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Why would such a beautiful girl like me hate myself for over 30 years and have no self-esteem? Here is why:

I got such a brilliant question today and here is my answer:

I grew up with an alcoholic father and my parents mentally abused me. I was sexually abused when I was 6 years old by 3 older guys, I was bullied in school, had reading and writing difficulties, had no friends, developed anorexia (an eating disorder) when I was 9 years old, had no friends during my entire school years, was raped by two guys when I was 17, ran away from home two weeks after that because my father’s alcohol abuse was insane and my parents were so verbally mean to me, I ran straight into the arms of a guy who physically and mentally abused me for over two years until he was sentenced to prison for it. During this time my mother died. I had to go through the two trials all alone – I had no one. I was completely alone, no friends and no one in the world that I could talk to. I did not want to live anymore – I even tried to take my own life. Then my father died, I got pregnant and had to make an abortion…and the man of my dreams cheated on me and lied about it for over a year until the truth came out in the most painful way ever… somewhere there, around the age of 24, I decided that enough is enough and I chose to change my thinking. I started working on liking myself. I did it all by myself – I never told ANYONE about any of these things that happened to me in my childhood/teenage years. It was not until I was almost 30 years old I began talking about it.

So, I guess this answers your question on why such a beautiful girl like me, hated myself for almost 30 years and had absolutely no self-esteem 🤣❤

How you FEEL has nothing to do with the way you look. I had my desired, dream body, but I hated myself and had no self-esteem for almost 30 years. Beauty does not mean confidence. You cant see how you feel, it is 100% about your own thinking – and you CAN do something about that. If I could, all by myself, anyone can. 🌹❤

Who decides in you life? You do!

  • Who decides if what you wear is beautiful or not? You do.

  • Who decides if what you eat tastes good or not? You do.

  • Who decides if what you do is fun or not? You do.

  • Who decides what choices feel best to you? You do.

  • Who decides what feels right or not for you? You do.

Give yourself more credit! You are such a worthy, magnificent and capable being. You have inner guidance – the most accurate guidance in the world for you – an that guidance is with you at all times. It is time for you to start listening to your own inner voice, trusting yourself and most importantly follow what feels good to you and start caring about yourself.

Inspiring words – see, hear, feel and be the best version of you ❤

Take a few moments daily to imagine how you desire to feel and be. See yourself happy, in love with life and doing the things you desire most to do. See everything working out brilliantly well for you. 💖

🌹 Embrace your unique figure and allow yourself to blossom 🌹

You are beautiful just the way you are. Don’t spend any more time comparing yourself to anyone else. You are as unique and beautiful as a rare flower. Let your unique colors shine bright. ❤ A rose doesn’t try to become a lily – a rose embraces being a rose and blooms beautifully in all its splendor. The lily embraces being a lily and shines bright in its beauty. There is no need to try to dim your light or try to be more like othersembrace your unique figure and allow yourself to blossom.

You don’t need likes, views or shares to know what is beautiful, right and good! ❤

Listen to that inner voice of excitement, joy, passion and love! That is what following your bliss means. Follow what calls you.

Don’t let doubt block you from living the life of your dreams! Stop listening to the peanut gallery! Stop looking for likes, views and others opinions for approval and validation.

If you think it looks beautiful, it does. If you think it looks like fun, it is. If you think it is a good idea, it is. Trust your own opinions and begin to value how you feel and what you feel drawn to. You have an inner guidance for a reason. ❤

2000 followers and over 530 310 views! ❤

This is incredible. My blog grows like crazy – lots of new followers everyday! 2000 followers and over 530 310 views already! Thank you all for loving, liking and commenting my posts. ❤

Next time I post about more followers will be when my blog reaches 2500 followers. ❤

Your acne and your cellulite does not make you any less beautiful! 🌹

I see who you are. I see who you are beyond the external things, beyond your clothes, beyond your makeup, beyond your body.

You are beautiful. You are so loved and adored for who you really are. There is no need to feel sad, ashamed, blameful, jealous or to wish you looked more like this or that. You are beautiful, right here and right now.

It is time for you to once and for all make peace with your body, make peace with your face, make peace with your skin, make peace with your personality and your emotions. Make peace with it all, look beyond all of it and see who you really are. Reach for the unconditional love that flows to you endlessly and eternally.

Love, joy, confidence, hate, criticism, insecurity – it is all an inside job ❤

No one else needs to approve of you – only you. Their criticism and disapproval says more about them and their inner strenght and weaknesses than you.

A truly empowered being who is filled with love in his/her heart would never ever put anyone else down in any way by words or action. All negativity comes from inner pain, even if they can justify why they criticise. A critical perspective is a lackful perspective and it comes from the eyes of the beholder.

There is value, beauty and goodness to be seen everywhere, in everyone and in everything. You have the power to be selective in your focus and you can even let the negative aspects you see, inspire you to focus more clearly on what you prefer. So all things can be reasons to focus in joyful and loving ways.

Never let the negativity from another bring you down. Remember that they are hurting within, even if they are not aware of it. Choose to see past their negativity, let them be and know that they too have an inner guidance that will guide them if they only want to listen. That is not your job. Change is an inside job. Love is an inside job. Confidence is an inside job. Happiness is an inside job. Everything is an inside job – their negativity and criticism is too. ❤

Continue being the shining inspiring light of joy and love that you are, and those who are ready to feel better will listen. 🌹❤

Everything is of value and life does get better and better for you

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Can everything be to your advantage? Yes! Can everything bring something good with it? Yes! Are there positive sides to everything? Yes! Are there positive aspects in everyone? Yes!!! Is there more good in the world today than ever before? Yes!!!!

How you view life, how you view other people and how you view everything that happens – no matter how big or small – will affect how you feel about it. And yes there are good and bad sides to everything but you can choose what you focus on and even seemingly evil or bad deeds and experiences give you the opportunity to focus more on how you now know you want things to be instead.

So yes, there is goodness everywhere and there is love, value, beauty, hope, faith, confidence, freedom and empowerment to bee seen, heard, felt and experienced everywhere.

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