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School, work, errands, bills, responsibilities… just stop and remind yourself what REALLY matters ❤

Nothing matters more than how you feel. Nothing. It is so important that you are kind to yourself and that you love and value yourself.

When you care first and foremost about how you feel and you sooth yourself into feeling better, you take care of the foundation on which everything else in your life comes from. You take care of your body, your health and everything else that happens to you because you and your body reacts and responds differently depending on the emotional state you are in.

It is such a difference to stand in an unwanted situation from an emotional place of insecurity and powerlessness than to stand in the very same situation from an emotional place of empowerment and hopefulness. It is the difference between seeing the solutions or not, the difference between recovery or not. Your emotional state is that important. It lets you know exactly how beneficial or deterimental you current perspective is. Start paying attention, start listening to your own inner guidance and start soothing yourself into feeling better, unconditionally.

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A fun new habit that will improve your entire life

Have you been through a lot of negative things in your life?

Are there things in your life that you would like to improve?

What things do you secretly desire? To have your dream body? Finding the fountain of youth? To have endless abundance? Live with your dream partner? To feel confident, happy and empowered?

What ever your story might be and what ever it is you desire – you are in charge and you can do something about it, right now. Everything that happens to you happens for a reason and how you choose to react, what you choose to think about it and how you view every topic of your life affects what comes next. So it is never too late and it is never hopeless.

Begin right now to stop all your negative comments and statements about how it has been, how it is or how it will be. Begin to listen to your words and thoughts – when you hear yourself starting a negative sentence, just have fun with it and play a little by stopping, smiling and saying to yourself “oh my, I am doing it again – how cool that I am so aware of my thinking and what I am saying. I bet this will be fun and easy to gently lean a bit in a way that feels better:

What things do I already like?

What things naturally feel good to me?

What things do I really enjoy?

What brings me pleasure?

How do I want this person to act?

How do I want this situation to play out?

What things would I prefer about this?

If I could have anything I desired, what would I get? How would I feel?”

Just continue asking yourself questions like these every now and then to begin shifting your predominant focus. It is not the big arguments you have or the big drepressive thoughts you think that ruin your life – it it the little seemingly insignificant DAILY thoughts you think that lead to more thoughts that are alike those, which leads to beliefs and more conversations that feel the same way, and more people that reflects more of how you feel back to you until your focus has grown enough that you begin to get manifestations around you and in your own body.

You change it at the root, the cause – your seemingly insignificant thoughts. And that is easier than you think! Just begin with the small thoughts you think right now. If you feel worried, angry, resentful, depressed, insecure… or happy, confident, in love, empowered, satisfied and eager, all comes down to the little thoughts you choose to think in your day to day experience. And you can do something about that even with nothing in your life changing!

You can feel insecure and resentful and have cellulite or you can feel happy and empowered and have cellulite. How you feel – unconditionally – is what attracts what comes next. It is the difference between seeing the solutions or not. Recovery or not.

You can live in a loveless marriage and feel hopeless or you can live in a loveless marriage and feel hopeful. How you feel is the key that will open you up to what comes next.

Have fun with this! Don’t make such a big hairy deal about anything – your life is for you. You are supposed to view and experience contrast so you know what you prefer and come to new conclusions. Just begin to put your focus on what you now know you prefer and stop holding yourself back. ❤

Let go of the drama, walk away from the chaos

A delicious relationship

It all starts with you. If you want to have a delicious, fullfilling relationship with someone else – you have to begin loving yourself, unconditionally. How you feel about yourself will be reflected back to you in every relationship you have, in every interaction. 

The better you feel about yourself, the more confident, happy, free and empowered you feel ON YOUR OWN, the better your relationships will feel aswell. When you have found that strong stable balance within yourself, you are not dependant on others in order to feel good and you don’t blame them when you feel bad. You know your worth wether they know your worth or not. That is empowerment, that is freedom and that is where loving, fullfilling relationships are born. When you come together with that stability within, the relationship enhances how good you already feel. That is a delicious relationship.

Let your negative experiences strenghten you

Why not be more light hearted about everything? Why not spend your time either appreciating something, enjoying something, seeing the humor in the situation or soothing yourself into relief – no matter what the situation might be.

You don’t have to spend your moments pointing out flaws, criticising or feeling bad about something. You don’t have to spend your life feeling guilty, blameful or sad because of some injustice that happened. You always have a choice. You can let your experiences strenghten you by focusing even more clearly on who you now know you WANT to be, how you WANT to feel and what you WANT to experience

It is freeing to say no – you DO have a choice

Forgivness heals your mind, body and spirit


Forgivness is so reliefgiving, not only to the one you forgive but most importantly for you. ❤

Keeping hate and blame in your heart darkens your mind and spirit, no matter how justified you feel in your resentment. Free yourself from the weight of blame by forgiving the other person. 

Allow yourself to lovingly grow stronger and more empowered because of the experience. 

Embrace the love that is flowing to you at all times ❤

You are so valuable and loved, simply because you exist. You don’t have to do anything or change anything – embrace the never ending love that is flowing to you at all times.

Never mind what he thinks about you or what they say about you – how YOU feel about yourself is what affects everything in your life.

Practice thinking loving thoughts, comforting thoughts and uplifting thoughts about yourself and feel the magic that follows.

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