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Trust your heart, you are doing the right thing 🖤

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I have decided, and I am 100% aligned with my choice ❤

Let go of your struggling thoughts, make peace with it

Find a way to better about it and it will be easier to do it. ❤

Do you want to feel worried or happy?

Don’t give up your emotional balance for any relationship

Being out of your emotional balance is a clear indicator that you are thinking lackful thoughts. You can blame it on the situation or the other person but you are the one who is choosing your perspective. And you are the one who are blocking yourself from the answers, the solutions, the improvements and the healing when you think lackful thoughts.

So, you have one option if you want your body, your health and everything else in your life to improve: find a way to sooth yourself into feeling better. Whether you stay in the relationship or whether you leave is irrelevant but you have to work on how you feel if you want lasting change. Sure, leaving the relationship might feel like relief to you – so do it. But you have to leave your lackful thinking aswell otherwise you will just attract more situations and people that feel the same way.

The emotional journey and the action journey are two different journeys. You have to take the emotional journey no matter what action you take, if you want to improve your life.

There is always a way ❤

Life will always get better and all experiences are of value ❤

The most difficult choice I have ever been faced with – and I have not decided yet 😅

Ok so the contrast is still here and I have a few days left to make up my mind. I know what I want, I know what I don’t want – but, and this is a very big but: my boyfriend wants the exact opposite of what I want. That is where my dilemma is;

Shall I follow my heart and do what I want or shall I respect and honor my boyfriend’s wishes… I really don’t want to do something that goes against everything he wants…. but I really don’t want to go against me either 😂.

I try to see the situation with a little bit of humor. It truly feels like a lose, lose situation although I KNOW there are only choices you line up with or choices you don’t line up with – and if I make one choice the best choice for me, it will be. I know, logically, that it doesn’t matter what I choose because if I focus on soothing myself into relief and eventually into feeling good unconditionally again, it will work out beautifully well for me. I know these things, but I am in an emotional place right now where I don’t quite feel so at ease and balanced about it any more. And that is ok! It truly IS OK to freak out when things don’t go your way. Your negative emotions are not bad or wrong, it is just guidance letting you know you are splitting your energy = you have a desire that you are currently opposing with lackful thoughts. And that is so true because I don’t just focus on me and what I desire, I focus just as much on my boyfriend and what he desires. And since our belief, wishes, desires and emotions regarding this situation are in complete opposition… it is an emotional tug of war.

So no, I have not decided yet. I don’t have to decide today or tomorrow anyway so I will try to relax about it a little. ❤

Am I wrong to choose abortion? Do I kill a soul? (No)

A big contrast in my life right now – and I feel empowered and free

Ok… so…. something very big has happened. I can’t tell you what it is just yet but it is one of the biggest things in life. ❤ This is a big contrast and most people would probably freak out and start crying about it 😅, I know I did the first time it happened to me – 10 years ago. But that was then, this is now. I am in a totally different place emotionally and I feel much more confident, happy, free and empowered.

I will have to make a huge decision. And I have to make it fast. Right now I don’t know which choice I will make – there are beautiful and positive, good-feeling aspects, with both choices. For now – for this day – I will allow myself to relax and just trust that all things will work out perfectly well for me no matter what choice I make. And I know it will. These are life-changing choices, and I know my life will only get better no matter what choice I make.

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