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The most difficult choice I have ever been faced with – and I have not decided yet 😅

Ok so the contrast is still here and I have a few days left to make up my mind. I know what I want, I know what I don’t want – but, and this is a very big but: my boyfriend wants the exact opposite of what I want. That is where my dilemma is;

Shall I follow my heart and do what I want or shall I respect and honor my boyfriend’s wishes… I really don’t want to do something that goes against everything he wants…. but I really don’t want to go against me either 😂.

I try to see the situation with a little bit of humor. It truly feels like a lose, lose situation although I KNOW there are only choices you line up with or choices you don’t line up with – and if I make one choice the best choice for me, it will be. I know, logically, that it doesn’t matter what I choose because if I focus on soothing myself into relief and eventually into feeling good unconditionally again, it will work out beautifully well for me. I know these things, but I am in an emotional place right now where I don’t quite feel so at ease and balanced about it any more. And that is ok! It truly IS OK to freak out when things don’t go your way. Your negative emotions are not bad or wrong, it is just guidance letting you know you are splitting your energy = you have a desire that you are currently opposing with lackful thoughts. And that is so true because I don’t just focus on me and what I desire, I focus just as much on my boyfriend and what he desires. And since our belief, wishes, desires and emotions regarding this situation are in complete opposition… it is an emotional tug of war.

So no, I have not decided yet. I don’t have to decide today or tomorrow anyway so I will try to relax about it a little. ❤

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How to make the right choice when your entire future depends on it ❤

First off, play it down. Don’t make it such a big hairy deal – because it isn’t. No matter what. Your life will always improve no matter what choices you make, as long as you make the best of where you are, have an open mind and stop second quessing your choices. Just choose one thing and think about all the positive aspects with that choice – make it the best choice for you, for what you desire right now, and it will be the best choice for you. It is that simple.

There is no value ever in beating yourself up over what you might call mistakes that you have made or that you are making. Instead, sooth yourself by acknowledging that you are always doing the best you can given the knowledge, understanding, awareness, beliefs, desires and emotional state you are in at any given moment.

So, what choices are you faced with right now? They might be small, every day choices, or seemingly bigger ones. Just start to lighten up about it. Relax. What ever you decide to choose, make it the best choice for you right now. ❤

Find joy right here, right now ❤

Who and where you are is perfect ❤

If you want to feel better and improve your life

Right now is all that matters – not yesterday, not last week, not last year, not your childhood – right now. What you said, did, felt and thought before this moment does not have to affect what comes next at all, unless you choose to think about it now – it is only what you are thinking, feeling, saying and doing right now that makes the difference.

If you want to feel better and improve your life – now is when to begin changing what you say, do and think.

Everything you do now affects everything that happens to you. You are 100% in charge.

Let go of all guilt and all blame – make peace with it 🕊

Forgive yourself, you are not your mistakes or your past/present failures. Let it go, it is alright. Sooth yourself into feeling some relief and make peace with what has been.

Take a deep breath and realize that each new moment is fresh and new, all that matters is this moment. You cannot go back in time and erase what you said or what you did or what happened – but you can make peace with it, let go and let it inspire you to now feel better and more empowered.

Let your past serve its purpose – make peace with it and move on!

This is so beautiful because we are always evolving into more and more deliciousness.

Everything is of value! Everything can inspire you to grow and become more of all those things you desire to be.

Let the past serve its purpose – make peace with it and eagerly move on.

How to create the joyful future you desire

Change your future, right now

One important step if you want to feel good now ❤

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