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If they turn their back on you πŸŒΉ

Even if the whole world turns their back on you, you’ll always have yourself.

Lady Gaga

It doesn’t matter if the entire world is against you and you are all alone – you deserve your own love and affection just as much as everyone else does. We are all loved and adored simply because we excist. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone, you are already worthy of all things you desire. But YOU have to be there for YOU, you have to support yourself. Believe in yourself and most importantly – begin to love yourself unconditionally. πŸŒΉπŸ™

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It is nice to have people look up to you, adore you and love you – but this is even better:

No matter how much success you have β€” no matter how many opportunities, fame, fortune, no matter how many people accept you to your face β€” the person that really needs to accept you is you.

Lady Gaga

It is nice to have people look up to you, adore you and love you. It is nice to be liked, valued and appreciated. But it is even better to feel true freedom from what other people think of you by knowing your own value so strongly that nothing they say can rock your boat.

If there is one skill you should begin to practice, let it be the skill of self acceptance, self appreciation – the skill of self love.

Don’t be afraid of showing your beautiful body

You would never ask a flower to close its petals just because it is too beautiful or because it shines brighter than all the other flowers… You would never talk behind a flower’s back just because you think its colorful petals attracts too much attention… So why would you ever think derogatory thoughts about a woman who loves her body and likes to wear beautiful clothes?

There is nothing wrong with loving your body – quite the contrary! Most people spend their entire life hating their bodies, trying to change it, hide it, control it and make it fit in with the accepted way of looking according to society. Why??? To please others? To not attract too much attention? To not be picked on?

Have you ever seen a music video or a picture on instagram of famous pop-stars these days? Of Beyonce? Of Nicki Minaj? Of Ava Max? Of Miley Cyrus? Do they hide their bodies? No! Are they ashamed of their beautiful curves? No! Do they confirm to the accepted way of dressing, according to society at large? No! They let their clothes high-light their bodies’ beauty, sensuality and curves. Why is that accepted? Because she is famous!? Because it is a music video!? Because she is rich!? Because she has millions of followers!? Because she can sing!? So… if a person is famous it is ok to post very sexy pictures on their instagram account – but not if you are a regular, unfamous person? Then you are tacky, slutty and should be ashamed of yourself? Really? Do you see the pardox here?

Women should dress the way they feel comfortable in, the way they want to – and we all like different things!!! Some people feel comfortable in baggy clothes, others in tight clothes etc. Women should love their bodies and be proud of their unique bodies no matter what they look like! There is nothing wrong with wearing beautiful clothes or posting sexy pictures online, or uploading sexy music videos – whether you are a famous millionair or not should not set the standards for what you are allowed to wear, post and do! Other people’s opinions should not decide either – you should!

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