I got an exciting assignment at work πŸ˜Š

Today I went back to work again, and one of my bosses asked me to do something really exciting: She wanted me to talk to all her teachers at a meeting next week. She wanted me to tell them my story, what I have been through and how I managed to turn my entire life around. How cool!

I really look forward to this! I feel so blessed to have such caring bosses that really value me and my talents. I feel so appreciated. πŸ’–


You are not only the main character in your story, you are the playwriter as well πŸŒΉ

You are not your grades, you are not your age, you are not any of the expectations of others that don’t align with your desired version of you.

You are not your mistakes, you are not your past, you are not your insecurities... you are what you choose to be. Each new moment is a brand new opportunity for you to start again. Who do you want to be? How do you want to feel? You are in charge, you are not only the main character in your story, you are the playwriter as well. ❀


2 500 followers and 550 000 views on my blog πŸ˜

My purpose with my blog is to share what I did to turn my life around. This is where I share my thoughts and my beliefs – all the things I wish someone had told me before all my difficulties began. ❀ I want you to know that no matter what you have been through in your life or how difficult it might seem at the moment, you CAN improve your thinking and therfore improve your entire life.

❀ Thank you all for liking, commenting and sharing my posts. ❀ It feels so good to write and post here, this is my safe haven, and it feels even better that so many of you feel inspired by my posts. 🌹🌹🌹


Start loving your awkwardness, your peculiar habits… your everything! β€β€β€


🌹 Embrace your unique figure and allow yourself to blossom πŸŒΉ

You are beautiful just the way you are. Don’t spend any more time comparing yourself to anyone else. You are as unique and beautiful as a rare flower. Let your unique colors shine bright. ❀ A rose doesn’t try to become a lily – a rose embraces being a rose and blooms beautifully in all its splendor. The lily embraces being a lily and shines bright in its beauty. There is no need to try to dim your light or try to be more like othersembrace your unique figure and allow yourself to blossom.


When he doesn’t text you back – find your own love first!

Never let your happiness depend on someone else! Free yourself from the limiting bondage of needing anyone else’s attention in order for you to feel good. You are enough on your own. You are beautiful, smart, loved unconditionally and worthy of all things you desire!!!

Find your own stability first, find your own love and happiness first and then let the interactions you have with others enhance how good you already feel. ❀


What if I fall in love with the right person at the wrong time?


What if I fall in love with the right person at the wrong time? What if the one I am in love with is already in a relationship? What if I fall in love with someone else while I am married?

Love is beautiful. Love is such a strong, wonderful feeling. Anywhere you stand can be the perfect place to stand. Look around where you are and make peace with things as they are. Find the best feeling aspects about your situation and let those be your dominant points of focus as you think of your life.

It is not possible to be standing in a wrong situation – you are where you are and it has to be ok. You feel the way you feel and it has to be ok. Never judge yourself for feeling the way you do, allow yourself to feel all of your emotions and make the best of wherever you might be.

There is no such thing as a one and only true love – millions of people could be the perfect love for you. It all comes down to how you are choosing to view the other person. You can see the best or the worst in everyone. What you choose to focus on is what you notice more of.

You can’t miss your chance of true love because your chances and your opportunities are endless. Begin by making peace with where you are. It is ok, it is all right. You don’t have to make any life changing decisions – just make small decisions along your way that you line up with. Make the choices you make the right choices for you by focusing on the positive aspects. Anything you choose can be the best choice for you because the choice – or the person – is not what makes the difference. Your thoughts about your choices is what makes all the difference.


The one thing that hurt me the most and ripped me apart β€

It was not the sexual abuse, it was not the physical abuse, it was not the mental abuse, it was not the eating disorders, it was not the bullying, it was not the loneliness, it was not my alcoholic parents, it was not the deaths of my parents… or any of the other things that happened to me.

I was the one who let the opinions of others affect my opinion of me, which ripped me apart.

And I was the one who decided to start liking myself again.

No matter what – YOU – have all the power you will ever need within. ❀


When you desperately want them to love and approve of you – let it go

“If someone is arguing with you, or finding fault with you, and not liking what they see, say to them, and mean it lovingly and kindly, but mean it sincerely, “You’re seeing something in me, that must be active in you, and I think this is more about you, than it is about me”.

So if someone is having a bad day, and they are angry at you, it’s about their bad day, much more than it is about you.

It’s always about the beholder.
Everything is about the beholder.
So what you want to do is become more aware of what you’re seeing in others. That’s the thing you want to be aware of.

Don’t worry about what other people are seeing in you. Don’t worry about the love they’re giving you, or the love they’re not giving you.

Let your awareness be about what you’re putting out. Let your awareness be about how much you’re loving.

We wouldn’t be running around saying: ‘who loves me or who doesn’t love me?’, we’d be saying: ‘who do I love, what is it about you, that I love?'”

Abraham Hicks 5/10/08


Never give up my dear β€

No matter what you have been through or how bad you feel – you can improve your life and feel good again. It all begins with you and your thoughts. This is where you make the change – the circumstances might be far from how you want them to be but it does not matter. It has to be an emotional journey first, then you will view everything in a new light.

All those difficulties can actually inspire you to now become stronger, more confident, more happy, more free and more empowered. There is value in everything but it all begins with you and the thoughts you choose. Your perspective is what makes all the difference. ❀

” The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about.”


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