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Drop the victim mentality – a change is needed, a change in your perspective

It may seem impossible at times, but it is always possible. There is always hope, there are always endless possibilities coming your way and there are magnificent improvements to every single situation there is.

It may seem dark and gloomy where you stand right now, it may seem as if you are all alone and that all hope is lost. Under these situations your asking for improvements gets stronger and more intense – but as long as you keep looking at what is, keep complaining, keep worrying and keep feeling like a helpless victim, you will continue to stay stuck and suffer.

A change is indeed needed, but the first change that needs to happen is in your perspective! Nothing in these circumstances need to change in order for you to feel better. If you can find a way to think differently about the situation, the situation will change as well. And you are 100 % in charge of your perspective, what you think and therfore you are 100 % in charge of how you feel, regardless the circumstances.

Feeling sad, frustrated, powerless or insecure is not wrong, you are not a bad person just because you are negative – it is natural to feel awful when you experience awful and unwanted things. But you don’t have to stay in that limiting emotional place! If you shift the way you look at it, how you feel will shift as well- and as a beautiful bonus, the situation will improve too.

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24 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. LaCalleDelFondo
    May 28, 2019 @ 13:27:24

    El famoso “taraxacum officinale” tambiรฉn conocido como “Diente de Leรณn” (no se por que pues nunca llevรฉ al dentista a mi leรณn :-p) uno de los dos nombres cientรญficos de plantas que me acuerdo de la รฉpoca de la universidad…Buenas palabras las suyas, muy bien dรญa!

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  2. map195
    May 28, 2019 @ 13:49:32

    true…good post

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  3. Ingeborg van Zuiden
    May 28, 2019 @ 13:57:22

    Just what I needed. Thank you so much!

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  4. Barney Rubble
    May 28, 2019 @ 14:02:56

    Dealing with someone doing this. It blows my mind sometimes.

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  5. sandymancan
    May 28, 2019 @ 14:19:39

    Good Post Being a victim you give up control if everything is some else’s fault then you can’t make a change it’s even up to you to choose to lose, then live with the blues.

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  6. glenmckenzie(justabitfurther)
    May 28, 2019 @ 15:09:41

    Situations always are the same. The differences occur in how we view them. We can view them from the perspective of a victim or change our perspective to be one of change and opportunity.

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  7. davidjhopcroft
    May 28, 2019 @ 15:23:57

    If you remain a victim then you never move forward, however hard it may be to remove the ‘victim’ it has to be done ๐Ÿ™‚

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  8. ChangedLife365
    May 28, 2019 @ 16:02:54

    Yes!!!! 100% take control of your life! Captain Jack Sparrow said “The problem is not the problem, the problem is your attitude about the problem”๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿคฉ

    P. S. If personal development is a topic some of you are interested then check out my blog aswell. I try to live by the mantra “No bullshit what would it take” and try my best to instill this in others aswell โค๏ธ๐Ÿค—

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  9. walkingthroughpsalms
    May 29, 2019 @ 00:45:04

    I love this! So encouraging.

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  10. Barney Rubble
    May 29, 2019 @ 03:01:50

    Jack Sparrow, I mean Captain Jack Sparrow, was right when he said… you may throw my hat.
    Now go and get it ๐Ÿ’

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  11. benjaminlee
    May 29, 2019 @ 12:20:31

    Mindset is key. Change can happen in an instant.

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  12. FrancoArab Magazine
    Jun 01, 2019 @ 09:03:10

    I love it! It was a pleasure to read

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