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Have you found your dream partner yet? πŸ₯°

How do you know if the partner you are with is “the one”?

I belive there are millions of potential dream partners out there for you. Anyone of them is “the one” for you. I don’t believe in the notion that we only have one soul mate – I believe anyone you choose to be with has the potential of being your one and only true love. It is a matter of perspective really, and you are in charge of your perspective.

You can choose to look at what you like with the other person and enjoy that, while you at the same time have a loving unconditional perspective of this person as a whole. Everyone has wanted and unwanted aspects, and you can choose what you feel comfortable with and what you don’t feel comfortable with. Ask yourself if you feel good when you are with your partner – if you do, keep enjoying it. If you don’t, move on.

Respect yourself and your partner enough to value how you feel together. If you feel good together, great – keep enjoying your relationship and focus on what you like with eachother. If you don’t feel good together you have two choices:

1) stay with this person, talk about it and work together on improving your relationship.

2) Leave this person but be thankful for the experience you had together. Keep focusing on how you want to feel in a relationship and how you want it to be. Move on with appreciation in your heart and what comes next will be so much better.

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21 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. The V Pub
    May 07, 2019 @ 18:45:27

    I’m not sure how many soulmates are out there, but I know that they exist. I think that we should consider ourselves fortunate if and when we find them.

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  2. jwise
    May 07, 2019 @ 18:54:53

    My belief is soul mates are few and far between. If you’ve found a true one – great! If not, then it’s usual, the idea of even finding a romantic relationship is finding a comfort to your own life and self. If you know yourself and where/who you want to be, than you can better find that individual who inspires that kind of growth between the both of you.

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  3. sonofabeach96
    May 07, 2019 @ 18:58:23

    Yep, I sure have. Been together 27 years now.

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  4. lifewithlane14
    May 07, 2019 @ 19:53:43

    I thought I had but I was wrong both times but life goes on. I will find the right one eventually. I cherish the experience and beautiful times we had and move forward with no bitterness. Life is too short to hang on to grudges and bitterness. Thanks for this post

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  5. DineshπŸ’•
    May 07, 2019 @ 20:17:06

    Just a way of my thoughts it’s written by your blog😬✌️

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  6. thelonelyauthorblog
    May 07, 2019 @ 22:50:34

    Great advice

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  7. Yernasia Quorelios
    May 07, 2019 @ 23:23:12

    β™‘ I AM Patiently Waiting for the FUCKING FUCKED UP BITCH!!! that is My Soul Spouse to Sort Her Head Out EveryOne πŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š ; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that She is Worth The Wait πŸ˜πŸ™„πŸ€—

    …β™‘β™‘β™‘…

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  8. Yernasia Quorelios
    May 07, 2019 @ 23:24:29

    β™‘ I AM Practising various ways to say “Yes Dear.” that don’t sound patronising; πŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š

    …β™‘β™‘β™‘…

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  9. walkingthroughpsalms
    May 08, 2019 @ 03:34:29

    Beautiful insights.

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  10. Twist the Leaf
    May 08, 2019 @ 05:06:21

    I don’t think that the existence of soulmates, or the theory that there are many someones out there to love and share your life with, are mutually exclusive. Instead, I think -both- are true.

    Yes, everyone has people out there that they are compatible with. People that they can open their hearts and lives to, and love deeply for an entire life.

    BUT, I do also believe there is such a thing as soulmates. I didn’t… not until I met Gideon (my partner). But now? Now I know they exist. But, there are over 7.5 billion people on the planet, so even with the assistance of the internet and all of our modern technologies to help us network, I think that the likelihood of finding that soulmate is… well… one in 7.5+ billion. And those are horrible odds.

    So, while I disagree with the premise in your post? I absolutely agree with the theme of it. Don’t turn away from love just because it’s not that “soulmate” connection. That soulmate may never appear, but love can be found anywhere if you’re open to it.

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