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Time for forgiveness ❤

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In the midst of mental chaos ❤

No matter how bad things might seem – remember to be kind to yourself! Each word you speak and each thought you think is an affirmation of who you are. Listen with love to what you say and adjust it ever so slightly in a more reliefgiving way.

You are doing the best you can from where you stand. You are a good person, you are loved unconditionally. It is time for you to start loving yourself, from the inside out – no matter what you have done, what you have been through or how long you have been in a negative pattern. Change starts within – and it stats with love.

The key to a joyful, fullfilling life ❤

Give up your anger, your frustration and your complaining. Just give it up.

With every negative word you speak you are pushing against yourself – so just give it up.

Allow yourself to enjoy more, allow yourself to have more fun. Allow yourself to be more playful and easy going. And most importantly: allow yourself to feel good now, without any of the conditions around you changing.

That truly is the key to a joyful, fulfilling life. To be able to choose to feel good unconditionally. When you are able to feel good – no matter the circumstances – the circumstances will change to match your inner emotional state as well. ❤

Anger management – a reliefgiving perspective

You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.

~ Buddha

I love this quote because it says so much. There is no judgement or punishment outside of you – the real punishment is the negative emotions themselves and the toll they take on your mental health, your physical health and everything else that matters to you.

Harboring anger, letting it grow within and letting it burst out from your every cell – that is extremely detrimental to you.

Even though you think life sucks and that you think those aspects need to change in order for you to feel good… even though you feel completely justified in your anger – it is still very deterimental to you. Let it go. See your anger as hot inner flames that you are choosing to breathe out when you feel them burn within. Let the cool, clear and fresh relief wash through you and cool you down, gently. It is not worth it – just let it go.

Choosing a more hopeful perspective, even though you are afraid – that is where magic happens!

There is such amazing magic in deliberately choosing your thoughts. You don’t have to complain or point out flaws more than just a brief moment, you can move on from the experience by directing your focus on what you now know you prefer and how you now know you want to feel.

Regurgitation of what happens to you is not a skill – it is simple sloppy focus. Easily done but not empowering! Choosing a slightly different perspective, even though it would be easier to complain… choosing a more general perspectice, even though it would be easier to criticise… choosing a more hopeful perspective, even though you are afraid… choosing a more reliefgiving perspective, even though you are sad… now that takes skill and that is both freeing and enpowering. Not only will you feel better while you practice this, you will affect everything that happens to you as well.

Your acne and your cellulite does not make you any less beautiful! 🌹

I see who you are. I see who you are beyond the external things, beyond your clothes, beyond your makeup, beyond your body.

You are beautiful. You are so loved and adored for who you really are. There is no need to feel sad, ashamed, blameful, jealous or to wish you looked more like this or that. You are beautiful, right here and right now.

It is time for you to once and for all make peace with your body, make peace with your face, make peace with your skin, make peace with your personality and your emotions. Make peace with it all, look beyond all of it and see who you really are. Reach for the unconditional love that flows to you endlessly and eternally.

Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference

There will always be those who disagree with you. There will always be those who dislike you and what you do. Let them.

Don’t meet fire with more fire, hate with more hate. That only fuels the negativity. Let it be.

Keep following what you believe is good. Keep honoring yourself and others by choosing love and compassion even though you are met with hate and criticism.

Someone has to slow the negative momentum, and it might as well be you. Even a small light in a dark room can make all the difference.

You are my wolf ❤

I am in love with all your mistakes, all your failure and all your flaws. I am passionately in love with your anger, your jealousy, your rage and your frustration.

I am in love with all of you. There are no “bad” parts or “good” parts – everything about you is magical, magnificent and beautiful.

When my whole world is shattering around me

Where do I find my relief when it feels like my whole world has shattered around me? In the comforting darkess of the night… in the soothing cool rain… in the quiet stillness of the night… that is where I find my relief, my air, my soothing. That is where I find my balance again.

Be the version of you that you desire to be ❤

Choose what kind of person you want to be. Focus on the emotions you want to feel and the personality traits you desire. Feel it, radiate it, be it. ❤

You are the only one in charge of your life. You are the only one in charge of who you are. Choose with love in your heart. All things are possible, it is never too late – you can begin now to be the version of you, you desire to be. ❤

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