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πŸ’™ I blossom and thrive alone πŸ’™

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I am whole and complete by myself β€

I am complete by myself, I don’t need anyone. If I choose to spend my time with you, it is because I really like you and I enjoy our time together – you just high-light how good I already feel.

Break free from all societal ties – follow your bliss

A relaxing evening with a friend πŸ˜Š

I had a really nice time with my friend tonight. It is extremely nice to get away from home a few hours πŸ˜…, I love my kids but getting a few hours without them can be very relaxing.

We went to my favourite cafΓ© and enjoyed some delicious treats and, of course, talk a lot about lots of exciting things πŸ˜‹.

After we had talked for two hours we decided to go for a walk. 😊 It was really lovely outside, a refreshing breeze and not as hot as it has been the entire day. We talked, laughed and had a really nice time together. I love evenings like these, absolutely perfect.

When they disapprove of you and you feel sad

Allow yourself some time to sooth yourself into feeling better as soon as you feel a little off. Perhaps a comment from someone, expectations from others or something you have done has triggered you to feel bad about yourself and your life. It is ok! It is alright. It is only natural to lose your emotional balance when you listen to or look at things that don’t match how you desire them to be. That is ok. The important part now is that you make peace with where you are, make peace with your body, make peace with your health, make peace with your love life, make peace with your family, make peace with your job, make peace with all your mistakes, make peace with everything. Just mentally make peace with it and lovingly sooth yourself into feeling better. Making peace with it is the first step, the second one is to start caring about how you feel and making yourself a top priority.

Take a moment to just sit down, relax, close your eyes, take a deep breath and remind yourself of what really matters in life. What really matters is how you feel. You have to take care of yourself! Make yourself a priority, the top priority in your life. Be kind, gentle and loving towards yourself, treat yourself like someone you truly love. When you look at yourself, look for things to appreciate. When you think about what you have done – know that you are always doing the best you can given the emotional place, awareness, knowledge and understanding you have at the time. You are enough! You are loved! You are beautiful! You are talented.

It is right for you to listen to your heart, to follow the paths in life that feel best to you. It is right for you to choose what makes you happy, to choose the things that feel meaningful to you. They don’t need to approve of you and what you do, but you do. ❀

Time to stop running after people who don’t see your worth β€

Lending money – saying no because you care β€

Here is a brief update on the lending money topic I wrote about a few weeks ago. I have been asked to help out a very close friend financially every month for many years now, and I still do it. However, more people come to me for financial help – one of them is a person I hardly know. Today I got a message again from her, asking me for money. It just does not feel right anymore – so I finally said no. She has parents, her boyfriend has parents and they have lots of close friends. I and my boyfriend are on our own. Neither one of us has any parents and no one else around. Still I have helped this woman financially many times and at the same time given money to another friend almost monthly and my very close friend as well.

I have to listen to my own inner guidance and what feels best to me. This person who I hardly know will no longer get money from me. I have not given her any money since last time I wrote about this. However I will continue to help out my very close friend and occationally my other friend, as long as it feels ok. Most importantly, I will encourage their own financial independence. ❀

True love and true friendship – you will feel it πŸ’–

It is time to stop running after others, stop trying to get them to like you, stop reaching for their approval, stop depending on their attention and start focusing on you. How do you want to feel about yourself? How do you want to feel in a relationship? How would you like to be treated? What matters most to you?

Then start giving yourself the love, affection and approval you desire. When love and approval comes from within, you will attract those who enhance how good you already feel.

I quit ❀

Tend to your most important relationship and all other topics will work out beautifully well for you β€

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