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You do create your own destiny and it is never too late to change it ❤

Destiny is not something that is written in the stars or already decided – it changes constantly because of how you choose to think and focus each day.

When you change your thinking, you change your destiny – your future experiences … and how you feel matters even more than what you think because your emotions give you 100% accurate and instant feedback on whether you are thinking thoughts that will affect your health, your experiences and everything else in your life in a beneficial way or in a deterimental way.

You can choose, you are in charge – you do create your own destiny and it is never too late to change it – now that is freeing and empowering to know!

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Because of all the pain and suffering – you can become the most confident, beautiful, happy and empowered person ever🌹

It doesn’t matter what you have been through or how difficult your life might seem at the moment – you can let all of it inspire you to now become more confident, beautiful, happy, loving and empowered.

Easily said but is it really true? Is it possible? Of course it is! All it takes is a very, very small desire within you to feel better. That is all. If you have that wanting, no matter how slight, then you can do it. No matter what. It doesn’t matter if you have spent your entire life hating yourself and feeling like a powerless victim – you can become the most confident, blissful, beautiful and empowered person, now.

I grew up with an alcoholic father and my parents mentally abused me all through my childhood until they died – whether they ment to or not. I was sexually abused by three older boys when I was around 6 years old. I was bullied in school, I had reading and writing difficulties, I got anorexia when I was 9 years old, I was raped by two boys when I was 17. I ran away from home a few weeks after that, straight into the arms of an older guy who also had an alcohol addiction and who abused me physically and mentally for almost two years before there was a trial and he went to prison. During that time my mother died. I had no self-esteem what so ever and I absolutely hated myself, I felt like a powerless victim and even wanted to end my life. Then I got pregnant and had to make an abortion, the love of my life cheated on me and then my father died. 🤣

Somewhere around that time – when I was 24 years old – I decided that enough is enough and I felt that I wanted to feel better about myself. So, I began improving my thinking about myself and everything else and little by little I blossomed into the most confident, happy and empowered woman I had always desired to me. As a bonus, I got a job I adored and still work at, got the boyfriend I desired, got huge pay raises, got pregnant twice and had my two little babies… but all of those things are just great bonuses – the most important thing is: I feel good about myself. If I could do it, anyone can. ❤

The changes you are looking for in your life starts within

It is so freeing when you realize that it is not the other person or the event in and of itself that are causing you so much stress – it is your own thinking, your own perception, that limits you. And that is something you can change – right now – whether the event or the person changes or not.

When you realize the power to change is in your hands you will no longer give that power away and feel like a used victim anymore – you will embrace your freedom and empowerment, do the inner changes and outer changes you feel called to. That is true bliss.

Let them have their opinions – this is your life, your happiness and your choices.

You are my perfect soulmate

❤ Trust is an inside job ❤

Feel the freedom in not needing anyone else to behave in ways that please you, in order for you to be pleased.

Being pleased, happy and feeling empowered is always an inside job. Same goes for trust. It is all an inside job and you are 100% in control of that.

Best afternoon/evening ever ❤

I have had the best afternoon/evening ever! First I did a lot of shopping – a lot!

Lots of new beautiful clothes. I think I bought 6 new dresses and somewhere around 10-15 new tops. 😍

Then I met my friend and we went to my favourite diner.

And after that we went to the cinema to see “Red Sparrow”.

Perfect evening. ❤❤❤

3 000 followers and 560 000 views 😍

I am so happy to see that so many people enjoy my blog. I want to thank you all for the love, appreciation and value you enrich my blog with.

This is my safe haven, where I share what is on my mind – where I share my story of how I transformed my life. This is where I want to reach out into the world with hope, love and inspiration. I wish everyone would find their own way into their freedom and empowerment, just like I did. 💖

True love and true friendship – you will feel it 💖

It is time to stop running after others, stop trying to get them to like you, stop reaching for their approval, stop depending on their attention and start focusing on you. How do you want to feel about yourself? How do you want to feel in a relationship? How would you like to be treated? What matters most to you?

Then start giving yourself the love, affection and approval you desire. When love and approval comes from within, you will attract those who enhance how good you already feel.

Alcohol, drugs … it is all just temporary relief, not lasting happiness 💖

Happiness – true, lasting happiness, freedom and empowerment comes from within. Not from millions of likes on a selfie, not from food, not from chocolate, not from sex, not from drugs, not from alcohol, not from money… not from anything else other than from within.

Love NEVER hurts

Love does not hurt – insecurity does, sadness does, anxiety does, anger does, jealousy does… but LOVE only feels good.

When you feel love you feel utter bliss. You feel happy, free and empowered. Anything less than that is not love. Even if you blame the other person for how much you are hurting, it is blame, sadness and those other negative emotions you feel. Not love. Love only feels good.

You might temporarily be tuned out of the frequency of love – that is why it feels so bad, because you LOVE to love and you WANT to love. And when conditions turn up that makes it hard for you to feel love in your heart, of course it will feel bad! But the negative feeling is never caused by love. Ever.

There is an even better way to love someone than most people are practicing: to love unconditionally. If you can truly master this you will not be so easily swept off into jealousy, insecurity, anger, sadness or any other negative emotion you might be very used to fall back into. You will have a stable centre of love, you will see through the eyes of love and you will see value in every situation. Maybe not all the time, but you will easily get back into your place of love when you fall off. Most importantly – you will never blame any one else for how you feel – you will realize that how you feel is your job. Love is an inside job just like happiness. ❤

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