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How to feel good unconditionally, when your world is falling apart ❤

The key is to practice feeling good because you want to feel good, not just respond and react to the situation. To feel good when all things in your life are beautiful, wonderful and going your way requiers just that you look around and react – it is not a sign of inner strenght to just look around and react. That is pretty sloppy creating.

True freedom, empowerment and happiness comes when you pracice feeling good even though there are things in your life that are not as you desire them to be. Perhaps you are sick, your lover left you, you lost your child, you lost your job or something else that you don’t want has happened. To choose to feel better – ANYWAY, without anything changing, THAT IS WERE TRUE FREEDOM AND EMPOWERMENT IS FOUND.

“Is this easy to do?” No. It takes practice. “Shall I begin with the big, life changing events that just brought me to my knees?” No. Begin with smaller, easier things. It is all part of learning to love yourself unconditionally. You can’t go from hating yourself to truly loving yourself completely – just like that. It takes a little time and practice and you begin with easy, gentle baby steps.

The most important part is that you start being kind kind to yourself. Acknowledge that you ARE doing the best you can from where you are emotionally and belief-wise. It is ok. You are where you are and that is alright. See the emotional journey and the action journey as two seperate journeys. You can lose your job and feel hopeless or you can lose your job and feel hopeful. You are still losing your job but how you feel is something you can affect. Start shifting the way you feel about life, your experiences and yourself. Take a more general approach and stop making such big hairy deals about everything. You CAN FEEL GOOD again, no matter what has happened, what you are going through or what will happen. And how you feel is the key to how well things work out for you, and this is all in your hands. Isn’t it exciting, freeing and empowering to know that!? You are not bound by the situation, you are not bound by their actions and you are not stuck. You are always free and in full control because only YOU choose your perspective, and your perspective affects everything. It not only affects how you feel, it also affects what comes next.

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12 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Miha Ella
    Aug 12, 2018 @ 04:40:09

    Inspiring post❤️

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  2. pinkpeeli
    Aug 12, 2018 @ 06:06:31

    Wake up to this post❤ feels good😊

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  3. Akriti pandya
    Aug 12, 2018 @ 17:38:31

    How long has it been since you are blogging?

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  4. righteousbruin9
    Aug 13, 2018 @ 05:13:04

    Yes, a human being makes small changes much easier than large ones.

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  5. lovelyseasonscomeandgo.wordpress.com
    Aug 13, 2018 @ 15:46:00

    Oh my….this is amazing.

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  6. lovelyseasonscomeandgo.wordpress.com
    Aug 13, 2018 @ 15:46:39

    I’d like to reblog your post. Please let me know if it’s ok. Have an amazing blessed day.

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