Even if no one cares about you – you are loved and adored 🌹

When no one cares about you, learn to care about yourself 🌹. You value does not depend on how many people that love or adore youyou are just as loved, valued and important if no one cares about you as you are if several billions of people care about you. 🙏 You are loved and adored simply because you exist. You have nothing to prove, you have no expectations to live up to – you are loved simply because you exist. 🙏


An ever increasing love and approval from within 🙏❤️

Your value does not increase with the amount of likes you get. Your worthiness does not grow depending on how many people that love or adore you. Neither should your confidence or your happiness.

Turn your eyes away from their approval and disapproval and focus on finding your own inner strength. Once you find it you will feel an ever increasing love and approval from within. It will be there with you always, no matter what you look like or what you do. 🙏❤️

If you are attracted to their praise, their criticism will kill you – break free from that disempowering trap 🙏

“The biggest challenge is to not be affected by praise because a lot of it is not from the heart. Being true to yourself about your strengths and weaknesses, when everyone out there has a strong opinion and wants to give advice, is another challenge.”

Tena Desae

A lot of people will love you, and a lot of people will hate you – and how they feel about you has nothing to do with how you look, what you do, how you are as a person or your worth. How they feel about you is a reflection of their own perspective, their own happiness and their own bitterness.

People mean well, people are kind and appreciative – and it can feel amazing to get someone’s approval and love, just like it can feel awful when someone gives you their disapproval or hatred. When you are easily affected by how others feel about you, it is usually the result of your insecurity, and it gives all your power awayif you are attracted to their praise, their criticism will kill you. Never let how others feel about you be your guidance for how you feel about yourself! Instead, stop caring about what others say, think and how they feel about you. That is the important first step, and it takes time and practice. Then start to find your own stability, find your own value and grow your own love and approval for yourself.

When you stand strong in your own acceptance, approval and unconditional love, you will not be so easily affected by their beautiful words of appreciation or their disapproval any more. That is strenght, that is freedom. 🙏

Dare to love yourself in a society that thrives on your insecurities 💐

Don’t apologize for who you are – we are meant to be different, we are supoosed to live life in ways that call us and that calling is very personal and unique to each person.

Dare to be you in all your magnificent colors. Dare to love yourself in a society that thrives on your insecurities. Wear the dress you love, do the things that make your heart sing and enjoy life in ways that give you satisfaction.

Life is not a quest to fit in, a quest to be liked or a quest to please society – life is a very beautiful gift that has been given to you, take loving care of your gift, of your body and your feelings. This life is for you, go out into the world and embrace it fully.

846 000 views on my blog 🥳

My blog is my safe haven were I go to express my thoughts, feeling and where I share beautiful pictures and quotes that touch my heart. I started this blog for me, and it is such a beautiful bonus that you like it too.

Even if no one ever looked at my blog, I would still love writing and posting my favourite quotes and pictures here, it is my joy, my passion and my desire. 🌹 🌹 🌹

When someone argues with you – it is 100% about the beholder 🙏

“If someone is arguing with you, or finding fault with you, and not liking what they see, say to them, and mean it lovingly and kindly, but mean it sincerely, “You’re seeing something in me, that must be active in you, and I think this is more about you, than it is about me”.

So if someone is having a bad day, and they are angry at you, it’s about their bad day, much more than it is about you. It’s always about the beholder. Everything is about the beholder.

So what you want to do is become more aware of what you’re seeing in others. That’s the thing you want to be aware of. Don’t worry about what other people are seeing in you. Don’t worry about the love they’re giving you, or the love they’re not giving you. Let your awareness be about what you’re putting out. Let your awareness be about how much you’re loving.

We wouldn’t be running around saying: ‘who loves me or who doesn’t love me?’, we’d be saying: ‘who do I love, what is it about you, that I love?'”

Abraham Hicks, Washington, D.C. 5/10/08

Be who you want to be, those who matter won’t mind 🥰

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

– Bernard M. Baruch

Isn’t that a wonderful way to look at it? It can be so reliefgiving to realize that you don’t have to change who you are in order to be loved – you are already loved as you are.

If you feel you have to change your ways in order for them to like you – they are not your friends. A friend loves you as you are, where you are and how ever you feel. No changes are needed if it is true friendship.

Shake loose from their judging gaze and set yourself free 🌼

Let them stare, let them wonder. Let them gossip, let them judge.

When you find it in your heart to forgive them unconditionally, you set yourself free.

You don’t need their approval, you don’t need their validation. Nor do you need their love. Let them be, shake loose from their judging eyes and focus on being there for yourself, supporting yourself and loving yourself unconditionally.

Lovingly say “fuck this shit” and live happily ever after

It is so beneficial for you to learn to prioritize. When people are mean to you, choose to walk away. When people say hurtful things about you, let them ruin their own energy – choose to focus on people who support you and appreciate you instead.

There is no value in pushing against, trying to defend yourself or trying to prove to them that you are innocent – they don´t really care about you. They care about their own misalignment, that is why they are so drawn to putting others down and hurting others – it makes them feel better for a moment. They depend on others in order to feel better which is insanely debilitating. Why would you ever let their own insecurities and misaligned energy be a reason for you to feel bad as well? Don´t give them that satisfaction, take your power back by realizing you are the only one in charge of your focus, your perspective and therefore you are the only one in charge of how you feel.

All things that bother you are insignificant relative to what really matters in life! Just say ” fuck this shit”, and live happily ever after.

Just say no – trust your instinct

Don’t trust everything they say, trust your instinct. If it feels off, it is off. Back away, say no. Respect yourself by listening to what feels right to you. They might try to convince you, they might even get angry when you say no – but you have to be true to yourself and how you feel. Never ever put your inner guidance aside in order to please another person – just say no.

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