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“How the fuck can you have a positive attitude when someone hurts you so bad it brings you to your knees”?

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Well, what choice do you really have if you want to feel better? Seriously, there are only two choices: 1) Choose to feel like a victim, powerless and sad. Complain about what happened, repeat what happened in your mind again and again and keep yourself stuck in the pain. 2) Choose to allow yourself the time you need to heal emotionally while you, at the same time, start working on how you view yourself and what happened to you.

There is always value with everything that happens – it just depends on how you look at it. Even if someone has done something really bad, you can still choose to let this experience and the behaviour inspire you to build your inner strenght.

If people were always kind to you, and if everyhting was always really pleasing to you, you would never need to challenge yourself to grow as a person. However, if people treat you in hurtful ways and if life gets really tough, you have an opportunity to grow as a person. You can become happier, more confident, more free and more in love with life because of all the hard times. Never let someone else and his behaviour be the reason you dim your own light! You have a choice! Allow yourself the time you need to heal emotionally and then begin to shine brighter because of the experience.

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18 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. ashleyleia
    Apr 02, 2019 @ 13:24:11

    This reminds me of Viktor Frankl, and the positive attitude that helped him to get through the Holocaust.

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  2. Journey-For-Life
    Apr 02, 2019 @ 13:55:03

    I have been hurt by someone who brought me to my knees. At the time, it felt like I wouldn’t be able to go on… but I did. I agree that we have a choice in not allowing ourselves become a victim. great post.

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  3. Yernasia Quorelios
    Apr 02, 2019 @ 15:24:30

    ♡ Because THE ONLY PERSONS!!! who SCREAM!!! at Me ARE Others EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I, and Only, I Decide How I Respectfully Respond then WALK AWAY!!! with Dignity Intact…it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Defined By NoOne but Me; it’s Funny that The Person who is supposed to Love Me The Most, My Mom is NOT!!! Talking with Me because I SWEAR TO MUCH!!! well FUCK HER!!! 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊

    …♡♡♡…

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  4. Yernasia Quorelios
    Apr 02, 2019 @ 15:26:03

    ◇ My Mom is a Christian Too EveryOne; so I THINK!!! explains a LOT!!! 😏🙄🤓

    …♡♡♡…

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  5. Yernasia Quorelios
    Apr 02, 2019 @ 15:43:18

    ◇ So, EveryOne, Do You Have An Opinion on The Difference between BEGGING!!! and Asking 🤔 ? My Experience Suggests that BEGGING!!! and PLEADING!!! Ends in Pain, Hurt and Separation 😔 ; whereas Asking and Chat leads to Understanding, Comprehension and Amicable Parting 🤓

    …♤♧♡…

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  6. John
    Apr 02, 2019 @ 21:06:07

    This. Fucking this. 🔥♥️

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  7. bigskybuckeye
    Apr 03, 2019 @ 19:56:41

    No matter the level of severity of something that happens in our lives, we can always work through God and others to put our life back on the tracks.

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  8. Priyanka Bhoj
    Apr 18, 2019 @ 12:15:13

    Beautiful article<3 Thank you for writing it!!

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  9. righteousbruin9
    Apr 24, 2019 @ 22:42:30

    Re: Life’s challenges-yes, without some adversity, there is no personal growth. Re: The people who don’t like the lady who cusses, well, if they had treated her decently, from the beginning, maybe her cussing wouldn’t have developed.

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