Don’t give up ❤


Be prepared to receive those things you desire ❤

How would you feel if you knew you would get all those things you desire? Imagine how deliciously exciting that would be!

Play with this for a while and allow yourself to truly feel those good-feeling emotions. That is what believing it before you see it really means. If you can bring yourself to do that, you have found the answer to all things you desire.

How you think and feel about every topic is what attracts certain people, their behavior, the experiences and everything that happens, to you.


How to feel better when you are feeling rage or depression


“Don´t beat up on yourself for not being able to choose the best thought you have ever thought… Just choose the best thought you can find from where you are”.

-Abraham Hicks

This is such an important thing to remember because you can`t find empowered, happy thoughts if you are really depressed or in rage – it is too far away and too big of a vibrational jump all at once. However, you can find thoughts right here and right now that sooths you a little. Thoughts that give you a little relief from the emotional state you are in right now. And from that new vibrational place you can find new thoughts that bring you more relief and so on. Little by little, step by step.

Be kind to yourself! Especially when you lose your emotional balance. Be extra kind and soothing to yourself. You are not a bad person if you feel bad, you are not wrong or less than. You are simply just viewing things in a way that makes you feel bad right now – but you can do something about that! You can shift how you view EVERYTHING, EVERYONE and EVERY TOPIC there is. And when you shift how you view it, how you feel will shift as well. But no big jumps are necessary, or even possible. Just gentle steps toward a little more relief. That is all. And you can begin doing that now. 


How to get the magical change you desire

Change comes when you change your thoughts. Your thoughts – on every topic, no matter how big or small – affects how you feel.

If you want to feel better, you are in charge. How you feel is not dependent on the circumstances or your precious experiences. It is only dependent on the thoughts you choose to think now. Now is where all your power is, now is when you can begin to improve how you feel.

When you change your thoughts, how you feel will change = your vibration has changed. The entire universe will respond differently to you as a result – so as a bonus your entire life will improve to match your new vibration.

It all begins with the small daily thoughts you think, and you can begin to change that, now.


I want to press the “Leave Game” button ❤

Somedays I wish life was like a video game, then I could press the “Leave Game” button and choose a completely different character. ❤

However, this is not a video game. This is my life. I will try to make the best of where I am and sooth myself into feeling a little relief.


It is never too late and it is never hopeless ❤

When you break down after having had an awful reaction to an unwanted situation, gently sooth yourself into feeling relief. It is ok to mess up. It is ok to lose control and get upset. But it doesn’t feel good so now is the time to sooth yourself into making peace with what happened and then begin to focus on how you want to react and how you want to feel next time.

It is never too late and it is never hopeless. The time to start again is now. Believe in yourself and believe in your goodness and you will rise above and succeed.


When you want to save everyone around you – be a light-house

Just rest in the knowing that all is well. You don’t have to have all the answers. It is enough that you do your best to sooth yourself into relief emotionally.

It is not your job to save everyone else – when you start with yourself and tend to your emotional balance you are of most value to others as well. You never see light-houses running around trying to save lost ships, they just stand strong and shine their light.


Rewire your brain to be calmer and more loving ❤

“Neurologists claim that every time you resist acting on your anger, you’re actually rewiring your brain to be calmer and more loving.”

One step at a time. Healthy, loving, caring, beautiful and freeing new habits all start with a small step. That is all that is needed for change. A small baby step today. A small baby step tomorrow.

Never give up! Be even kinder and more patient with yourself. Love yourself more and be your own cheer leader. One tiny step at a time. It is enough that you want to change, that you want to feel better. Keep thinking about how you want to feel, how you want to act and imagine pleasurable scenarios where you see yourself succeed.

Fill your mind with images of your success, feelings of your desired outcomes and thoughts filled with love and appreciation. ❤


Time for forgiveness ❤


The one thing that hurt me the most and ripped me apart ❤

It was not the sexual abuse, it was not the physical abuse, it was not the mental abuse, it was not the eating disorders, it was not the bullying, it was not the loneliness, it was not my alcoholic parents, it was not the deaths of my parents… or any of the other things that happened to me.

I was the one who let the opinions of others affect my opinion of me, which ripped me apart.

And I was the one who decided to start liking myself again.

No matter what – YOU – have all the power you will ever need within. ❤


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