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Never let how others treat you be the reason for your self love or your self hatred ðŸŒ¹

Even if you have to stand alone, remember that you are loved and adored simply because you exist. Never let how others treat you be the reason for your self love or self hatred – decide that you will love yourself no matter what you encounter, no matter how people treat you, no matter what mistakes you make or how many failures you might go through – how you feel about yourself matters billions of times more than anything else. How you feel about yourself affects every single outcome of everything that happens to you – if you want to change your life, if you want the improvements you desire, begin by learning to love yourself unconditionally.

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It is not the awful things that happened to you that makes you feel bad – you CAN feel better again, no matter what

Your past does not define who you are, let your past inspire you to NOW become who you want to be.

No matter how dark your past, what things you did or what you went through – you can feel better again.

It is not what you did or what happened to you that limits you today or that makes you feel bad – it is only your perspective, your attitude and your thoughts that make you feel bad. And, you can choose to change your thinking and feel better again. You are never limited by your past experiences, how you feel is always a choice you make in every new moment and how you feel has to be unconditional.

We are all beautiful diamonds, but some of us don’t realize it yet ðŸŒ¹ðŸŒ·ðŸŒ¸ðŸ’®ðŸŒ¼ðŸŒ»ðŸŒº

Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one.”

Chinese Proverb

Actually, we are all diamonds but some of us don’t realize it yet. 🙏🌹🌷🌸💮🌻🌺🌼

We are all living, breathing beings with life force itself coursing through our bodies. The very fact that you are alive is enough to know that you are loved and adored by all that is.

You need not prove your worthiness, you need not feel ashamed of your mistakes or try to hide your “flaws”. There is not one single being on the planet who looks exactly like you and think and feel exactly like you. There is no other person on the planet with the exact same beliefs and desires as you – you are so unique in all that you are. A diamond indeed. 🌺🌻🌼💮🌸🌷🌹 You, as much as everyone else, deserve your own love and affection. 🙏

You have a beautiful, empowering and freeing choice to make â˜€ï¸

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”

– Chinese Proverb

All the mistakes you have made in your life, all the wrong paths you have taken and all the negative experiences you have been through need not affect your present or your future. It is easy to get caught up in shame, blame and insecurites when you keep bringing up the past. However, that was then – this is now. You still have a beautiful, empowering and freeing choice in each new moment – how do you want to feel NOW? And that has to be unconditional. 🌼

Now is where all your power is. You can change your entire life, and you can begin now. Make peace with what was, accept what you cannot change and embrace this new moment by allowing yourself to feel better, unconditionally.

Without the darkness you would not appreciate the light as much as you do ðŸ™

I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

– Michael Jordan

What if all the mistakes you have made were actually of beautiful value? What if there is benefit in all the pain and all the hurtful experiences? What if all these awful things you have been through can be your solid foundation on which you stand firmly while you rebuild your strenght? What if the bad things he did to you, can actually inspire you to NOW become stronger and happier?

Everything is of value. Without the darkness you would not appreciate the light as much as you do. 🙏

I will hold your hand through the darkness

Come to me, I will hold your hand through the darkness. I know there will be stars to light up your path.

You don’t have to dry your tears or hide your pain. Come as you are, feel as you feel. Even in you weakest of moments your heart and soul radiate love, kindness and an ever increasing strenght. I can see through all the pain, all the hurt and all shattered dreams and what I see is beautiful. 🌹

No matter how hopeless and hard it might seem – you can feel better again and you can enjoy all those things your heart, mind and soul secretly desire

Because of your dissatisfaction, your passionate desire for more is so intense

Because of your sadness, your longing for comfort, joy and lust burns brighter

Because of the mistakes, your future shines brighter with all things you desire

No matter what happened, no matter how hopeless and hard it might seem – you can feel better again and you can enjoy all those things your heart, mind and soul secretly desire.

When you feel broken and lost – remember that I love you unconditionally ðŸŒ¹

Those who truly matter will love you no matter what you look like, no matter how little money you have and no matter how many mistakes you make. 🙏

“Bad people” don’t drive you crazy – your perspective does ðŸ™

There is no such thing as a” bad kid” – just angry, hurt, tired, scared, confused, impulsive ones expressing their feelings and needs the only way they know how. We owe it to every single one of them to always remember that. ”

– Dr. Jessica Stephens

We are all doing the very best we can, given the circumstances, experiences, beliefs, desires and emotional state we are in. There is no value in condemnation, not even of the most ” bad” or “wrong” people you can think of. Holding on to resentment only wears you down. Letting go, forgiving and moving on in peace – those are valuable steps you can take, no matter the situation. We teach by the clarity of our own example – hate only breeds more hate, unconditional love is the answer.

When it feels so awful you can hardly breathe and you are boiling with anger, resentment and frustration

When you are in a situation that feels so awful you can hardly breathe and you are boiling with anger, resentment and frustration on the inside – how do you break this negative cycle?

The first step is to make peace with your emotions. Say things like: “This is how I feel, and that is ok. What has happened has happened, I am where I am. If I had known better I would have acted differently, but what happened happened and I choose to make peace with it.”

The second step is to acknowledge that the emotional pain you are feeling is not really about the situation itself but a product of your own thoughts and beliefs about the situation. The great part about this is that you can change your thinking about this situation and therfore you can affect how you feel. You cannot change what happened, you cannot go back in time and act differently – but you can change how you view the situation and that will make all the difference!

When you change how you view it, you will not only change how you feel but you will also prepare yourself mentally for the next time these limiting thoughts come up, so there is a valuable and strengthening bonus in this! Next time you end up in a smilar situation you will act differently because you have changed your thoughts regarding this topic.

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