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Your past made you who you are today but your NOW is even more valuable πŸ’–

Your past is of value because it made you who you are today. But your NOW is even more valuable because you can choose to NOW let go of all hurt, all pain and all feelings of being a victim, you can let go of all guilt, all blame, all resentment and all insecurity and begin to replace those emotions and thoughts with hope, optimism, self-love, kindness, respect and appreciation.

NOW is the only time when you can change. No one else can do it for you, only you. Choose to let the success stories of others inspire you, and begin right now. One small though at a time, be gente, kind and loving toward yourself in the process.

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The sun shines brighter after a dark storm – never give up πŸ’–

Time for change πŸ’–

Going through all that shit made me the beautiful, hard, shining diamond I am today β€

Become the person you desire to be

(Painting by Tviatko Knchev)

β€œSo if we want to change some aspect of our reality, we have to think, feel, and act in new ways; we have to β€œbe” different in terms of our responses to experiences. We have to β€œbecome” someone else. We have to create a new state of mind … we need to observe a new outcome with that new mind.”

– Joe Dispenza, ‘Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself’

Where you are is perfect and it will always improve if you let it β€

You are where you are right now so you might as well make peace with it. Make peace with where you are and what has happened and realize how very perfect this place actually is for you. This is only a place where you are right now but you are eternally on your way to more.

This is a journey and you are where you are but since it is a journey you are moving. How you choose to view your now, determines if you move towards more things you desire or away from them.

Your attitude, your perspective and the focus you choose is what makes all the difference in what you allow to come next. You are in charge, right here, right now.

Just start enjoying life

Those who hurt you are of immense value and help you on your journey β€

Let go of your negative attitude and begin to ENJOY life

Start having more fun in each moment! Your purpose in life is to enjoy your journey in ways that call you.

  • Let go of your complaints – choose a slightly more optimistic perspective.
  • Let go of your guilt and of your insecurites – choose to begin to love yourself unconditionally.
  • Let go of your anger and jealousy – choose to enjoy the moment and look for things you appreciate with everyone and everything that happens.

There are so many good-feeling, little daily things you can begin to do. Be kind and gentle with yourself as you start improving your attitude, begin with the easy things and have fun with it! 🌹

Because of all the pain and suffering – you can become the most confident, beautiful, happy and empowered person ever🌹

It doesn’t matter what you have been through or how difficult your life might seem at the moment – you can let all of it inspire you to now become more confident, beautiful, happy, loving and empowered.

Easily said but is it really true? Is it possible? Of course it is! All it takes is a very, very small desire within you to feel better. That is all. If you have that wanting, no matter how slight, then you can do it. No matter what. It doesn’t matter if you have spent your entire life hating yourself and feeling like a powerless victim – you can become the most confident, blissful, beautiful and empowered person, now.

I grew up with an alcoholic father and my parents mentally abused me all through my childhood until they died – whether they ment to or not. I was sexually abused by three older boys when I was around 6 years old. I was bullied in school, I had reading and writing difficulties, I got anorexia when I was 9 years old, I was raped by two boys when I was 17. I ran away from home a few weeks after that, straight into the arms of an older guy who also had an alcohol addiction and who abused me physically and mentally for almost two years before there was a trial and he went to prison. During that time my mother died. I had no self-esteem what so ever and I absolutely hated myself, I felt like a powerless victim and even wanted to end my life. Then I got pregnant and had to make an abortion, the love of my life cheated on me and then my father died. 🀣

Somewhere around that time – when I was 24 years old – I decided that enough is enough and I felt that I wanted to feel better about myself. So, I began improving my thinking about myself and everything else and little by little I blossomed into the most confident, happy and empowered woman I had always desired to me. As a bonus, I got a job I adored and still work at, got the boyfriend I desired, got huge pay raises, got pregnant twice and had my two little babies… but all of those things are just great bonuses – the most important thing is: I feel good about myself. If I could do it, anyone can. ❀

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