Yes! I said no πŸ˜„

I am getting really good at saying no. This week I said no to six men on facebook and instagram who wrote inappropriate things to me. I was clear and firm with my no. When they didn’t stop – (and non of them did) I just easily blocked them. Now they will never be able to see my posts, comment or contact me again. Feels awesome! No more polite turn downs – I have a right to just say “no”. It is MY choice.

I also said no to this person who has asked me for money somewhere around ten times since September. He always asks me at night, at the same time of the month, and he always wants me to keep quiet about it. Well – no more! I said no straight away tonight when I got his message. He didn’t even bother to reply but it felt soooooooooo good to finally say no! 😊

I am loving this fresh and new approach to life, people and most importantly to myself. I honor myself by listening to what feels good to me and what feels off, if it feels off I choose what feels like relief instead. Way to go, me! πŸ˜„πŸŒΉπŸŒΉπŸŒΉ


Soap is in the air

If you are trapped in a hopeless situation

β€œWhen we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”

Viktor E. Frankl, “Man’s Search for Meaning”

Up all night πŸŒ•

Tonight is one of those nights I am just filled with sparkling energy. It is impossible to even think about trying to go to sleep. I love these hours when everything in our house is dark, quiet and still. The only sound I can hear is the soothing sound of my boyfriend sleeping next to me.

Nights like these I just don’t want to end. I wish I could stay in this lonely, dark, quiet night for a couple of years. It would be lovely with some time just for me. ❀

I hope you are having a good night as well. 🌸

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