Posted at 2:56 pm , on October 20, 2019
What if the very thing that shattered you into a million pieces and left you broken and lost – could also be the very thing you use as your inspiration to grow and blossom into everything you desire to be?
Let your pain be your solid foundation on which you rebuild your inner strength. All the fear you felt can inspire you to trust life more. All those painful actions he put you through can inspire you to forgive others unconditionally. All the powerlessness you felt and all the tears you have cried can inspire you to fill your heart with kindness and love.
It may be quite hard to see your unwanted experiences as something that can be of value to you, when you are still hurting from it. But give yourself time. A lot of time. Yes, it was awful. Yes, it was painful. Yes, you felt powerless and completely ripped of all your security. Nothing can change what he did to you and nothing can change the pain you felt. But, he is not hurting you NOW, he is not doing it to you NOW – so why would you continue to torment yourself, when you can choose to change your perspective of what happened and actually find strength in it?
Give yourself time. 🙏🌹 ❤️
Posted at 9:00 am , on October 20, 2019
Let his hurtful actions make you more forgiving and let your pain inspire you to be even kinder. 🙏
You cannot make hatred go away with more hatred, someone has to break the negative cycle, and it might as well be you.
It doesn’t matter if he isn’t sorry. It doesn’t matter if he wants to hurt you again – you can choose to forgive him anyway because if you forgive him, you set yourself free. Keep yourself as safe and protected as you can while you choose to let kindness and love fill your heart.
Posted at 8:52 pm , on October 19, 2019
To be kind to other people and treat them with respect – no matter what they have done or how they have treated you – that is the most beautiful way to treat other people ❤️ .
Posted at 5:40 pm , on October 18, 2019
It feels so good to come home on a Friday afternoon and know that we can stay at home – where it is safe, warm and comfortable – the entire weekend if we feel like it. Best, most reliefgiving feeling ever. 🙏 🌹 ❤️
Posted at 7:58 pm , on October 16, 2019
Tonight has been so cozy. I hade a date with my best friend.
We went to our favourite café and she surprised me with a birthday gift. ❤️
It was an advent calendar from the Body Shop 😍😍😍.
I was so hungry I decided to order two salads for me 🤤😍. It was a really nice, warm and cozy evening. It feels really nice to have a friend like her in my life. 🙏 🌹
Posted at 6:13 am , on October 16, 2019
If you feel like you have lost yourself, that you have lost your happiness, lost your zest for life and even lost faith in humanity – please don’t give up, just keep breathing.
I know it is breathtakingly hard at times. I know you just want to break down and cry. But keep breathing, especially when it feels tough. It is in these weak moments that you rebuild your inner strength most powerfully. Yes, it hurts. Yes, you are angry. Yes, you are tired. That is exactly how it is supposed to be, you are right on track. Keep breathing, get back up and don’t give up.
Posted at 10:51 am , on October 15, 2019
Last night I ordered halloween costumes for my babies, my boyfriend and me. After all, halloween is just around the corner. It can be very healing and reliefgiving to be playful and have fun.
A moment you spend feeling happy is a moment you allow your body, mind and soul to heal. Allow yourself to relax more, enjoy more, have more fun and be more playful. It is a vital part of the healing journey – and of life as well. How you feel matters more than anything. ❤️
Posted at 7:52 pm , on October 14, 2019
The darkness of the evening soothes my restless soul. My energy replenishes as soon as the evening sky turns black. Nothing makes me feel better than the quiet, dark evenings. It feels as if I can breathe life back into my body once night has fallen.
Posted at 2:49 pm , on October 14, 2019
Today has been so peaceful, calm and relaxing. I have spent the entire day at home with my two little babies since my baby girl is sick today. This was just what I needed, one extra day at home. I really like being inside right now, where I feel safe, protected, warm and secure. I wish I could stay at home forever. 🙏 🌹