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Your past made you who you are today but your NOW is even more valuable πŸ’–

Your past is of value because it made you who you are today. But your NOW is even more valuable because you can choose to NOW let go of all hurt, all pain and all feelings of being a victim, you can let go of all guilt, all blame, all resentment and all insecurity and begin to replace those emotions and thoughts with hope, optimism, self-love, kindness, respect and appreciation.

NOW is the only time when you can change. No one else can do it for you, only you. Choose to let the success stories of others inspire you, and begin right now. One small though at a time, be gente, kind and loving toward yourself in the process.

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Going through all that shit made me the beautiful, hard, shining diamond I am today β€

Let your heart be crystal clear and pure

Your heart might be darkened with negativity and complaints – but even if it is from a life time of negativity the darkening is only temporary. The moment you stop the negativity, your heart begins to clear up. Let your heart be crystal clear and pure.

How to get the magical change you desire

Change comes when you change your thoughts. Your thoughts – on every topic, no matter how big or small – affects how you feel.

If you want to feel better, you are in charge. How you feel is not dependent on the circumstances or your precious experiences. It is only dependent on the thoughts you choose to think now. Now is where all your power is, now is when you can begin to improve how you feel.

When you change your thoughts, how you feel will change = your vibration has changed. The entire universe will respond differently to you as a result – so as a bonus your entire life will improve to match your new vibration.

It all begins with the small daily thoughts you think, and you can begin to change that, now.

It is never too late and it is never hopeless β€

When you break down after having had an awful reaction to an unwanted situation, gently sooth yourself into feeling relief. It is ok to mess up. It is ok to lose control and get upset. But it doesn’t feel good so now is the time to sooth yourself into making peace with what happened and then begin to focus on how you want to react and how you want to feel next time.

It is never too late and it is never hopeless. The time to start again is now. Believe in yourself and believe in your goodness and you will rise above and succeed.

When you want to save everyone around you – be a light-house

Just rest in the knowing that all is well. You don’t have to have all the answers. It is enough that you do your best to sooth yourself into relief emotionally.

It is not your job to save everyone else – when you start with yourself and tend to your emotional balance you are of most value to others as well. You never see light-houses running around trying to save lost ships, they just stand strong and shine their light.

Rewire your brain to be calmer and more loving β€

β€œNeurologists claim that every time you resist acting on your anger, you’re actually rewiring your brain to be calmer and more loving.”

One step at a time. Healthy, loving, caring, beautiful and freeing new habits all start with a small step. That is all that is needed for change. A small baby step today. A small baby step tomorrow.

Never give up! Be even kinder and more patient with yourself. Love yourself more and be your own cheer leader. One tiny step at a time. It is enough that you want to change, that you want to feel better. Keep thinking about how you want to feel, how you want to act and imagine pleasurable scenarios where you see yourself succeed.

Fill your mind with images of your success, feelings of your desired outcomes and thoughts filled with love and appreciation. ❀

In the midst of mental chaos β€

No matter how bad things might seem – remember to be kind to yourself! Each word you speak and each thought you think is an affirmation of who you are. Listen with love to what you say and adjust it ever so slightly in a more reliefgiving way.

You are doing the best you can from where you stand. You are a good person, you are loved unconditionally. It is time for you to start loving yourself, from the inside out – no matter what you have done, what you have been through or how long you have been in a negative pattern. Change starts within – and it stats with love. ❀

Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference

There will always be those who disagree with you. There will always be those who dislike you and what you do. Let them.

Don’t meet fire with more fire, hate with more hate. That only fuels the negativity. Let it be.

Keep following what you believe is good. Keep honoring yourself and others by choosing love and compassion even though you are met with hate and criticism.

Someone has to slow the negative momentum, and it might as well be you. Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference.

You always have a choice β€

Wouldn’t it feel great to look at what went right, speak of what you enjoyed most, listen to what excites you and focus on the things that feel best to you?

Imagine the relief if you stopped complaining about your situation, if you stopped telling others about the difficulties. Let it inspire you to talk more about what you have learned from this experience and how you want it to play out next time...

It might seem like an insignificant change of focus but it is the most valuable change you could ever make!

Everything – no matter how big or small – began with a tiny thought. When you change your thoughts you will change what happens to you as well, that is how powerful your focus is! ❀

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