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Do what feels best to you – they don’t need to understand πŸŒΉ

So many people care more about the approval and dissaproval from others than they do about their own desires and opinions. That is a negative, disempowering trap – if their approval and likes makes you feel good, their disapproval and their disliking you will bring you down. When really – how they feel about you should be irrellevant! How you feel about yourself is all that matters.

If you can find your way into disliking yourself a little less, and then a little less… until eventually you begin to like yourself a little … now you begin to turn the tide and regain your inner strenght. Little by little you can learn to like yourself, as you are. And with gentle, loving baby steps you can learn to love yourself.

When you love yourself you are strong and stable in your opinion of yourself and nothing they say, do or think will bring you to your knees again.

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9 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Miriam
    Jun 06, 2018 @ 23:27:11

    Needed to read this today

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  2. Zeno The Stoic
    Jun 07, 2018 @ 13:06:51

    “So many people care more about the approval and dissaproval from others than they do about their own desires and opinions. ”
    Agreed. Increasingly I could not care less about opinion in general. Do no harm or do some good if you can. Other than that ignore everyone around you. Or at least that is my coping strategy.

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  3. Laura McDaniel
    Jun 07, 2018 @ 14:26:19

    Love this post!

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  4. Francey Jesson
    Jun 07, 2018 @ 14:56:40

    Needed this today.

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    Jun 07, 2018 @ 18:06:47

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