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Just say no – walk away

You are under no obligation to please the people that make you feel uncomfortable. Trust your emotions and honor yourself by following what feels like relief to you. Say no, walk away… there is no need for you to justify or explain. You are entitled to say no. You are entitled to walk away. ❀

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You do create your own destiny and it is never too late to change it β€

Destiny is not something that is written in the stars or already decided – it changes constantly because of how you choose to think and focus each day.

When you change your thinking, you change your destiny – your future experiences … and how you feel matters even more than what you think because your emotions give you 100% accurate and instant feedback on whether you are thinking thoughts that will affect your health, your experiences and everything else in your life in a beneficial way or in a deterimental way.

You can choose, you are in charge – you do create your own destiny and it is never too late to change it – now that is freeing and empowering to know!

Let go of your negative attitude and begin to ENJOY life

Start having more fun in each moment! Your purpose in life is to enjoy your journey in ways that call you.

  • Let go of your complaints – choose a slightly more optimistic perspective.
  • Let go of your guilt and of your insecurites – choose to begin to love yourself unconditionally.
  • Let go of your anger and jealousy – choose to enjoy the moment and look for things you appreciate with everyone and everything that happens.

There are so many good-feeling, little daily things you can begin to do. Be kind and gentle with yourself as you start improving your attitude, begin with the easy things and have fun with it! 🌹

Beach 2018? – adore your body NOW!

Love your body now, exactly as it is. There is so much to love and adore about your physical body! It really is time for you to stop listening to other people’s opinions. Let them be. Let them think as they choose to. Their desires and beliefs are theirs, it really has nothing to do with you.

Allow yourself to love and adore yourself unconditionally, right now.

Because of all the pain and suffering – you can become the most confident, beautiful, happy and empowered person ever🌹

It doesn’t matter what you have been through or how difficult your life might seem at the moment – you can let all of it inspire you to now become more confident, beautiful, happy, loving and empowered.

Easily said but is it really true? Is it possible? Of course it is! All it takes is a very, very small desire within you to feel better. That is all. If you have that wanting, no matter how slight, then you can do it. No matter what. It doesn’t matter if you have spent your entire life hating yourself and feeling like a powerless victim – you can become the most confident, blissful, beautiful and empowered person, now.

I grew up with an alcoholic father and my parents mentally abused me all through my childhood until they died – whether they ment to or not. I was sexually abused by three older boys when I was around 6 years old. I was bullied in school, I had reading and writing difficulties, I got anorexia when I was 9 years old, I was raped by two boys when I was 17. I ran away from home a few weeks after that, straight into the arms of an older guy who also had an alcohol addiction and who abused me physically and mentally for almost two years before there was a trial and he went to prison. During that time my mother died. I had no self-esteem what so ever and I absolutely hated myself, I felt like a powerless victim and even wanted to end my life. Then I got pregnant and had to make an abortion, the love of my life cheated on me and then my father died. 🀣

Somewhere around that time – when I was 24 years old – I decided that enough is enough and I felt that I wanted to feel better about myself. So, I began improving my thinking about myself and everything else and little by little I blossomed into the most confident, happy and empowered woman I had always desired to me. As a bonus, I got a job I adored and still work at, got the boyfriend I desired, got huge pay raises, got pregnant twice and had my two little babies… but all of those things are just great bonuses – the most important thing is: I feel good about myself. If I could do it, anyone can. ❀

Enjoy the compliments and radiate genuine appreciation πŸŒΉ

A beautiful reminder of what really matters in life β€

Yes! I said no πŸ˜„

I am getting really good at saying no. This week I said no to six men on facebook and instagram who wrote inappropriate things to me. I was clear and firm with my no. When they didn’t stop – (and non of them did) I just easily blocked them. Now they will never be able to see my posts, comment or contact me again. Feels awesome! No more polite turn downs – I have a right to just say “no”. It is MY choice.

I also said no to this person who has asked me for money somewhere around ten times since September. He always asks me at night, at the same time of the month, and he always wants me to keep quiet about it. Well – no more! I said no straight away tonight when I got his message. He didn’t even bother to reply but it felt soooooooooo good to finally say no! 😊

I am loving this fresh and new approach to life, people and most importantly to myself. I honor myself by listening to what feels good to me and what feels off, if it feels off I choose what feels like relief instead. Way to go, me! πŸ˜„πŸŒΉπŸŒΉπŸŒΉ

Live your life in ways that please you β€

You don’t need anyone else to love you in order for you to feel loved! No one else can give you the missing piece you are looking for – no one can give you the true feelings of bliss, happiness, love and satisfaction unless you first find it within yourself. ❀

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