What if I fall in love with the right person at the wrong time?


What if I fall in love with the right person at the wrong time? What if the one I am in love with is already in a relationship? What if I fall in love with someone else while I am married?

Love is beautiful. Love is such a strong, wonderful feeling. Anywhere you stand can be the perfect place to stand. Look around where you are and make peace with things as they are. Find the best feeling aspects about your situation and let those be your dominant points of focus as you think of your life.

It is not possible to be standing in a wrong situation – you are where you are and it has to be ok. You feel the way you feel and it has to be ok. Never judge yourself for feeling the way you do, allow yourself to feel all of your emotions and make the best of wherever you might be.

There is no such thing as a one and only true love – millions of people could be the perfect love for you. It all comes down to how you are choosing to view the other person. You can see the best or the worst in everyone. What you choose to focus on is what you notice more of.

You can’t miss your chance of true love because your chances and your opportunities are endless. Begin by making peace with where you are. It is ok, it is all right. You don’t have to make any life changing decisions – just make small decisions along your way that you line up with. Make the choices you make the right choices for you by focusing on the positive aspects. Anything you choose can be the best choice for you because the choice – or the person – is not what makes the difference. Your thoughts about your choices is what makes all the difference.


“What if my one true love leaves me?”

Then she was not your “one true love”. There are millions of people out there in the world who are looking for someone exactly like you! There is no such thing as only one “soul mate” or “the one and only” – you can have the most satisfying relationship, a relationship where you are both equally in love and finding eachother your soulmate, you can have that experience with many different people.

It is never too late, you are not a hopeless case. If it didn’t work out then you just havent met her yet.

But, do you know the best way to meet your soul mate? By working on how you feel! By falling in love with yourself. By caring about yourself and learning that you don’t need another person to be complete! You are already complete on your own. You don’t need another person to be happy – happiness is an inside job. You don’t even need another person to feel love – love is an inside job. And by always looking for the best in others, always focusing on what you like in others and by practicing unconditional love – now you are a match to true love and you will attract it.

Let the person you meet enhance how good, empowered and loving you already feel – and this will be the most satisfying relationship you have ever experienced!

Love does not diminish over time – love, joy, passion and desire gets stronger and more delicious over time. ❤

A delicious relationship

It all starts with you. If you want to have a delicious, fullfilling relationship with someone else – you have to begin loving yourself, unconditionally. How you feel about yourself will be reflected back to you in every relationship you have, in every interaction. 

The better you feel about yourself, the more confident, happy, free and empowered you feel ON YOUR OWN, the better your relationships will feel aswell. When you have found that strong stable balance within yourself, you are not dependant on others in order to feel good and you don’t blame them when you feel bad. You know your worth wether they know your worth or not. That is empowerment, that is freedom and that is where loving, fullfilling relationships are born. When you come together with that stability within, the relationship enhances how good you already feel. That is a delicious relationship.

My most delicious relationship is with you ❤

Sexual abuse, physical abuse and mental abuse – will it ever heal?

We are all unique and every person experiences life in a unique way. I only speak what I know works for me.

Without going into too much specifics I can say that I have been through a lot of things in my life. Things that brought me to the point where I hated myself, had no self-esteem and even tried to take my own life. I had a difficult childhood with an alcoholic parent. I have been bullied, been sexually abused multiple times, physically abused, had anorexia, ran away from home when I was 17 and ended up in an abusive relationship. My mother died when I was 18 years old and my father died a few years after that, I went through an abortion and much more…

The only way I found to ease my emotional pain when I was a child was by eating delicious food. It worked wonderful, for a moment. But of course the feeling didn’t last because I used external things to make myself feel better. Back then I had no idea that I could improve my own thinking and by that affect how I was feeling. I felt like a powerless victim to all these bad experiences and my hatred for myself continued to get stronger through the years.

It was not until I was 24 years old that I decided I had to do something to improve how I was feeling – and that was when I found out about the authour Louise Hay and started reading her book “You can heal your life”. That was when my changes began. I began to improve my thinking and the effect of my changes were instant. Everything in my life began improving to reflect that positive mental change I was making. I started reading and listening to the teachings of Abraham Hicks and the law of attraction and continued improving my thinking. Within a few years I had changed my entire beliefsystem.

I went from no self-esteem to total self-empowerment, and I did it all by myself. Everything in my life improved as I improved my thinking. I got my dream job, I met the man of my dreams, I could eat what ever I desired and have the body I desired, I got pregnant and easily gave birth to my two little babies who are now 1 years old and 3 years old. We bought a beautiful big house, a sporty car and I got huge payraises at work… but the most important thing was that I felt good! 

This is a wonderful journey of transformation to take and my journey is far from over. It is an endless journey and life will continue to get better and better if you allow it. 

So, to answer the question above – will it ever heal? Yes and no. If you work on improving your thinking, then yes. If you don’t do anything to improve your thinking, then no. You have to find your own ways to improve your thinking, and you have to be gentle with yourself every step of the way. Do I always feel good? No. I still return to some old negative thoughts from time to time and when I do it feels breathtakingly awful. Sometimes it lasts only a day, sometimes more. But now I know what to do, and I know it is only temporary. No matter what you have been through in your life, you CAN improve your life and become the person you want to be. It is never too late, you can begin again, right now. I am here with you, we are all in this together. ♡

Follow joypassiondesire on


%d bloggers like this: