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When they disapprove of you and you feel sad

Allow yourself some time to sooth yourself into feeling better as soon as you feel a little off. Perhaps a comment from someone, expectations from others or something you have done has triggered you to feel bad about yourself and your life. It is ok! It is alright. It is only natural to lose your emotional balance when you listen to or look at things that don’t match how you desire them to be. That is ok. The important part now is that you make peace with where you are, make peace with your body, make peace with your health, make peace with your love life, make peace with your family, make peace with your job, make peace with all your mistakes, make peace with everything. Just mentally make peace with it and lovingly sooth yourself into feeling better. Making peace with it is the first step, the second one is to start caring about how you feel and making yourself a top priority.

Take a moment to just sit down, relax, close your eyes, take a deep breath and remind yourself of what really matters in life. What really matters is how you feel. You have to take care of yourself! Make yourself a priority, the top priority in your life. Be kind, gentle and loving towards yourself, treat yourself like someone you truly love. When you look at yourself, look for things to appreciate. When you think about what you have done – know that you are always doing the best you can given the emotional place, awareness, knowledge and understanding you have at the time. You are enough! You are loved! You are beautiful! You are talented.

It is right for you to listen to your heart, to follow the paths in life that feel best to you. It is right for you to choose what makes you happy, to choose the things that feel meaningful to you. They don’t need to approve of you and what you do, but you do.

Make a choice and line up with it ⭐

Make room for what makes you feel alive

Yes! I said no 😄

I am getting really good at saying no. This week I said no to six men on facebook and instagram who wrote inappropriate things to me. I was clear and firm with my no. When they didn’t stop – (and non of them did) I just easily blocked them. Now they will never be able to see my posts, comment or contact me again. Feels awesome! No more polite turn downs – I have a right to just say “no”. It is MY choice.

I also said no to this person who has asked me for money somewhere around ten times since September. He always asks me at night, at the same time of the month, and he always wants me to keep quiet about it. Well – no more! I said no straight away tonight when I got his message. He didn’t even bother to reply but it felt soooooooooo good to finally say no! 😊

I am loving this fresh and new approach to life, people and most importantly to myself. I honor myself by listening to what feels good to me and what feels off, if it feels off I choose what feels like relief instead. Way to go, me! 😄🌹🌹🌹

Never change yourself in order to fit in to their version of how life should be lived

Let them follow their own truth. Let them believe in what works for them. Never ever compare yourself to them or change yourself in order to fit in to their version of how life should be lived – we are not supposed to be the same! We are all unique, not just in appearance and personality – but in our preferences, desires and beliefs as well! That is why your choices have to be made while listening to your own inner guidance, not the opinions of others.

Believe in yourself and your own inner guidance system ❤

When you make a choice ❤

Lending money – saying no because you care ❤

Here is a brief update on the lending money topic I wrote about a few weeks ago. I have been asked to help out a very close friend financially every month for many years now, and I still do it. However, more people come to me for financial help – one of them is a person I hardly know. Today I got a message again from her, asking me for money. It just does not feel right anymore – so I finally said no. She has parents, her boyfriend has parents and they have lots of close friends. I and my boyfriend are on our own. Neither one of us has any parents and no one else around. Still I have helped this woman financially many times and at the same time given money to another friend almost monthly and my very close friend as well.

I have to listen to my own inner guidance and what feels best to me. This person who I hardly know will no longer get money from me. I have not given her any money since last time I wrote about this. However I will continue to help out my very close friend and occationally my other friend, as long as it feels ok. Most importantly, I will encourage their own financial independence. ❤

Live your life in ways that bring you happiness and meaning

“Can you identify your desires seperate from the opinion of others? Most important question ever”

– Abraham Hicks

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People around us have so many different opinions about what is right or wrong in regards to all topics. Not just people close to you but society at large – we are surrounded by opinions, beliefs and desires everywhere. “Go vegan, don’t eat meat” – “eat meat, it is the most healthy choice for the human body”… “buy this health food”, “get married”, “have children”, “raise your children in these correct ways”, “don’t eat this and don’t eat that”, “travel on vacation in order to enjoy your life” – there are trillions of more beliefs and opinions that we encounter daily.

We see these opinions on the television, hear them on the radio, read them online while browsing facebook, hear them when we speak to others and so on.

These opinions need not affect you at all as long as you allow yourself to listen to your heart. What really matters to you? What brings your life happiness and meaning? What do you like? What do you enjoy? What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? What do you believe in? How do you want to feel? What feels right to you?

You have all the answers and all the guidance you will ever need within you, you just need to care about how you feel and listen. This is your life, live your life in ways that bring you happiness and meaning.

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