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A fun new habit that will improve your entire life

Have you been through a lot of negative things in your life?

Are there things in your life that you would like to improve?

What things do you secretly desire? To have your dream body? Finding the fountain of youth? To have endless abundance? Live with your dream partner? To feel confident, happy and empowered?

What ever your story might be and what ever it is you desire – you are in charge and you can do something about it, right now. Everything that happens to you happens for a reason and how you choose to react, what you choose to think about it and how you view every topic of your life affects what comes next. So it is never too late and it is never hopeless.

Begin right now to stop all your negative comments and statements about how it has been, how it is or how it will be. Begin to listen to your words and thoughts – when you hear yourself starting a negative sentence, just have fun with it and play a little by stopping, smiling and saying to yourself “oh my, I am doing it again – how cool that I am so aware of my thinking and what I am saying. I bet this will be fun and easy to gently lean a bit in a way that feels better:

What things do I already like?

What things naturally feel good to me?

What things do I really enjoy?

What brings me pleasure?

How do I want this person to act?

How do I want this situation to play out?

What things would I prefer about this?

If I could have anything I desired, what would I get? How would I feel?”

Just continue asking yourself questions like these every now and then to begin shifting your predominant focus. It is not the big arguments you have or the big drepressive thoughts you think that ruin your life – it it the little seemingly insignificant DAILY thoughts you think that lead to more thoughts that are alike those, which leads to beliefs and more conversations that feel the same way, and more people that reflects more of how you feel back to you until your focus has grown enough that you begin to get manifestations around you and in your own body.

You change it at the root, the cause – your seemingly insignificant thoughts. And that is easier than you think! Just begin with the small thoughts you think right now. If you feel worried, angry, resentful, depressed, insecure… or happy, confident, in love, empowered, satisfied and eager, all comes down to the little thoughts you choose to think in your day to day experience. And you can do something about that even with nothing in your life changing!

You can feel insecure and resentful and have cellulite or you can feel happy and empowered and have cellulite. How you feel – unconditionally – is what attracts what comes next. It is the difference between seeing the solutions or not. Recovery or not.

You can live in a loveless marriage and feel hopeless or you can live in a loveless marriage and feel hopeful. How you feel is the key that will open you up to what comes next.

Have fun with this! Don’t make such a big hairy deal about anything – your life is for you. You are supposed to view and experience contrast so you know what you prefer and come to new conclusions. Just begin to put your focus on what you now know you prefer and stop holding yourself back. ❤

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How to rewire the chemistry of your body

Dare to dream big, all your secret desires can come true 💖

A magnificent day and a cozy dress 💖

When I took this picture I had just taken a shower and we were just about to go out and play in our garden. It feels SO GOOD to be back home! So freeing!

It is another awesome day, it is only 9am and it is very warm already. Today we are going to the beach of lake Vättern in Jönköping.

I wish you a magnificent day. 💖

Yes, I have it ❤

There is no supplement, diet, medicine or exercise regimen that is as powerful as this:

Your beliefs and thoughts are wired into your biology. They become your cells, tissues, and organs. There’s no supplement, no diet, no medicine, and no exercise regimen that can compare with the power of your thoughts and beliefs. That’s the very first place you need to look when anything goes wrong with your body.”

Christiane Northrup

How delicious do you want your life to be? 😍

Just imagine everything in your life working out in the most delicious, satisfying ways you can think of – and enjoy the exciting ways your life will unfold.

Are you living the life of your dreams? Are you having the body you desire?

Are you choosing words that strenghten you? – words of praise, appreciation, likes, approval, optimism, fun and love…?

Or are you choosing words that weaken you? – complaining, worry, fear, disbelief, negativity, hate and pessimism…?

The words you speak, the thoughts you think and the concersations you have with others – no matter the topic and no matter how true or justified you are in what you are saying – either strenghten you or weaken you.

It is way more than just words! It is practiced focus of your energy. Are you letting it flow freely or are you blocking it?

If you are not sure – just look around you. Are you living the life of your dreams? Are you having the body you desire? Are you happy? The answers will let you know how you have been using your thoughts and words so far – up until this moment.

But what you are living can change, it can improve – and it starts with the thoughts and words you choose.

Why would such a beautiful girl like me hate myself for over 30 years and have no self-esteem? Here is why:

I got such a brilliant question today and here is my answer:

I grew up with an alcoholic father and my parents mentally abused me. I was sexually abused when I was 6 years old by 3 older guys, I was bullied in school, had reading and writing difficulties, had no friends, developed anorexia (an eating disorder) when I was 9 years old, had no friends during my entire school years, was raped by two guys when I was 17, ran away from home two weeks after that because my father’s alcohol abuse was insane and my parents were so verbally mean to me, I ran straight into the arms of a guy who physically and mentally abused me for over two years until he was sentenced to prison for it. During this time my mother died. I had to go through the two trials all alone – I had no one. I was completely alone, no friends and no one in the world that I could talk to. I did not want to live anymore – I even tried to take my own life. Then my father died, I got pregnant and had to make an abortion…and the man of my dreams cheated on me and lied about it for over a year until the truth came out in the most painful way ever… somewhere there, around the age of 24, I decided that enough is enough and I chose to change my thinking. I started working on liking myself. I did it all by myself – I never told ANYONE about any of these things that happened to me in my childhood/teenage years. It was not until I was almost 30 years old I began talking about it.

So, I guess this answers your question on why such a beautiful girl like me, hated myself for almost 30 years and had absolutely no self-esteem 🤣❤

How you FEEL has nothing to do with the way you look. I had my desired, dream body, but I hated myself and had no self-esteem for almost 30 years. Beauty does not mean confidence. You cant see how you feel, it is 100% about your own thinking – and you CAN do something about that. If I could, all by myself, anyone can. 🌹❤

Choose what feels best to you and allow your body to thrive 🌱

It is not so much about the choices you make, the food you eat or what remedies you might try but how you feel about the choices you make that makes all the difference.

How you feel and what you think and believe affects everything that happens to you – even the way your body responds and how it reacts.

Don’t compare yourself with others and the results they are getting – use the good-feeling examples of others as a source of inspiration and follow what you feel most called to. Listen to how you feel about the different paths avaliable and work on feeling good about the choices you make. 🌱

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