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Love being who you are

Embrace who you are in all your unique splendor. Never try to dim or change your light in order to fit in. Love being who you are. We are not supposed to look the same, we are not supposed to have the same personalities, we are not supposed to like the same things.

We are all unique and beautiful in our own ways – life is supposed to be enjoyed in ways that call you. And only you can know what calls you. But you have to listen. Guidance is always with you, always within. But if you try to dim your own light in order to fit in, you also dim that voice within. But only temporarily, the moment when you begin to care about how you feel and what you like – you will feel your inner guidance stronger than ever again. ❤

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Your acne and your cellulite does not make you any less beautiful! 🌹

I see who you are. I see who you are beyond the external things, beyond your clothes, beyond your makeup, beyond your body.

You are beautiful. You are so loved and adored for who you really are. There is no need to feel sad, ashamed, blameful, jealous or to wish you looked more like this or that. You are beautiful, right here and right now.

It is time for you to once and for all make peace with your body, make peace with your face, make peace with your skin, make peace with your personality and your emotions. Make peace with it all, look beyond all of it and see who you really are. Reach for the unconditional love that flows to you endlessly and eternally.

Your perspective, your life – no judgement ❤

YOU are so beautiful 💖

You are beautiful, sweet and lovely. There is no need for any comparison because you are unique so there is nothing to compare with.

Allow yourself to blossom in your beauty, to thrive in your joy and to shine in your love. You are beautiful, right here, right now. 💖

No more judgments or disapproval ❤

Free yourself from the opinions, beliefs, expectations and judgments of others. Let it all go and enjoy the sweet relief in living and enjoying life in ways that please you.

Dare to disapoint! ❤

You don’t have to put on a mask in front of other people and pretend to be happy and positive when you are not.

I know it is tempting to behave in ways that please others – but don’t forget yourself and how you feel at the same time. Honor yourself and your body by being true to who you want to be. Never do or say something that feels off to you, just because it is was society expects you to do and say. Dare to disappoint! Dare to be different! Dare to value yourself and your emotional wellbeing, first.

What makes you feels good?

  • What makes you feel good?
  • What things make you feel relaxed?
  • What things do you enjoy most?
  • What things give you most pleasure?

Ask yourself these types of questions everyday and deliberately choose to do more things that feel good to you, every day.

Even if you have to do something that you don’t want to do today – say no or do it while you withdraw mentally from the chatter around you and find relief in your mind as you do it. And think about all the good feeling things you will choose to do later.

Value yourself. Love yourself. Take care of yourself and choose to honor yourself by listening to what feels good to you and do more of those things.

Follow the crowd and their expectations? No more

You don’t have to follow the crowd. You don’t have to live your life in ways others expect you to. There is not only one right way of doing anything – there are endless right ways and you get to choose what works best for you.

People may expect you to be social, be a mother in a certain way or perhaps they expect you to marry. It doesn’t matter what it is that they or society or the world expects you to do or choose. What do you want? This is your life, and you get to choose how you want to live it.

There is no point in trying to be a people pleaser because when you do something you don’t feel called to doing, just to please someone else, you go against yourself and it is detrimental to your emotional health and even your physical health.

Start valuing yourself by listening to how you feel and choose what feels better to you. Sooth yourself by acknowledging that there truly is no right or wrong way to do anything. You get to choose. As long as you feel good it will be of value to you and everyone else as well. You can harm no one when you are true to who you are by honoring how you feel and following your bliss.

You can decide who you want to be 

You can always choose to begin again. You can always choose to change. It is never too late. You and you alone can decide who you want to be. 

Never let other people’s opinions of you be the reason you think or behave in certain ways. YOU can choose who you are and what matters most to you, and you are FREE to CHANGE your perspective of yourself. 

Work on loving yourself no matter what they think of you ❤

There will always be those who dislike you and disapprove of what you do. There will always be those who like you and approve of what you do. How others feel about you is always about the perspective, beliefs and opinions THEY hold. It is not really about you. 

Don’t let your mood, your worth, your confidence or how you feel about yourself and your life be dependant on something as fickle as other people’s opinions of you! That leaves yoy conpletely without power! Take your power back by starting to value yourself, unconditionally. Start liking  yourself and honoring what feels better to you. Listen to your inner guidance and follow your own bliss. Allow others to like you and dislike you, approve of you and dissaprove of you – while you work on loving yourself no matter what they think of you. ❤

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