Use your own dreams and desires as your guiding light out of the darkness πŸŒŸ

You are on the right track, keep moving in the direction that feels like relief to you. No one else needs to understand your journey, nor can they – only you.

We all want different things in life, we all desire different things. Use your own dreams and desires as your guiding light out of the darkness. Let other people follow their own paths in life that bring meaning to their lives while you allow yourself to listen to your own guidance.

Life will be as meaningful, joyful and satisfying as you allow it to be.


Let them make their own mistakes -let them learn and grow in their own pace

When you judge and condemn others, you have pain within yourself – forgive yourself. Make peace with your mistakes and set yourself free.

Choose to give others the freedom to choose for themselves, the freedom to make their own mistakes, to learn and to grow in their own pace. There is no rush. There is always time. Relax.

Everything we do, say and think builds up who we are – who are you choosing to be?

You can be the happy person you desire to be, even in the midst of a negative situation when you are surrounded by negative people. How they feel and what is happening need not affect how you feel, unless you choose to make it a part of your story.

Everything we do, say and think builds up who we are and the story we take part of. Do you want to be happy or sad? A complainer or an appreciator? A judge or a forgiver? A negative person who sees flaws in everything, or a positive person who chooses to see the good in everyone and everything?

Don’t just mindlessly follow the paths in life that others choose, don’t just look around and react to everything you see – be selective! Let your guiding star be how you want to feel and choose actions, thoughts and words that supports the happy, confident, free, positive, loving, caring and forgiving person that you truly want to be.

If it feels off – say no πŸ™

Say no beacause you love and honor yourself. It doesn’t matter if everyone around you wants you to do it, if it feels off to you – say no thank you.

You don’t have to explain, justify or try to make it up to them just because you want them to be pleased – what about you??? If you do this thing they want you to do, you go against yourself! You have a guidance (your emotions) for a reason, start loving and honoring yourself by listening to your inner guidance.

How to live a meaningful, satisfying and happy life


What brings you joy in your life? What makes you happy? Do more of those things! Stop following the crowd, stop listening to the peanut-gallery – what other people like and dislike has nothing to do with you!

Leave everybody else out of the equation, this is your life. Only you know what things you desire most, only you know what makes you feel good. We all want different things in life, we all have different desires and beliefs. Listen to your heart, follow your bliss and allow yourself to enjoy the things that call you the most. Do not let society, your friends or your family choose for you, they cannot possibly know what calls you the most.

We are not meant to desire the same things, we are not supposed to think and feel in the same ways – our differencesΒ are what makes life so interesting! Lovingly allow others to choose as they want to, lovingly allow them to desire and belive as they choose to while at the same time you allow yourself to desire, believe and choose and you choose to. That is the key to a meaningful, satisfying and happy life.

Honor yourself and the choices you have made – rest in the truth

There are so many people in the world who think they know what is best for you – but they donΒ΄t. Only you can know that. It is so easy to say ”Just follow your heart” but what does it actually mean?

First off, no one except you knows what you have been through. No one except you knows how bad you have felt. No one except you knows how scared you have been and how alone you have felt. Only you. So why would you ever let them and their opinions bother you, when they truly know nothing about what happened to you?

In order to ”follow your heart” you have to turn down the noice from everyone around you and listen inwards. How do you feel? What brings you relief in this situation? You know the truth, so honor yourself and the choices you have made – even though the choices you made were hard.

Life is not always easy, but everything that happens to you can actually be an opportunity for you to grow and become even stronger as a person, no matter how hard it temporarily might seem. This too shall pass, and it will.

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