You are not only the main character in your story, you are the playwriter as well ðŸŒ¹

You are not your grades, you are not your age, you are not any of the expectations of others that don’t align with your desired version of you.

You are not your mistakes, you are not your past, you are not your insecurities... you are what you choose to be. Each new moment is a brand new opportunity for you to start again. Who do you want to be? How do you want to feel? You are in charge, you are not only the main character in your story, you are the playwriter as well. ❤


🌹 Don’t worry about your choices and your mistakes ðŸŒ¹

Getting off your path can actually be the best way to get you on your path again. Sometimes a little contrast is all you need to see things in a new light.

Don’t worry about your choices and your “mistakes” – they are all perfect stepping stones that will take you on the most satisfying journey toward everything you desire. Just relax, make peace with your past, present and future while you enjoy the ride.

Act like you love yourself â¤

Allow others to follow the paths in life that call them – allow yourself to choose differently â¤

Keep following your bliss, keep listening to your own inner guidance. Allow others to follow the paths that call them and allow them to choose what they believe in. Allow yourself to choose differently.

We are all unique and we all have different ideas, views, beliefs, experiences and desires. What feels right to you might be very different from what someone else would consider to be right about the situation. Embrace your differences and allow yourself to listen to your inner guidance and let it guide you.

What if I fall in love with the right person at the wrong time?


What if I fall in love with the right person at the wrong time? What if the one I am in love with is already in a relationship? What if I fall in love with someone else while I am married?

Love is beautiful. Love is such a strong, wonderful feeling. Anywhere you stand can be the perfect place to stand. Look around where you are and make peace with things as they are. Find the best feeling aspects about your situation and let those be your dominant points of focus as you think of your life.

It is not possible to be standing in a wrong situation – you are where you are and it has to be ok. You feel the way you feel and it has to be ok. Never judge yourself for feeling the way you do, allow yourself to feel all of your emotions and make the best of wherever you might be.

There is no such thing as a one and only true love – millions of people could be the perfect love for you. It all comes down to how you are choosing to view the other person. You can see the best or the worst in everyone. What you choose to focus on is what you notice more of.

You can’t miss your chance of true love because your chances and your opportunities are endless. Begin by making peace with where you are. It is ok, it is all right. You don’t have to make any life changing decisions – just make small decisions along your way that you line up with. Make the choices you make the right choices for you by focusing on the positive aspects. Anything you choose can be the best choice for you because the choice – or the person – is not what makes the difference. Your thoughts about your choices is what makes all the difference.

Let them call you bad – allow yourself to blossom

You are not bad or wrong – you are you. Unique, loved and worthy of all things you desire.

We are all unique and we are not supposed to be colorless copies of someone else – listen to what calls you, what makes your heart sing and follow the paths that feel good to you.

They don’t know what is right or wrong for you – only you can know that. Your desires, beliefs and preferences are unique to you and therfore your choices will be unique to you.

Let others choose as they see fit for themselves. Allow them to have the desires, belief and preferences they have. But most importantly: let yourself choose what calls you the most and listen to your own desires. This is your life, choose to live it in ways that fulfill you.

Trust your choices and they will work out for your highest good â¤

There is a huge difference between doing something because you are scared of what might happen if you don´t, and doing something because you like the idea of how this will benefit you and how much this will be of value to your body, One of these perspectives has a lot of resistance in it and the other perspective is very allowing, The perspective from which you do something will affect the results.

Make it a beautiful habit to always line up with your decisions. Look at the positive sides of the choices you make, search for success stories from people who have done the same thing, read a lot about the value that can be found in it. Let those aspects be the most dominant ones when you think of your choices.

It is natural and right for you to be selective, to have preferences â¤

You don’t have to love everyone! You don’t have to like everything! It is natural and right for you to be selective, to have preferences!

It is not more virtuous to stick around and force yourself to talk to someone who feels off to you – just because you want to be polite. It is ok for you to go away and find someone else to talk to or something else to do if it makes you uncomfortable to stay with this person.

Trust your instinct. Trust your emotions. It is natural to not jive with everyone!!! We all have different intentions, desires, beliefs and preferences. That is how it is supposed to me. Diversity is the spice of life! With that said you don’t have to pour piri piri into your every meal simply because it is there and others expect you to do as they do. You can choose something else! Same goes for people and experiences.

Honor yourself and honor others by being true to how you feel. Sure it works to fake it until you make it – but you don’t have to. You don’t have to pretend that you like sour milk until you begin to kind of enjoy it – take almond milk instead or something entirely different! 🤣💖

What makes you feels good?

  • What makes you feel good?
  • What things make you feel relaxed?
  • What things do you enjoy most?
  • What things give you most pleasure?

Ask yourself these types of questions everyday and deliberately choose to do more things that feel good to you, every day.

Even if you have to do something that you don’t want to do today – say no or do it while you withdraw mentally from the chatter around you and find relief in your mind as you do it. And think about all the good feeling things you will choose to do later.

Value yourself. Love yourself. Take care of yourself and choose to honor yourself by listening to what feels good to you and do more of those things.

Follow the crowd and their expectations? No more

You don’t have to follow the crowd. You don’t have to live your life in ways others expect you to. There is not only one right way of doing anything – there are endless right ways and you get to choose what works best for you.

People may expect you to be social, be a mother in a certain way or perhaps they expect you to marry. It doesn’t matter what it is that they or society or the world expects you to do or choose. What do you want? This is your life, and you get to choose how you want to live it.

There is no point in trying to be a people pleaser because when you do something you don’t feel called to doing, just to please someone else, you go against yourself and it is detrimental to your emotional health and even your physical health.

Start valuing yourself by listening to how you feel and choose what feels better to you. Sooth yourself by acknowledging that there truly is no right or wrong way to do anything. You get to choose. As long as you feel good it will be of value to you and everyone else as well. You can harm no one when you are true to who you are by honoring how you feel and following your bliss.

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