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11 years ago I made the best decision ever

In the end of next month it has been 11 years since I started hanging out with this guy. It is still the best choice I have ever made in my entire life. Even though you drive me absolutely crazy – most of the time – there is no one else I would rather spend my time with.

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🌹 A cozy evening 🌹

My baby boy feels a lot better, the fever is gone but he does not want to eat that much. Hopefully he will be much better tomorrow.

When I had put him to bed I spent a few minutes trying on clothes as always 🤣, such a crazy habit, then I had a mudcake and did some pilates.

I hope you had a beautiful evening as well. 🌹🌹🌹

Lending money – saying no because you care ❤

Here is a brief update on the lending money topic I wrote about a few weeks ago. I have been asked to help out a very close friend financially every month for many years now, and I still do it. However, more people come to me for financial help – one of them is a person I hardly know. Today I got a message again from her, asking me for money. It just does not feel right anymore – so I finally said no. She has parents, her boyfriend has parents and they have lots of close friends. I and my boyfriend are on our own. Neither one of us has any parents and no one else around. Still I have helped this woman financially many times and at the same time given money to another friend almost monthly and my very close friend as well.

I have to listen to my own inner guidance and what feels best to me. This person who I hardly know will no longer get money from me. I have not given her any money since last time I wrote about this. However I will continue to help out my very close friend and occationally my other friend, as long as it feels ok. Most importantly, I will encourage their own financial independence. ❤

An afternoon at home with my baby boy ❤

My baby boy has a fever again so I am going to stay home with him this afternoon.

It is so cozy to get some extra time with him before I go and pick up my baby girl from the day care center. Right now he is sleeping peacefully and holding on to my hair as usual. 😍😍😍

I hope you have a magnificent Monday as well.

Live your life in ways that bring you happiness and meaning

“Can you identify your desires seperate from the opinion of others? Most important question ever”

– Abraham Hicks

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People around us have so many different opinions about what is right or wrong in regards to all topics. Not just people close to you but society at large – we are surrounded by opinions, beliefs and desires everywhere. “Go vegan, don’t eat meat” – “eat meat, it is the most healthy choice for the human body”… “buy this health food”, “get married”, “have children”, “raise your children in these correct ways”, “don’t eat this and don’t eat that”, “travel on vacation in order to enjoy your life” – there are trillions of more beliefs and opinions that we encounter daily.

We see these opinions on the television, hear them on the radio, read them online while browsing facebook, hear them when we speak to others and so on.

These opinions need not affect you at all as long as you allow yourself to listen to your heart. What really matters to you? What brings your life happiness and meaning? What do you like? What do you enjoy? What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? What do you believe in? How do you want to feel? What feels right to you?

You have all the answers and all the guidance you will ever need within you, you just need to care about how you feel and listen. This is your life, live your life in ways that bring you happiness and meaning.

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