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Have you found your dream partner yet? ๐Ÿฅฐ

How do you know if the partner you are with is “the one”?

I belive there are millions of potential dream partners out there for you. Anyone of them is “the one” for you. I don’t believe in the notion that we only have one soul mate – I believe anyone you choose to be with has the potential of being your one and only true love. It is a matter of perspective really, and you are in charge of your perspective.

You can choose to look at what you like with the other person and enjoy that, while you at the same time have a loving unconditional perspective of this person as a whole. Everyone has wanted and unwanted aspects, and you can choose what you feel comfortable with and what you don’t feel comfortable with. Ask yourself if you feel good when you are with your partner – if you do, keep enjoying it. If you don’t, move on.

Respect yourself and your partner enough to value how you feel together. If you feel good together, great – keep enjoying your relationship and focus on what you like with eachother. If you don’t feel good together you have two choices:

1) stay with this person, talk about it and work together on improving your relationship.

2) Leave this person but be thankful for the experience you had together. Keep focusing on how you want to feel in a relationship and how you want it to be. Move on with appreciation in your heart and what comes next will be so much better.

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You are never limited by your past experiences

Enjoy who you are becoming, don’t be afraid of change – embrace it! You do not have an obligation to be the same person you were yesterday, a month ago or 10 years ago – you can continue to change, improve and become more and more of who you truly desire to be.

You do not have to be a grumpy toad just because life has been hard – you are never limited by your past experiences, see them as beneficial ground to grow from. You can become more confident, more happy and more free because of all the hard times.

So, ask yourself the important question: “Who am I wanting to become?” and start improving your thinking to match the desired vision of who you want to become.

You have an important choice to make, a choice that will improve your life immediately

You always have an important choice to make because no matter what is going on you can choose to make the best of it. When you choose to make the best of it, your now will improve and if you keep making the best of it, your tomorrows will improve as well.

The clearest of days with the most beautiful warming sunshine might be a wonderful reason for you to feel good for a while… but keep choosing to make the best of your day no matter the weather, no matter what goes on around you and no matter who you are with.

It is not the weather, it is not the people around you or their actions, it is not even your own body’s shape, size, figure or health that makes you happy or not – it is your choice of focus. Will you please try to make the best of it, wherever you are?

Attract what you secretly desire

Play it out in your imagination, take pleasure from the idea of it. Let the feeling of excitement be what you feel when you think about it and you will attract it like a magnet.

Life is supposed to be fun, you are supposed to thrive and all things you secretly desire will be attracted to you once you give up the negative attitude of disbelief that blocks it from coming.

Relax and have fun with this. Let your imagination be your playground where you practice the good-feeling emotions that allows what you secretly desire to come to you.

Lovingly say โ€œfuck this shitโ€ and live happily ever after

It is so beneficial for you to learn to prioritize. When people are mean to you, choose to walk away. When people say hurtful things about you, let them ruin their own energy โ€“ choose to focus on people who support you and appreciate you instead.

There is no value in pushing against, trying to defend yourself or trying to prove to them that you are innocent โ€“ they donยดt really care about you. They care about their own misalignment, that is why they are so drawn to putting others down and hurting others โ€“ it makes them feel better for a moment. They depend on others in order to feel better which is insanely debilitating. Why would you ever let their own insecurities and misaligned energy be a reason for you to feel bad as well? Donยดt give them that satisfaction, take your power back by realizing you are the only one in charge of your focus, your perspective and therefore you are the only one in charge of how you feel.

All things that bother you are insignificant relative to what really matters in life! Just say โ€ fuck this shitโ€, and live happily ever after.

Give yourself the gift of a pleasurable moment ๐ŸŒน

What can you do right now, that will make you feel good for a moment? Perhaps eat something delicious, take a warm bubble bath, listen to your favourite music, call your best friend or watch a fun movie?

Another thing that you can do, which is a really effective way of boosting your mood and giving yourself a pleasurable moment is to fantasize. You can do this anywhere, while you lay down, while you sit, while you stand or while you walk. All you need to do is to visualize a pleasurable scenario and play out something you truly desire. Think of who you want to meet there and what you would love to experience in that moment. Anything you desire can happen in the exact way you like it so take some time to truly enjoy the moment.

Notice how a moment in your imagination allows you to feel better. Let this become a daily habit that you let yourself enjoy a few times during your day. What will you choose to dream about today?

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