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The one thing that harms you the most – and you can do something about it ❤

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Why are some people so mean?

No one who truly loves themselves, who are kind, loving and caring toward themselves would ever hurt another person. How you act and react is a pure reflection of how you feel, and especially how you feel about yourself.

Those who lash out in anger are having emotional pain within and doesn’t know that they have the power to change how they feel. Instead they blame that one and that one… instead they argue, they start wars, they hurt, they try to control… instead of focusing on the only thing that works.

Those who constantly find flaws, criticise and dislike… they are not liking themselves, they are not kind to themselves and they don’t know they have all the power within to change how they feel. That is why they think they feel better when they put others down – it feels better than to feel insecure and powerless. But it doesn’t last so they have to do it again and again… instead of focusing on the only thing that works.

You have to begin with how you feel. You have to begin to sooth yourself, value yourself, care about how you feel and learn to love yourself.

When people treat you poorly 💖

Spend your moment embraced by soothing, loving and kind thoughts 🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️

All is well. Relax, breathe and allow yourself a moment just to be still, and focus on your breathing. Sooth yourself by thinking reliefgiving thoughts such as “I am doing the best I can”, “I want to be a good person”, “I want to honor my body”, “I want to follow what feels like relief to me”, “I want to be a person who loves and appreciates easily”, “I want to be a happy, light-hearted person”, “I am where I am and it is ok”, “Tomorrow is a new day”, “I will enjoy a good night’s sleep and wake up fresh and new tomorrow” …

This moment is perfect, this moment is all you have and all you need. How are you choosing to spend your moment? Spend it with soothing, loving and kind thoughts no matter where you are, who you are with or what you are doing.

This too shall pass, you will feel better again ❤

When contrast is so in your face you just want to run away and hide from the world… remember that you are the most valuable aspect of your life. How you feel is the key to everything – remind yourself to be EXTRA kind and loving to yourself, always. This too shall pass, you will feel better again. ❤

Treat yourself with kindness and respect ❤

Just take gentle baby steps. Think of each day as a new opportunity to love yourself more and be kinder to yourself. One thing at a time, not only one day at a time but one hour and even one moment at a time.

Release all stress, all worry, all insecurity and all fear and lovingly fill your mind with thoughts of kindness and love. Think thoughts that bring you relief, like:

I honor myself, I care about how I feel, I listen to my body’s messages with love, I treat myself with kindness and respect. I am doing the best I can in each moment, given the beliefs, desires, awareness, knowledge I have and the emotional place I am in at the time. I am doing alright, I am doing ok. One step at a time. I am lovingly supporting myself every step of the way.

When they disapprove of you and you feel sad

Allow yourself some time to sooth yourself into feeling better as soon as you feel a little off. Perhaps a comment from someone, expectations from others or something you have done has triggered you to feel bad about yourself and your life. It is ok! It is alright. It is only natural to lose your emotional balance when you listen to or look at things that don’t match how you desire them to be. That is ok. The important part now is that you make peace with where you are, make peace with your body, make peace with your health, make peace with your love life, make peace with your family, make peace with your job, make peace with all your mistakes, make peace with everything. Just mentally make peace with it and lovingly sooth yourself into feeling better. Making peace with it is the first step, the second one is to start caring about how you feel and making yourself a top priority.

Take a moment to just sit down, relax, close your eyes, take a deep breath and remind yourself of what really matters in life. What really matters is how you feel. You have to take care of yourself! Make yourself a priority, the top priority in your life. Be kind, gentle and loving towards yourself, treat yourself like someone you truly love. When you look at yourself, look for things to appreciate. When you think about what you have done – know that you are always doing the best you can given the emotional place, awareness, knowledge and understanding you have at the time. You are enough! You are loved! You are beautiful! You are talented.

It is right for you to listen to your heart, to follow the paths in life that feel best to you. It is right for you to choose what makes you happy, to choose the things that feel meaningful to you. They don’t need to approve of you and what you do, but you do.

Listen with love today ❤

It is not your job to fix everything for everyone else. When they come to you with their problems and difficult situations – just listen with love.

In your mind you can think about how much they mean to you and how much you want their situation to clear up in the most beautiful way. Keep thinking about how you want them to feel and if the timing is right, you will be inspired to speak and what you say will be benefical for them.

Don’t rush, just listen with love and think about how you want them to feel and what you want them to experience. 🌹

It is alright ❤

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