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Weird, different and don’t fit in? Awesome! Keep being you

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Those who hurt you are of immense value and help you on your journey ❤

Just say no – walk away

You are under no obligation to please the people that make you feel uncomfortable. Trust your emotions and honor yourself by following what feels like relief to you. Say no, walk away… there is no need for you to justify or explain. You are entitled to say no. You are entitled to walk away. ❤

Shine as bright as you desire to ❤

Let go of your negative attitude and begin to ENJOY life

Start having more fun in each moment! Your purpose in life is to enjoy your journey in ways that call you.

  • Let go of your complaints – choose a slightly more optimistic perspective.
  • Let go of your guilt and of your insecurites – choose to begin to love yourself unconditionally.
  • Let go of your anger and jealousy – choose to enjoy the moment and look for things you appreciate with everyone and everything that happens.

There are so many good-feeling, little daily things you can begin to do. Be kind and gentle with yourself as you start improving your attitude, begin with the easy things and have fun with it! 🌹

Because of all the pain and suffering – you can become the most confident, beautiful, happy and empowered person ever🌹

It doesn’t matter what you have been through or how difficult your life might seem at the moment – you can let all of it inspire you to now become more confident, beautiful, happy, loving and empowered.

Easily said but is it really true? Is it possible? Of course it is! All it takes is a very, very small desire within you to feel better. That is all. If you have that wanting, no matter how slight, then you can do it. No matter what. It doesn’t matter if you have spent your entire life hating yourself and feeling like a powerless victim – you can become the most confident, blissful, beautiful and empowered person, now.

I grew up with an alcoholic father and my parents mentally abused me all through my childhood until they died – whether they ment to or not. I was sexually abused by three older boys when I was around 6 years old. I was bullied in school, I had reading and writing difficulties, I got anorexia when I was 9 years old, I was raped by two boys when I was 17. I ran away from home a few weeks after that, straight into the arms of an older guy who also had an alcohol addiction and who abused me physically and mentally for almost two years before there was a trial and he went to prison. During that time my mother died. I had no self-esteem what so ever and I absolutely hated myself, I felt like a powerless victim and even wanted to end my life. Then I got pregnant and had to make an abortion, the love of my life cheated on me and then my father died. 🤣

Somewhere around that time – when I was 24 years old – I decided that enough is enough and I felt that I wanted to feel better about myself. So, I began improving my thinking about myself and everything else and little by little I blossomed into the most confident, happy and empowered woman I had always desired to me. As a bonus, I got a job I adored and still work at, got the boyfriend I desired, got huge pay raises, got pregnant twice and had my two little babies… but all of those things are just great bonuses – the most important thing is: I feel good about myself. If I could do it, anyone can. ❤

Keep shining your beautiful light – in all the bright colors that please you ❤

The problems can be solved, your life can and will improve – the magic solution

The place to begin is in your own mind. What to change is your thinking. Take gentle, baby-steps each day in the direction of liking yourself a little bit more.

What you have done, what health issues you might have or what ever the negative experience might be – there is only one thing at the top of your list of priorities, which affects everything, and that is how you feel. When you affect that, regardless the unwanted circumstances, now you have found the magic solution.

Let go of the uncomfortable weight of other people’s expectations and opinions

Let go of your worry, of your doubt. Let go of the uncomfortable weight of other people’s expectations and opinions. Let it go and embrace your freedom.

🌸 Dare to not fit into their idea of beauty – you are already beautiful 🌸

Yes, you are beautiful. Just the way you are. It is time for you to let go of the opinions of others around you, the opinions of society and the world. These opinions are their opinions and that is alright. How you feel about yourself, how you look at yourself and your thoughts, beliefs, desires and opinions about yourself – that is what matters!

It does not matter what you have been through, what your body and your face looks like – you can find a way to love yourself unconditionally, and you can begin now. That is the key to everything. ❤

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