left. I have chosen to help him out fincially for the rest of the month. I have helped him out financially for over 10 years.

And last night I received a text from a neighbour that I have only met twice (in August last year) who has two little babies, they asked if I could give them some money since they didn’t have any money left this month… it didn’t feel ok. I have given them money 4 times since August… but I thought about their two little babies and the thought of them not having any food made it easy for me to give them some money.

And why do I write about this? Because I feel I have reached a point where I have become a person who people come to when they need money. I don’t want to be that person anymore. Sure it is fun to be able to help so many people each month and still have a lot of money left for me and my babies… but I feel this is no longer the right way of dealing with these “friends”. They only become more and more dependent on me and my money. I want them to find their own freedom and empowerment, their own responsibility for their finances.

My intention for next month is clear. I know what my focus is. It is time for a change – and I will begin right now.

Base your choices on how well they resonate with your desires ❤

Focus on the desired outcome, imagine yourself having it, being it and doing it... Enjoy how good that feels and let those feelings embrace you. Return to those pleasurable scenarios several times during your day.

Do everything that you believe will take you in the desired direction. Base your choices on how good they feel to you and how well they resonate with your desires.

1 600 followers 💖💖💖

I woke up today and saw that my blog just reached 1 600 followers! This is awesome! Thank you for liking and following my blog!

I adore coming to my blog and writing here and it feels amazing that so many wonderful people enjoy what I write. Thank you! 💖💖💖

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