The storms will not destroy you but strenghten you ❤

There might be storms raging around you, but if you can find relief in your thoughts and keep your emotional balance then the storms will not destroy you but strenghten you. ❤


When I am with you, there is no other place I would rather be ❤❤❤

A day filled with delicious treats ❤

I had a beautiful day at work, my students are so much fun to work with! And, one of my co-worker treated us to a special lunch:

It was delicious! After work I picked up my babies and we went home together.

The feeling when we get home on a Friday is divine!

One of my favourite friends came to visit and we celebrated with some cake. My babies enjoyed some chocolate treats instead. “Chocolate coins”.

Later on we had pizza:

And now we will probably not eat anything else tonight! 🤣 At least not for an hour or two.

I hope you have had a great day and that you will have an amazing weekend. 🌹❤

And now we will spend the rest of the evening in cozy clothes at home. 💖

Take responsibility for how you feel?

“It is not you, it is me” – yes!!!! It is never the other person´s thoughts, words or actions that affect how you feel about them or about yourself – it is your own thoughts, words and actions that affect how you feel about them and yourself.

No one else can make you feel this way or that way without your consent – you are the one who chooses the perspective from which you view everything! So yes, you are actually in charge of how you feel and yes you are the only one who can change how you feel.

Of course others can inspire you to feel a certain way because of their actions and words – but ultimately you are the one who chooses. That is very empowering and very freeing to realize!

Now this is actually rather deep even though it seems so simplistic. One might argue that because of their partner`s actions they were left heart broken and insecure. True, it might feel that way. But, you can work on how you view what happens. Take cheating for example. Instead of letting it break you, you work on looking at it as an act from someone who didn´t really love you – then it is a good thing that you were made aware of this action so you can be more clear about what kind of relationship you want to be in. Do you really want to be with someone who hurts you? Is that really love? Perhaps you want to be with this person anyway and perhaps this action made this person more aware of how he/she wants to feel about you and how he/she wants your relationship to be like.

It is true that only good can come from any experience, but what is important is how you view what happened and the perspective you now choose to have. And you are in charge of that.

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