How you react matters more than the situation itself

You can’t stop people from being rude. You can’t stop injustice. You can’t stop awful things from happening. However, you can change how you react to their rudeness, and you can be kind, caring and helpful in the midst of injustice and chaos.You can be a part of the solution. 

How you react matters more than the situation itself – and you can do something about that.

There is no rush, no pressure and no judgement ðŸ™â¤ï¸

Be kinder to yourself. It is ok to withdraw from everyone and everything. It is ok to take as long as you need to, and you can start over as many times as you desire to.

There is no rush, no pressure and no judgement. Take it in your own pace. Another year, a decade or a life time. Be kinder to yourself and love yourself as you are. Completely.

You don’t have to wait until you look the way you desire to or feel the way you desire to – love yourself unconditionally, right here, right now. ❤️

Even your nightmares are of value – they are reminders that you have to change your focus if you want to feel better â¤ï¸

When you wake up sweating with fear from a nightmare and your heart is racing with anxiety – take a deep breath, remind yourself that nightmares tell you valuable things as well. How the nightmare played out, and especially how you felt during your nightmare, can tell you a lot about what you are focusing on during your days.

A nightmare can be a gentle reminder that it is very beneficial for you to work on your focus, your perspective of something that matters a lot to you. Unless you work on your perspective, nightmares and other reminders in the forms of more thoughts and emotions during your days regarding that topic will continue to come to you.

So, thank your body for the reminder and choose to use this reminder as a wake up call to work on changing your perspective and your focus during your days to a more optimistic, loving focus.

No matter what challenges your are faced with – feeling panic, fear and anxiety will only stress your body further 🙏 make peace with it â¤ï¸

No matter what challenge you are faced with in your life, feeling panic, fear and anxiety about it will only stress your body further.

It is so vital and beneficial for you to make peace with it and change your perspective. And yes, it is always possible – it just takes a little time and practice.

There is value in everything that happens to you – one day you will understand and grow â¤ï¸

The beautiful thing is, once you have made peace with it completely – it will all make sense, you will understand and see value in everything that happened as well.

“How can I think positive thoughts about cancer, sexual abuse and other awful things?”

Well, you can’t and you don’t have to 😊. Just make peace with how you feel about it. Make peace with feeling fear, make peace with feeling powerless. Make peace with feeling as you do. Your feelings are natural and normal reactions to unnatural circumstances and behavior.

Make peace with what happened to you. You can’t go back and change anything so you might as well make peace with it. It is what it is. But you can choose your perspective of it, and that will change how you feel about it. That is the key.

Feeling good is so good for you â¤ï¸

Always value your own wellbeing first. ❤️

There are so many people wanting so many things from you – therfore it is so valuable for you to listen to your heart and follow what feels like relief to you.

A moment spent feeling good is a moment you fuel your wellness and your vitality. 🌱

When you feel lost in your panic – go slower, breathe through it and sooth yourself back â¤ï¸

When your heart is racing with panic, you have only one job to do: sooth yourself. What you think and fear when you feel lost in your panic is not real, just shadows in your own mind. Breathe through it and trust that this too shall pass as you sooth yourself back.

Nothing matters more than how you feel. If you feel stressed, worried, anxious or any other unwanted emotion – go slower and sooth yourself more.

The rage you feel burning within you – a sign that your body needs your soothing â¤ï¸

The rage you feel burning within you, might actually be your powerlessness and your shattered trust in humanity that needs to be soothed.

Be kinder to yourself and show your body that it is safe and loved, unconditionally. ❤️ You don’t heal yourself by condemning your rage, you heal by understanding that your rage is a sign that your body needs to be soothed. So, start soothing yourself. 🌹

You are not caught in an eternal prison of doom and gloom just because you were abused – you are allowed to feel really good again â¤ï¸

No matter how many times you have been broken and shattered into a million pieces – you will heal if you allow it.

You are not caught in an eternal prison of doom and gloom just because you were abused. Give your body the time it needs to heal. It is ok to feel good again, it is ok to feel happy and excited about life again. You are allowed to feel really good again.

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