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🌹 The perfect mindset – how to thrive under any and all circumstances 🌹

Perfection is not when everything is perfect and immaculate. Perfection is when you embrace it all, just as it is, and you make the best of it. That is the perfect mindset that will allow you to thrive under any and all circumstances.

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Stress and any other negative emotions are wonderful reminders 🙏

A gentle reminder for today: go slower and breathe more deeply. Stop a few times every now and then to just close your eyes, put your hand on your chest and feel how strong and peaceful your heart beats.

Relax. Stop making such a big hairy deal out of everything. So, people gossip about you? Let them. So, your body is sick and you feel confined by it? Make peace with it. Make peace with where ever you are, no matter how seemingly “bad” it is. Just make peace with what ever it is you have to deal with, breathe more intentionally and allow yourself to go slower.

Stress and any other negative emotion is a wonderful reminder to you that you have forgotten what truly matters in life. What truly matters is not the money, not your work, not your schedule, not your face, not your body’s, condition… Not any of those things you worry about matter more than how you feel. And how you feel has to be unconditional. You can choose to feel fearful or hopeful relative to the situation you are faced with, and when you choose a more light-hearted hopeful perspective – you have figured out how to let the situation improve.

The best part of my day 🥰

I have had a wonderful day today. I feel so appreciated at work and so happy at home with my babies. I really want to take a few moments to list my top 3 best things with today:

1) At work a student told me that she really wanted to continue having me as a teacher next year because she really values me as a teacher. What a nice thing to say!

2) My babies and I had the best evening ever! We played games together and had so much fun.

3) I got a few hours of “me-time” since my boyfriend works nightshifts this week. I adore getting some time completely by myself, especially during the late evenings.

  • What 3 things did you enjoy most about your day?

Have you found your dream partner yet? 🥰

How do you know if the partner you are with is “the one”?

I belive there are millions of potential dream partners out there for you. Anyone of them is “the one” for you. I don’t believe in the notion that we only have one soul mate – I believe anyone you choose to be with has the potential of being your one and only true love. It is a matter of perspective really, and you are in charge of your perspective.

You can choose to look at what you like with the other person and enjoy that, while you at the same time have a loving unconditional perspective of this person as a whole. Everyone has wanted and unwanted aspects, and you can choose what you feel comfortable with and what you don’t feel comfortable with. Ask yourself if you feel good when you are with your partner – if you do, keep enjoying it. If you don’t, move on.

Respect yourself and your partner enough to value how you feel together. If you feel good together, great – keep enjoying your relationship and focus on what you like with eachother. If you don’t feel good together you have two choices:

1) stay with this person, talk about it and work together on improving your relationship.

2) Leave this person but be thankful for the experience you had together. Keep focusing on how you want to feel in a relationship and how you want it to be. Move on with appreciation in your heart and what comes next will be so much better.

A bad day is a good day ❤

There truly are no “bad” days – only days when you feel a bit worse and days when you feel a bit better. The day is not the reason why you feel as you do – your perspective is. The great thing about that is that you can do something about your perspective – regardless what is going on around you – and therefore you can do something about how you feel.

You are never a powerless victim doomed to feeling bad because of horrible circumstances. You can find value in every situation, and you can choose to let it nurture you as a solid foundation to grow from.

Everything we do, say and think builds up who we are – who are you choosing to be?

You can be the happy person you desire to be, even in the midst of a negative situation when you are surrounded by negative people. How they feel and what is happening need not affect how you feel, unless you choose to make it a part of your story.

Everything we do, say and think builds up who we are and the story we take part of. Do you want to be happy or sad? A complainer or an appreciator? A judge or a forgiver? A negative person who sees flaws in everything, or a positive person who chooses to see the good in everyone and everything?

Don’t just mindlessly follow the paths in life that others choose, don’t just look around and react to everything you see – be selective! Let your guiding star be how you want to feel and choose actions, thoughts and words that supports the happy, confident, free, positive, loving, caring and forgiving person that you truly want to be.

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