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When no one likes your picture

Your worth, beauty, sexiness and confidence is not dependant on how many likes you get on a picture you post on social media!!!!

There are people who gets millions of likes on their pictures and there are people who rarely get even one like. The amount of likes has nothing to do with the level of beauty or sexiness. You are as beautiful as you make up your mind to be. It is not what others think that matters – it is 100% what you think that matters. Their disliking of you cannot harm you or lower your confidence unless you make their opinion if you, your opinion. And why would you do that?! It is really silly! It is so easy to get hooked into participating in social media and get lost in the approval-hunt. But it is shallow and untrue. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

You could get to a point where you don’t care whether anyone ever sees the pictures you post! You don’t care whether they like it or not. You don’t care that they say you sould be more this way or that way and that you are too much this and too much that! It is not a game of fitting in to their standars of beauty and sexiness. It is about you. Your opinion of you is what matters most. If you think you look pretty, then you are pretty! No one else needs to agree with you in order for you to like yourself.

Stop looking for approval and love in all the wrong shallow places and start feeling love and approval from the only place that matters, from within.

Ask yourself why you post pictures. Is it because you desire the approval from others or is it because you love the beauty you see shining through from within? It is perfectly fine to post pictures, but let the reason behind your picture posting be empowering for you, not disempowering.

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5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Dabir Dalton
    Jan 21, 2018 @ 11:18:58

    One of the reasons I post under a pen name without a picture is so that I’m judged on my words alone. That said I do have a picture passworded that I only share with a selective few. πŸ™‚

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  2. Dabir Dalton
    Jan 21, 2018 @ 11:45:41

    I left the link to it on early mornings! πŸ™‚

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  3. Throughmylens
    Jan 21, 2018 @ 12:51:21

    So very true! πŸ‘πŸ» Thank you for all the love on my blog hun, I really look forward to reading more from you πŸ’•πŸ˜˜ xoxo

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